I wanted to post this question here because I want parental advice. I can't confide in my own parents because they'd be upset&i'm too embaressed anyway...plus my family LOVES my bf& I don't want them to resent him. It would cause tension. The problem is my bf.
I'll admit that my boyfriend isn't perfect. When he gets angry at me he is insulting, he says the meanest things to make me cry (weight and looks), he deliberately ignores my attempts to contact him...sometimes he does this for a few days, sometimes a week,& he will give me the silent treatment, which anyone that has ever been there knows, is not fun at all. However, he has never laid one finger on me in anger, and he is not always this way, it only happens when we have periods of stress&conflict. What can I do to help him stop this behavior toward me&deal with stress better? I don't think it is right to leave someone just because they have character flaws. Plus we love each other a lot and he ALWAYS apologizes. Help?
2007-06-27
12:01:14
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