Adolescent - October 2007

im doing a project for school and your answers would help me out alot...names will not be included just your selective answer

2007-10-16 08:42:46 · 39 answers · asked by prettynpink9014 1

I have been with my bf for about a year and 3 months now. i am young, but i love him..please dont judge my relationship or me having a sexual relationship atmy age, im not looking for people to go off on what im doing. I am looking to see pples opinions on what to do. im pregnant,about 6 weeks, i have been trying to get my mind clear and decide what im going to do but i just cant, its really hard. my boyfriend wants an abortion, but im 85% sure i want to keep the baby. the only thing pushing me away from keeping it, and getting an abortion, is my boyfriend and my age. my mom wants to keep it she said shes here for me and expects to suport the baby most of the way.i dont go to school i have my ged and im going to college in about 1 or2yrs. i have a job.im being responsible with all of my decisions and i plan on being an art teacher. i cry everytime i think of abortion, and im very bipolar and suicidal and i dont believe i can deal with how im going to feel after i get an abortion.

2007-10-16 08:01:12 · 27 answers · asked by o0neek0o14 1

I've already threatened to cut him off financially but that doesn't seem to bother him - he says you only give me 20 a week for lunch anyway! Which by the way we found out he's spending on dope. So, when we told him we weren't giving him cash anymore we were going to give him gift cards to subway or another restaurant in town for lunch (he's still in high school) he absolutely LOST IT!

2007-10-16 07:10:29 · 51 answers · asked by Kelli A 1

I'm not! I work from home and lately I've been looking like a complete wreck! Im also 18 weeks pregnant which doesn't help....my 3 year old today said "I wish you wore lipstick Mummy!" Oh dear...even she thinks I'm a mess! Lol.....what tips do you have to look a bit more glam?

2007-10-16 07:06:29 · 7 answers · asked by Daisyhill 7

2007-10-16 07:03:02 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

I know Feb. 14th is far from now but I have a boyfriend and found this cute heart necklace that he could give me since we will probably switch gifts. I intend on giving him some money to pay for it (it's like 20 dollars plus tax.) Is it wrong for me to give him the money to buy me th gift.

Or I want a Dereon dress with some baby phat shoes:

http://www.shoes.com/productimages/shoes_iaec1057602.jpg

(i'd give him the money for that too.)

Is it wrong for me to give him money to pay for my own gift(s)?

2007-10-16 04:17:34 · 10 answers · asked by --; cookie. 4

Our 14yr old son who will be 15 in Feb. insists that he can fend for himself and can be trusted to be left alone for two days.
He is an honor student, (which really doesn't matter now a days), well behaved, and seems responsible enough to be left alone.
We are planning a short get away about an hour away and he does not want to go with us.
I have searched the web and there is really nothing stating a "legal" age. We are in NC state, and nothing stated with child services.
There will be family near by, about 3 miles away, and friends and neighbors.
Nowadays, I really don't know if there is a legal age.
I was left alone at the age of 12 for a couple of days, way back when, but times have changed.
Can anyone give me "facts", or a website to confirm my question?
Thank you all!

2007-10-15 23:58:29 · 19 answers · asked by Mom of 2 great boys 7

i am 18 yrs old and recently lost my virginity (about a year ago). now in the yr 2007, i have been pregnant two times. the first time i got an abortion (parents didnt know) and the 2nd time, i had a miscarriage (parents didnt know). i have never used birth control. call me stupid but my parents are not the type to tell me that i need to be safe if i am sexually active. they are the type of parents that say "you better not have sex!!" but in reality, it was bound to happen. i am 18 yrs old and have a boyfriend so it is a possibility of us having sex. but my parents are in denial of us having sex. i am human and it is likely for teens to have sex. so is the reason i have been pregnant 2 times this yr. my parents fault because they did not educate me on birth control???

2007-10-15 20:04:48 · 34 answers · asked by Br3 1

He and a girl were in afterschool detention ,she flashed her bare top to him and he reached a pinched her , now the mother is charging him with sexual hassult and he was expelled from school , his real mom I guess works with the girls mother and said because she doesnt want to lose biz she is going to let him go down for it , pretty much stepping aside ,and not giving us really any insight on all the details of the police said ect,,,I am worried sick ,and really beleive hes a good kid just had a really bad error in judgement, he knows how to treat others ,respectfully , his mom moved a bit further away last year and he has been acting out a bit but not enough for her to just throw him away like this ...Please if anyone has any thoughts on what I need to do next ...PLEASE

2007-10-15 16:49:10 · 10 answers · asked by misque77 2

I found out that my little cousin is pregnant ,but my auntie don't know, should I tell her or let my cousin tell her mother herself.She's young and I really don't think she want to tell her mother.

2007-10-15 15:25:17 · 12 answers · asked by creamy k 2

The reasson i feel i could be is because he did ejaculate in me and i've been getting really sick to my stomach and alot of foods make me sick now and i've been sleeping alot in my classes which is really unusual 4 me and i'm not sure if the cramping is indicating if my period is comming even though its a week late now. And tommorow i have to go to the doctor for my allergies and they do some kind of x-rays and im scared that if i am preg. the x-rays will kill it I'm just so confused any advice will help thank-you.

2007-10-15 15:10:07 · 19 answers · asked by DEEVAH 2

i broke uo with my bf 2 days ago because he was mean to me and was getting girls # in front of me...and he keeps having his friends bringing me notes from him and when i was walking home from school...he was following me in his car!! and i really dont want to talk to him any more...what do i do?...he keeps sending me e-mails and IM's and now im getting freaked out...i mean..DUDE FOLLOWED ME FROM SCHOOL!!!! im 14 and he is 16(17 l8r this month) and we were togehter for 2 years....but what do i do because he was freaking me out with the whole following me home thing

2007-10-15 14:49:58 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

My mom won't let me be on the swim team, because she hates bathing suits and hates to see me wearing them. Although I'm pretty skinny (not really stick-SKINNY), but people say I have a nice body, and I don't really see the problem. Anyway, I LOVE to swim, something I live to do, but my mom won't let me be on the team, just because of the clothing I'll have to wear.

Also, I love psychology. My mom took it in college and hated it. Therefore, she's not allowing me to take AP psychology next year--but I love the subject. It's one of my most favorite subjects ever, and I want to major in it, but my mom won't let me because she thinks it will corrupt my mind.

How do I convince my mom about these two things?

2007-10-15 13:57:07 · 11 answers · asked by head in the clouds 5

I am 14 and my best friend is 15 and he wants to go out with this 12 year old in my class! He ask me if he should ask her, what should I tell him?

2007-10-15 13:42:24 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous

well . . . .
i am tryin to help a friend who is about to throw everything she has just for some guy she meet . . .
"oh, nina you should hav seen it!"
i know all about the lov @ first sight personally and hav fell for it, but i dnt believe it either . . .
for some prevse reason. . . .
i believe that you should get to know the person a little more before you talk about having chlidren together only about a day after you two have meet!!
She wont belive me . . .
but i dnt want to just leave her in the dust . . .
but she wont listen to me
so what should i do . . .
leave her to hav kids?
push wat she wants to do . . . ?
i think it's in her best interest if i help her
but i dnt want to add to her problems as well as mine because she thinks she loves someone she barelly meet and thinks they should hav their kids toghther?!
i should keep on pushing her not to do anything, huh??
help . . . ?!
she's already mad at me and thinks i am tryin to deprive her form wat she wants!

2007-10-15 12:41:02 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

ifyou want to get someon back and you know that its easy but you dont because of the way it might end up in the end what would you do??

2007-10-15 10:40:57 · 27 answers · asked by ''good girl'' 1

because I just wrote a letter to my uncle, and I'm thinking about either doing that or taking it to the cemetery and burring it by him.

2007-10-15 08:55:48 · 38 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-10-15 08:49:45 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ok my last period was on sep.16-21 and I have had a period for 3 years and well my period was due saturday and its monday and I have not started I have been taking birthcontrol but you know how birthcontrol takes about 3 months to really work well and your not sopost to have unprotected sex for 3 months well I did many times and I was wondering since I missed my period could I be pregnant I am only 15 years old I know I should not be having sex dont lecture me I just need answers you can also aim me if you would like

2007-10-15 07:48:34 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-10-15 06:53:59 · 7 answers · asked by ♥LIZZY♥ 2

A question for the Men I need your opinions?
Ok, from my experiences with guys. Exactly every guy that I've talked to or been with comes back every time I ended with them. Would you say it's because I'm the one that leaves first or I don't know. I need your opinion

An overview of myself in a relationship: I am usually very loving and caring. And I try to be supportive as much as I can, but I am also very fun to talk to and it is easy for me to understand guys. I've been told before that I think like a guy. For some reason, guys think that they can take my kindness for weakness (silly guys). But they've come to found that I don't take no **** from anyone and I always stand my ground no matter what (which is the reason why I never go back to old relationship). I haven't had that many relation ship with guys (I can count in one hand). I've only been sexually involved with two (only had sex once with both: woudn't call it a sexual experience). So Men, Why do they come back?

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And I'm 20 years old btw

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I date older guys, not younger guys

2007-10-15 06:33:30 · 2 answers · asked by . 3

i started secondary school in september and 1 of my best friends was going, I only knew her for about a year we saw each other every week at drama and somtimes wed meet up, , Now she's in my form (Class) , she found out i was a frigit (Never kissed) and she teases me about it, (That doesnt really bother me) And shes OBSESSED with make upand Brands. I feel as if shes getting into the wrong crowd. she hangs out withe the people that always get into fights shes been in a few her self. The girls she Hangs out with our COMPLETE SLUTS! (They kiss each other for practise) Today she said on sat her friend got really drunk and flashed a guy from our year via web cam. She couldnt belive i've never been drunk, Like i have a few sips now and again but ive never been properly drunk, Appaerently she gets drunk all the time at parties.

To make it worse I'm only just 13, And she's only just 12!

I really do love her and she is generly a nice girl I just want her to be ok,

What should i do?

2007-10-15 06:06:42 · 9 answers · asked by KittyKat 3

My 15 year old daughter is not responsible. She gets up late and then throws a fit because I did not wake her up. I have told her that I will not wake her up on the weekends or weekdays.

She constantly throws tantrums because she can not manage her time and study when she should. She throws things around our apartment.

She also does not appreciate anything that I do for her. Today, she woke up late and I gave her a cereal bar to eat for breakfast. She did not have time to eat cereal. She threw it on the floor and said "I will just be hungry." Then, I went back and gave it to her.

She also said "I can't print my paper at school because its late." I said "You got up late." She complained because I was "rude" to her.

I leave her alone to study and go to the store and I find out from the cell phone records that she is on the phone......

I don't know how to let her know she is not doing the right things....tantrums and phone instead of studying....

2007-10-15 04:26:00 · 18 answers · asked by Stareyes 5

I'm 17 years old. I really want a car now, but I will need one when I go off to college soon. I know that the standard answer for this question is "get a job", but there are many reasons why I can't do that.

1. I am in all honors courses at my school. This means I have at least 2 hours of homework every night, but usually more.

2. I spend a lot of time working for volunteer organizations. Neither me or my parents want me to give this up.

3. I spend a lot of time with my youth group. We only meet once a week, but there are a lot of retreats. I'm also a student leader so I have to do a lot of extra things with that.

4. Extracurricular activities! They take up tons of time.

My parents can afford to get me a car. We aren't at all rich, but we live comfortably. My parents just aren't convinced that they should buy me a car or not.

2007-10-15 04:12:43 · 23 answers · asked by pretty little liar 6

What is blue balls?
does the balls of someone really look blue...can it be seen from outside?
why is it caused?
how can we heal it?

please take a look at this :

http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?qid=20071014185103AAogCPt&r=w

Thanks a lot.

2007-10-15 01:55:37 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

My friend has this wierd problem and she has written an email to me. What should I tell her?

She is 16, living in a 2 bedroom apt with her mother, father & brother. Her brother is 13. She shares the other bedroom with her brother. She hasnt finished school and cant move out.
Her brother mostly stays at home in his shorts and doesnt wear underwear under that. He says that he feels very uncomfortable wearing underwear. This has led to 2-3 very embarassing situations for my friend. Sometimes, he gets erections...and has to walk out of the room covering it with tshirt/hand.

Specially when he gets up, he always has a erection. Its very embarassing for her.

Many times she has caught him staring at her cleavage/a*ss/undies if she bends down or something.

She feels if he is getting erections, he may be thinking sexual thoughts or may be 'looking' at her?

Her mom feels that he is just 'growing up' and 'its just hormones' and feels she is 'worried over nothing'. Help?

2007-10-14 21:53:22 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm a 13 yr old girl gonna be 14 really soon and he's 15 and he really liked me until i asked him what grade he was in and then he asked me and then was like i'm sorry i can't date an 8th grader but, he thought I was older and its not a big difference, my friend is gonna tell him its the personality and what not, and not the age. Do you think it's acceptable?

2007-10-14 20:38:09 · 21 answers · asked by jjag 1

and using other excuses for kids and themselves such as "it is only natural" or "it is only human" or "mistakes happen" for lack of self control and negligible behavior?

do you think they give excuses like that for their children's irresponsible behavior and are ok with it if they do get into drugs,sex or alchol during their teenage years eventually?

is that why kids easily nowadays get into drugs, alcohol and sex (become skanks, sluts and man whores) at their early teens since they are not reprimanded when they are young and think they can get away with it ?

is this a pattern of parents screwin up themselves at their young age and just ok with it when their children do it instead of standing up and stopping it?

2007-10-14 18:42:44 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-10-14 17:58:55 · 12 answers · asked by Dom M 1

Gracious me! I would never have believed it. How does that fit with freedom?

2007-10-14 17:30:31 · 11 answers · asked by DavinaOpines 5