A question for the Men I need your opinions?
Ok, from my experiences with guys. Exactly every guy that I've talked to or been with comes back every time I ended with them. Would you say it's because I'm the one that leaves first or I don't know. I need your opinion
An overview of myself in a relationship: I am usually very loving and caring. And I try to be supportive as much as I can, but I am also very fun to talk to and it is easy for me to understand guys. I've been told before that I think like a guy. For some reason, guys think that they can take my kindness for weakness (silly guys). But they've come to found that I don't take no **** from anyone and I always stand my ground no matter what (which is the reason why I never go back to old relationship). I haven't had that many relation ship with guys (I can count in one hand). I've only been sexually involved with two (only had sex once with both: woudn't call it a sexual experience). So Men, Why do they come back?
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And I'm 20 years old btw
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I date older guys, not younger guys
2007-10-15 06:33:30 · 2 answers · asked by . 3 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
Just maybe, you're being too harsh? One little thing, and Boom! - he's booted out the door.
Nobody's perfect. Guys make mistakes, even if women don't. Guys are just more self-centred. (ha ha - just kidding; conceit, self-centered, and stupidity are equal-opportunity personality traits.) Think carefully about the guy before giving him the boot; be sure you're not over-reacting.
As for taking them back - no, you're right. If he did it to you once, he'll do it again. Also - watching how a guy handles rejection can give you valuable insight into his personality.
I think a lot come back because of the "sex with your ex" mentality. If he can persuade you to take him back, even for the night, he's already got a head start from where you left off. He might get lucky right away. He doesn't have to start from square one - "Hello, my name is Jack... are you a Libra?".
On the other hand, you might be the type us nice guys recognize - the one who's into jerks and tattooed bikers. most nice guys find the attractive girls seem to latch onto the guys that would treat them like crap, rather than us nice guys. Of coure, our evaluation may be relative (I'm a nice guy, so's my buddy...) but there does seem to be that pattern. If so, at least you have the sense to dump them in time (except for 2) and before they leave you with a genetic souvenir, and interesting disease, or new-found popularity on the internet.
2007-10-15 06:56:17 · answer #1 · answered by Anon 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Because you treat them good.
2007-10-15 07:22:07 · answer #2 · answered by Anthony F 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋