What has happened to girls? They used to realize that being easy was a bad thing. Now they seem not to care!?

Question

Can I just say that the double standard arguement does not fly...here is why. There should be a double standard! Men and women are different whether you like it or not! We as men know we are pigs for the most part. We expect women to be better than us! I certainly do not want a woman who wished to act like a man! Eww! And for all the ladies who think men like easy chicks...they do for a short time. When it is time to fall in love they ALWAYS go for the nice girl. The slut is left bouncing from guy to guy not understanding why she can't find real love.

Answer 1

Poor parenting, either mom and dad are to busy, or just don't care. That and lack of discipline. I think the "self esteem" revolution (dr. spock) actually had the reverse effect on women.

Answer 2

Women today are more concerned about orgasms instead of getting a marriage that works. They mistake the orgasms for love. This bad behavior is passed on to the next generation. The standards slip because the women are too busy making up for the absent dad. The dad is absent because women are turned on sexually by ******* and jerks. They take their cloths off and jump in bed with them instead of a mechanical engineer.
Because it is women that set the moral standards they say it is the mans fault that she got pregnant because they trusted the women in birth control. They pay absolutely no attention to the idea that girls should take responsibility for their own bodies or abstain from sex. They don't understand that under this current process where women are not 100% responsible for their own bodies 40% of all children are born out of wedlock. They wont admit the system as designed has failed. Women cant have 100% rights for their bodies and only partial responsbility. This leaves a void called irresponsability.
This is also combined with the fact that the women are only bedding ******* and jerks. You know that they would never be a decent father or provider.
Women are in denial about the need for a provider until it is too late.
They are just barely getting by and have no time to help their children know right from wrong. There is no one else around to help.

Answer 3

Its a social problem. There has always been the double standard that if a man is easy he is a stud but if a girl is she is a whore. Now a days I suppose these girls have decided that they do no want to follow this double standard. A friend told me once why should she have to hold back if alot of guys are just continually adding "notches to their belt."

Answer 4

I think it has partly to do with parents letting their daughters buy whatever they want no matter if it looks trashy or not and has to do with all the female models and celebrities who go walking around in halter tops, mini skirts, high heels, short shorts. They see these "women" doing this for a living and think it's ok for them to copy the "Role Models" they see on television. Some parents don't know how to just say NO to their kids anymore especially when it comes to clothing because the kids throw a fit and say they'll kill themselves if they don't get some stupid outfit that all their friends are wearing or that some female celebrity is wearing at a certain moment. I think also that music videos are to blame since they have naked women or women who aren't even covered fully dancing on music videos and sleeping around so the girls think that it's ok to dress like a tramp because their favorite celebrity or some chick on a music video shaking her booty is "cool" and think that nothing will happen to them. Parents need to teach their daughters that they don't need to dress like hoes in order to feel good about themselves and parents need to block stations like MTV, BET, VH1 and all those other music channels so the kids can't watch them.

Answer 5

Society is changing so much.... it is very hard for girls to maintain their morals and value. It is up to the PARENTS to make sure they guide their daughters in the "right direction" and show them the meaning of self respect. If they don't see it from their parents, they won't know any better as their adolescence comes along and it will definitely not be a big deal to them.
I strongly believe that in most cases it's the parents who would be the blame... then there are cases where it was simply out of their control.

Answer 6

well i think its like this Guys cheat and most women like myself want to be the only woman a man has they want love compassion and honestly ....

most guys have muti-partners and cheat

so finally women are mad and playing the same game(why should women always be the ones to get hurt?) if u cant beat em join em. (although i think men should stop and wait for the right girl and i think girls should do the same its never gonna happen sadly.)

now this is just my opinion based on watching my friends lives LOL.

Answer 7

Hm.... well what has happened to guys and them having respect for girls and telling them NO. Like you said guys dont really like the "easy girls" but it seems you say yes pretty quickly and easily. You said you guys are pigs, why don't you change that? It's not hard to say NO, even though I'm sure you will try to convince me it is hard.... You "pigs" encourage the "easy girls" to get that way. It takes TWO easy people. Guys are as easy as girls can be.

Answer 8

It's a left over from the sixties and seventies free love style. This was their parents generation, and it is simple emulation.

Answer 9

I blame the media and their parents...

Answer 10

i think i don't want to blame the parents but....