I hold my 4 month old daughter...a lot. When she's fussy, when she's not fussy, when she's content, when she's cooing...if she's awake, chances are good that I'm holding her. I do make sure that she gets adequate "tummy time" when she's awake and alert to make sure her motor development doesn't get behind.
The reason I ask is that I have a friend who has a baby slightly older...and she says she only holds her baby when she is feeding her. The baby seems perfectly content in her pack n play or bouncy seat, don't get me wrong...but her reasoning is that if you hold a baby too much the baby will become spoiled, clingy and dependant. I've heard the same thing from other people...and still others have told me that the baby builds a sense of security and trust with you when you respond quickly to his/her needs.
I love holding my daughter. I will admit that I do it for purely selfish reasons. BUT...I do want to know if this will affect her personalilty negatively
2007-06-27
03:00:44
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Mara
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