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I have a meeting a with a daycare near my home and I am most liklely will be switching to this new one, how do i tell my son's current daycare provider I will no longer be taking him there?? A nice way!!!!

Thanks

2007-06-27 10:42:31 · 10 answers · asked by miss_encarnacion 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting Toddler & Preschooler

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Flaming Treeses answer is bang on. Just be honest and with the price of gas these days who can blame you.

2007-06-27 10:48:20 · answer #1 · answered by thumpergirl_1979 5 · 0 0

There is no need to make excuses or to lie. You don't even half to give them a reason. You can just say that, “Due to changing circumstances in our lives, we will no longer need your services as a daycare provider. (and if you want and the bill fits) Thank you so much, Timmy really enjoyed his time here." Do NOT say we will no longer need you...it makes it personal.

If they ask you what the circumstances are or what you are going to do, then simply say, "I do not feel comfortable sharing that information." They won't ask any further.

If it's an acquaintance, you can still use the above with them, but if feel like you HAVE to give an explanation, then simply state, “We’ve decided to transfer Timmy to XZY daycare because it's more convenient for us. Thank you so much for helping us out!" (and if you mean it and it's appropriate)"I'll be sure to send referrals your way" or "please feel free to use us as character references", "Thanks again!"

Just remember that it's business. You needed a service and they provided you with one. End of story. Set the boundary to keep it professional and you won't have any problems. Just don't deviate from the game plan. Ideally you shouldn't give an excuse and if you go that route, stick to it. Don't let them con you into giving more. Because if you say, "it's cheaper/closer" or whatever, they could always come back with, "well we can give you a discount". Then you could feel trapped into staying or giving another excuse.

2007-06-27 18:08:22 · answer #2 · answered by Kathy H 3 · 1 0

Well you must have your reasons to do this change. If you can't share them with the current P its your choice.

If the current daycare has no other relationship with you, other than taking care of your son, then you can tell them a white lie, like "I'm going to work somewhere else now and I'm gonna take him to a closer daycare." Or "I'll be home on vacation and I'll be taking care of him for a while, I'll call you if I need your help again".

2007-06-27 17:49:15 · answer #3 · answered by Kelly B. 3 · 0 0

I had to deal with that same situation. And to make matters worse, it was recommended by a friend of mine!! In my case, the daycare was just not a good fit with my child and so I changed.
What did I say to them? well...basically the truth. That this new place was closer to my home and work, the hours were a bit more convenient to me. I also brought a little gift (box of Lego's for $10.00) as a kind of no hard feelings thank you for taking care of my child peace offering. She was still a bit unhappy, but as someone else said, if it a good daycare they will fill that space pretty quickly. Good luck!

2007-06-27 18:02:30 · answer #4 · answered by jdkkmac 2 · 0 0

I would tell them the reasons for your decision but soften it a bit. For instance if it is because there are too many older kids there just say something like "I want my son to be around kids his own age" OR if it's because of pay say so, if it's for convenience such as driving say so, if it's because you disagree with her theories or practices then say something like I want to make sure my son is receiving more education or a more casual environment.... it's hard to give a good example but if you let us know your reasons I could probably help more.
Really the main point is to tell her the truth but soften the blow. Remember that you may have to give a week or two of notice which means your son will still be attending, therefore you are correct in seeking a nice way as apposed to fighting about it.

2007-06-27 19:29:49 · answer #5 · answered by Nikki C 2 · 0 0

I just did this a few months ago. I was not happy with the structure of the daycare, so I told her that one of my son's playmates will be starting there as well and I'd like them to go to the same school. That was it! She was sad to see him go and my swon is WAY happier at his new place!

2007-06-27 18:11:06 · answer #6 · answered by misskent12 2 · 0 0

they may require 2 weeks notice, so speak to them asap. Don't make it sound like you are dissatisfied with them, just say the new place suits your childs changing needs better (closer to home or work, flexible hrs, whatever.) Bottom line, you are a client, not a friend. Don't worry if they are unhapy to lose your business, someone will be right behind you waiting to take the spot.

2007-06-27 17:47:36 · answer #7 · answered by parental unit 7 · 0 0

You could say, " I found another daycare that is closer to my home that will make it more convenient for me."

2007-06-27 17:45:38 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2 0

You have been great to my son but your services are no longer in our needs.

2007-06-27 17:51:08 · answer #9 · answered by Amber Midnight 3 · 0 0

use the it is cheaper approach...they cant argue with that.

2007-06-27 17:47:04 · answer #10 · answered by brooke s 4 · 0 0

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