ok i got a in school suspention for 1 day cuz i threatned to beat up some girl. enyways they called mi mom and let her know and she grounded me for 1 MONTH! i totally dont think that is fair. but mi dad wouldnt have grounded me for even 1 day. so yea do you think this is fair? i know your opinion doesnt really matter but im just wondering what you think??? btw im 13 gonna be 14 in 13 days and im in 8th grade.
2007-10-06 13:29:14 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
first of all im not a bully. it all started cuz we like tha same guy and she said that if i didnt leave him alone she wuz gonna punch me in the face so we started cussin at each other and we got sent to the office and we got the problem solved "not really" but later on in the school day i wuz writtin a note to mi friend sayin i wuz gonna fight her and the teacher took the note and gave it to the principal so yea.......
2007-10-06 13:44:17 · update #1
Yes that is fair. What is grounding to your mother tho? If I was grounded when I was growing up I wouldn't be on the computer. You shouldn't be threatening people. Yeah... if someone punches you, you better hit them back--dont take crap from people. But seriously, come on, over a guy? In 8th grade? I think its pathetic for a girl to fight over a guy she isn't with, and you are making yourself pathetic by playing her game. Don't worry about it until she touches you. When she does, whoop her ***.
2007-10-06 14:00:59 · answer #1 · answered by ϑennaß 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
This is totally unfair... Not the part about calling your mother or you getting grounded. It is uunfair that you got suspended and the other girl didn't if she threatened to punch you she should get in the same amount of trouble. FYI writing things down that you wouldn't say directly to an adult/teacher/principal is a bad idea. As for the calling your parents part that is normal procedure at any school. And you getting grounded is only expected you did get suspended. Maybe your dad wouldn't have punished you but that doesn't really matter now since your mom already did so just deal with it.
2007-10-06 22:05:29 · answer #2 · answered by ♥me♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she hates the way you say mi instead of me? Maybe fighting doesn't solve anything, because when you fight, what happens after that, you still hate the person, the guy will not date either of you because fighting is immature and you just get in trouble for basically trying to beat the crap out of each other. Its stupid. Go to school, do your work, and go home. School is there for education purposes you dont go there to be popular, have sex with the guys, or to fight. I hate when people fight at school, wait and meet each other somewhere at least, dont mess up others peoples lifes over a somebody you wont even remember when you graduate. Its dumb. Plus your 13, get your freaking period before you start trying to "fight" over a freaking guy.
2007-10-06 23:23:18 · answer #3 · answered by ♥♥Meghan♥♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like your problem is your dad. He's pretty much showed you that you can get in trouble and he doesn't care. The good thing is your mom does care! She was right for grounding you. If I were your mom, I'd do more than just ground you. Oh I know you think your all that, and that's because your insecure so it makes you feel better to bully other kids. I grew up with kids like you, and they're no one special now. They have no job live on welfare do drugs and end up in jail. So good for you keep it up. You'll turn out just the way you want. A criminal. Or suck up the punishment, and change yourself to someone everyone would want to be friends with.
2007-10-06 20:39:38 · answer #4 · answered by Laura B 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I can imagine what ur going through. It may not seem fair to you but you have to realize your accountable for your actions and for what you say. Be happy that your mom cares. She grounded u because she doesnt want this behavior to repeat it self. As you get older, and if u go around threating people whether u mean it or not u maybe facing tougher consequences. If your adult u could go to jail/
Girls will be girls. They will try to talk mess to you and try to get you mad and wanting u to do something to them so they can turn the tables on u and get u in trouble.
U have to be strong and not let them get you. Talk to your mom about what happen and ask her y she punished u for so long. Maybe the two of u can come to an agreement. Good Luck
2007-10-10 19:23:14 · answer #5 · answered by Mia 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess it's fair since you threatened someone
try to work it out with the person
you shouoldn't be a threat and make them feel bad
if I were to do that my dad wouldn't care..
but hes currently in jail prison so how would I know...
SORRY but it is fair
just because you have the same taste in guys doesn't mean you shouild hate eachother
try to work something out and ignore it when someone talking crap
2007-10-06 22:57:20 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Little Barb beating up girls ain't no different from beating up guys!
And I don't think grounding for a month is really necessary. It should've been while you were suspended. Just don't fight anyone unless they're fighting you first. That way it's self defense.
2007-10-06 21:35:43 · answer #7 · answered by S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should have gotten in trouble for threatening to beat someone up. Fighting is not lady like and it does not solve anything. You do know that when you are over 18, you go to jail for fighting?
2007-10-06 20:35:04 · answer #8 · answered by Amanda K 5 · 5⤊ 0⤋
I do not think this was fair.You deserved a longer suspension and then only be allowed to be admitted again as a probationary student.Any further misconduct.full expulsion.The problem is that youwere acting like a punk.Your mother was right to ground you and I'd bet your dad would support your mom on this.
2007-10-06 23:25:34 · answer #9 · answered by gussie 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Absolutely- they are sending you a message that behavior is totally unacceptable and had no place in your life, and they're right. After Columbine, there are generally pretty strict ' no tolerance' rules about bullying, including threats.
2007-10-06 20:42:25 · answer #10 · answered by magy 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋