Adolescent - October 2007

There's this guy that really likes me and I really like him, but the problem is that he's 3 years younger. Is that too much? When we get older will that seem like no difference at all? He's very matture & tall by the way, a few inches taller than myself, so it wouldn't look weird..

2007-10-07 16:12:11 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am 17 years old. I have a job, I recently graduated beauty school and recieved my cosmetology license, I am currently a sophmore in college and my parents still wont let me stay home alone for one night. In less 8 months I will be an adult, I'm transferring to a university that is three hours away and apparently that is the first time I'll be able to be alone. Despite all of the absolute responsibility and control I have shown, I am still treated like a punk kid. My curfew is usually right around 11:30 and I usually show up around 15 minutes early. What can I do to convince my parents that I'm not a little kid anymore and I can be trusted

2007-10-07 14:36:45 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

My boyfriend well I think, and I have been on and off 2 years and really it has been nothing more or less but argueing and drama with spurts of happpness..I am 5 months pregnant. He does not trust me at all! So when I went to check his e-mail he changed his password)he said he did cause we were fighting) and he wont let me read his emails when he normally would...he said he was asking personal questions on here about our relationship and I would be able to read them when he got some answers back. I am concernced theres a little more to it. before this he wanted to take a break so he could work out and feel better about himself,to better our sex life and so I am attracted to him more. but we would still keep in contact. This sounds not good. I am in a not so normal situation so please pray for me that the baby is at least okay.
do you think there is something else going on? any advice would help

2007-10-07 14:16:57 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm only 13, but there are so many things I want to learn. I want to learn how to paint, and how to make pottery, I also want to learn how to dance (ballet), and to play a musical instrument (I love piano!)... Problem is, my mother is a single parent and we can not only not afford lessons, she works nights and I have school and am also on Probation. What can I do? There are so many things I want to learn and explore, but I can't. =(

What can I do?

2007-10-07 14:13:57 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm 14 1/2 and haven't gotten my period yet. My mom got hers when she was 13. I'm not done growing yet, I'm 5'5'' and 105 pounds, and am only a 32AA. I'm supposed to be about 5'8'' and probably a B cup.

All this morning, my stomach hurt, which I think might be cramps. Also, I've been really tired and moody. Could this be my period coming?

2007-10-07 14:02:52 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

say attacks her mother or begans to try and hurt herself and others, where do they usually go? do they usually go to a nuthouse for children? what if the mother can't control him/her?

2007-10-07 13:03:12 · 2 answers · asked by Jill H 1

I'm a 15 (16 in November) year old boy and things like girls and sex don't interest me that much my, friends keep treating me like I'm some sort of freak and call me all sorts of names like *****. am i normal.

2007-10-07 12:56:01 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

My best friends are planning on coming over sometime this month. In the past, i have had some pretty lame sleepovers and I want this one to be the best of the best and over the top without spending a lot of money. If you have some ideas of some things to do that are not things kids would do (because I'm almost 14), please let me know in detail! Thanks.

2007-10-07 12:39:18 · 12 answers · asked by cheermecrazy 1

So, I'm writing an essay (only 2-3 pages) for my sociology class, and the topic is sexuality. Under the topic, I am given 2 questions that I am able to CHOOSE from that I would like to answer.

1. Eitzen and Baca Zinn (the authors) state "Variance from the social norm of heterosexuality is not a social problem; the societal response to it is." What do you think the authors mean by that statement? Do you agree or disagree? Explain your response.

OR

2. What is compulsory heterosexuality? What are some of the rights and privileges enjoyed by heterosexuals in U.S. society that are not extended to those who are not heterosexual? Is this similar to other forms of discrimination like that based on race or sex?

I would like to get some teenagers' opinions on which topic YOU would have more to say about, and what you think you would like to say.

Please don't be immature about your responses - if we're old enough to be surfing the net, you can be mature enough to give a mature response.

TY!

2007-10-07 12:24:23 · 5 answers · asked by Lindsay 3

What age do you think is the oldest to go trick or treating?

2007-10-07 12:20:52 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm 16, and I feel like my parents are overly strict, although I could be wrong. I'm a good kid - I've never drank, smoked, or done drugs, or done anything really sexual. I get good grades and am very involved in extra-curricular activities. BUT I am not allowed to go to people's houses unless their parents are home. Not just for parties, but even to just watch a movie or chill out. I'm not allowed to be in any situation where there is even a remote possibillity of drugs or alcohol being there. I've been told it's inappropriate for teens my age to go on one-on-one dates. I'm not allowed to stay out past sunset, unless I can get a ride home, and my parents are willing to do it. I'm not allowed to drive until I'm 18 (Although I'm very distractable so that might be realistic).

Is this normal for the parents of a 16-year-old? Or do my parents need to loosen up? If so, how can I get them to do that?

2007-10-07 12:08:08 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-10-07 11:21:18 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

ok so I am known as the good girl it's my rep but I do have a bf !! and no one knows about him! but during lunch we where talking alone in a star well no one really go's to ok so something happened and we where making out and I saw some thing out of the corner of my eye ...IT WAS MY MATH TEACHER!!! so I stopped and ran and know she knows it was me and well I did not see her the rest of that day but what do I do on Tuesday when I have to be in her class!!! plz help!!

2007-10-07 10:22:41 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

I wet my bed almost every night and I HATE it... Why do I do it? And now my mum's also told me that I can't go out with friends and I can't learn to drive or get an ipod until I stop bed wetting.. And I'm trying but I can't....


HELP!!!!!!!


















p.s. Yes my mum asked previously... I am now...

2007-10-07 05:05:38 · 27 answers · asked by Ella 1

ok, kids now are like having sex at like 12,13,14..so on
i want to know how does it affect there health, because i see nothing wronge with them Physically. And back in the 1800's and early 1900's kids WAS haveing sex at that age and already getting married, and kids!!
so whats the big deal now??

2007-10-07 03:36:31 · 34 answers · asked by Christina K 2

ok i got a in school suspention for 1 day cuz i threatned to beat up some girl. enyways they called mi mom and let her know and she grounded me for 1 MONTH! i totally dont think that is fair. but mi dad wouldnt have grounded me for even 1 day. so yea do you think this is fair? i know your opinion doesnt really matter but im just wondering what you think??? btw im 13 gonna be 14 in 13 days and im in 8th grade.

2007-10-06 13:29:14 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

Me and my dad and my brother went to this store today for like umm off road stuff. There was this really cute ATV that was pink. So i was like Omg dad we have to get this. But he's not getting it for me im so mad. What is a good reason to like get it, beacause i really want it.

2007-10-06 12:02:24 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous

My younger sister called me today and was terrified because she had decided to have sex for the first time and the condom broke! she was crying so much and i told her to relax and try to calm down! i told her she needed to tell our mom so she could maybe get the day after pill! she was like no no i can't tell mom and i was like ally u need to tell her! i don't know what to do! i don't want to call my mom but I don't know what to do. did i tell her the right thing! shes only a junior in high school which is way too young to be pregnant! do u think i did the right thing? what else should i have said! should i drive home for the weekend (i go to college 4 hours away) help!

2007-10-06 09:57:16 · 16 answers · asked by Lauren 1

My friend's gay and his parents are super-strict Roman Catholics. They hate gay people and he knows this because they've said homophobic stuff before.

So anyway, we were round at his and his dad came into his room and caught him with his boyfriend. He was grounded for a week and they made him promise he would never do it again. But then last week they caught him again, this time it was in the park and they were driving past. They went absolutely crazy and said if he couldn't stop he couldn't live with them. So he's spent the last week staying at friends houses. They said he could come back when he's "come to his senses".

So basically, they just won't accept that he's gay at all. And it's really dumb, because he's still going to the school that they're paying for. My parents are catholic as well, but I'm sure they wouldn't do that to me.

So what should he do? Apologise and try to live with them (I don't really see any way that he can), or just leave home? He's only 16. Any advice?

2007-10-06 08:49:17 · 21 answers · asked by Emma :) 4

My 12yr old step daughter called my wife a b*%th and a cow today, my wife ignored it but i think she should of taken action to stop it.

After an arguement where i was arguing on my wifes behalf my daughter stormed off to her room. 10mins later she came down asking for a sleepover. I instantly said no, but have since been arguing with my wife who thinks she should be allowed one.

Am i in the wrong?

2007-10-06 06:01:07 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous

That show used to be on like 12 years ago when i was like 4 or 5! I remember it was my favorite show...I know random but I heard someone say Gullah Gullah Island and I was like omg that was my fav show! Anyone else remember it! Also, I just thought of another show something like Richard Scarys i don't remember what it was called but I remember there was a worm and like a fox or some kind of animal and some hand man guy that fixed things...do u know what im talking about?

2007-10-06 01:43:05 · 17 answers · asked by Katie 1

2007-10-05 21:55:04 · 17 answers · asked by starbrite74♥♥ 3

Last question i asked i got a lot of negative answers. Maybe it was the way i put it, i got a lot of grow ups. I can see my family is having money problems. Instead of me asking for my parents for things i want is hard. because i see they are having a hard time. I want a new cellphone, i have an old one that has a "bleeding screen". I just want a simple cheap one. and guitar hero for my little brothers PS3. Truely i just want to make some money. I can't really work in fast food, because i have a temporary medical condition.
What are some other things i could do to earn some money?

2007-10-05 17:39:44 · 11 answers · asked by Jenn H 1

there's a lot of girls at my school that say i'm a s.lut because of the way i dress. i don't even act like a s.lut. i mean i don't go around and take people's bf's or whatever. yes i do admitt that i wear low-cut tops but they're not like over the top low-cut. and i do break the dress code with my shorts and tank tops and stuff but that's not reason to judge me before you know me. what's your opinion?

2007-10-05 16:14:31 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

i have a brother that is 15 and he still sleeps with his baby blanket and cuddles with it?

2007-10-05 15:57:39 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous

how should i react to finding the test?

2007-10-05 11:29:05 · 20 answers · asked by mother of 15year old 1

I want to know the exact safe days on which If I have sex with my gf,chances of her getting pregnant will be minimum??please explain also properly which day is taken to to day 1 like that.
Please only serious answers,no non-sense

2007-10-05 03:41:36 · 26 answers · asked by kool_karan 2

in the UK what is the kind of normal time for them to come in at night?

2007-10-05 01:44:35 · 29 answers · asked by slick chic 2

Everyone's in bed but I just heard him get up and ask my Mum if he could go for a walk.

We live in a safe neighbourhood, but of course Mum said no.

I'm thinking it's not just a walk to clear his head...

What on earth is my brother up to? Does it sound suss to you?

2007-10-05 00:16:35 · 21 answers · asked by ★☆✿❀ 7

Recently after I got home from work early, I walked into my daughters room to see if she was home yet, and I saw her and my son engaging in sexual intercourse. I quickly stopped them and sent them to their rooms, but how am I supposed to talk to them about this? She is 16 and he is 15 by the way. Sorry if the subject matter is abit disturbing but I have never dealt with anything like this before and really need some advice. Thanks

2007-10-04 16:48:27 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous