I found out that my little cousin is pregnant ,but my auntie don't know, should I tell her or let my cousin tell her mother herself.She's young and I really don't think she want to tell her mother.
2007-10-15 15:25:17 · 12 answers · asked by creamy k 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
Tell your aunt...she's going to find out anyways, and it's better sooner than later. ask her not to mention you, though.
2007-10-15 15:33:53 · answer #1 · answered by RAWRR annamonster! 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You tell her mom, b.c it's dangerous to both lives health and you don't want to feel guilty for your lil cousin ending up sick or dead in the hospital if there are complications (younger they are, this could be a high possibility- even younger, rape can be a big possibility)-So you tell the mother in a respectable fashion, you tell her you want no part in it and if she could to leave you out. She could make up a story about how she found out, an over heard conversation, and you wont have to take the brunt of your cousins anger.
2007-10-15 15:38:18 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Go with your cousin and sit her mom down and tell her about it. Don't just hide it from her because sooner or later she is going to find out and trust me is better tell her sooner than later when she'll be all piss and mad. Well good luck!
2007-10-15 22:58:45 · answer #3 · answered by *ARMY GIRL* (*MS.G*) 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think you should talk to your cousin and tell her she needs to tell her parents and get herself to a Dr. asap...my best friend in middle school was pregnant at 14 and didn't tell her parents til she was about 5 or 6 months they were suprised the baby wasn't sick cuz she wasn't on meds or anything its important she tells them and maybe go w/ her and let her know she has a shoulder to cry on
2007-10-16 03:52:52 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk with your cousin. Tell her that she needs to tell her mother. That she also needs her mother to help her through her pregnancy.
Hope everything goes well with you.
2007-10-15 15:37:36 · answer #5 · answered by Mom_of_2 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell your cousin that her mom needs to know. Going without prenatal care can be dangerous for her AND the baby. If she refuses get another adult to tell her.
2007-10-15 15:29:49 · answer #6 · answered by Ryan's mom 7 · 5⤊ 0⤋
she needs to see a doctor
and if she wont tell her mother I am going to assume she hasnt gone to see one
i would tell for the sake of her baby
2007-10-15 15:35:42 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
talk to her and tell her if she doesn't tell her mother within a certain amount of time then you will... but give her a fair amount of time.
2007-10-15 15:30:02 · answer #8 · answered by dormouse 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
plz stay out of this u don't wanna mess it ur cousin,do u?she'll find out soon don't worry!
2007-10-16 01:24:04 · answer #9 · answered by aditi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not yours to decieded. Tell your mom but hers no way!
2007-10-15 15:33:40 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋