Pregnancy & Parenting - 9 December 2006

2006-12-09 13:06:47 · 15 answers · asked by steve 2 in Toddler & Preschooler

I have stepchildren living with me that were all sweetness and light before they moved in. To my horror I found out their mother *never* disciplined them in any way at home. They are 10 girl/14-boy. Their father’s only here when they’re asleep. He works over 100 hrs per week, refuses family counseling and discipline of *any* kind towards the boy, little towards the girl. The're usually ignore me when I ask them the simplest of questions or give smart backtalk to every word I say: Am I supposed to still try and do weekend activities with them and stuff? People say stepparents are never to discipline. Does this mean I have to subject myself to taking them on entertaining activities or letting them use fun things at home and give them my time and attention when they are acting so hostile towards me? Also, today the last straw was when the 10 year old punched me in the leg (frustrated she lost a card game we were playing). Should I just take them out for treats? I feel so guilty!

2006-12-09 13:05:50 · 13 answers · asked by Gracie 1 in Parenting

ok, i have security cameras throught my large home. i am in the military and of a high rank so i must go to all of the events hosted by the military. my wife and i were at an army ball (dance)at my work across the city, we rented a room down there because i knew we would be drinking at the dance and i dont drink and drive and neither does my wife. we left our 15 year old son house sitting all night...when we got back this morning my son reported having some problems around 12:30 last night... when i watched the videos i saw my son watching porn, masturbating in the living room, then going into the kitchen and washing himself off in the sink with the sprayer...he was sitting on the sink ledge naked and rinsing "his area"...what should i do, he doesnt know i saw this, he just thinks i saw the outside tapes but it records all of the footage on 1 film recording, so i have to watch them all.

2006-12-09 13:05:06 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Adolescent

My fiance and I were trying to get pregnant, we had unprotected sex for exactly a month. I was 10 days late but my period was only 2 days compared to my usual 4-5 day periods. I am never late, then we had sex during my most fertile time, but a few times I have stood up after him ejaculating inside me, could I still get pregnant if the semen seeps out?

2006-12-09 13:04:37 · 15 answers · asked by hmvasek 1 in Trying to Conceive

OK, here's the back story. I am 14 years old, and I started dating a 16-year-old (stupid, I know).
So now he's starting to become very controlling, and he keeps pressuring me to have sex with him. I kept saying no but I was in too deep. The other night I was at his house and he asked me again. I said no, but he was too strong; he pinned me against the wall and raped me.
Now at school, he keeps touching me inappropriately and he only laughs when I struggle. I need to get out of this! please, what should I do?

2006-12-09 13:00:40 · 46 answers · asked by idk my bff jill? 1 in Adolescent

2006-12-09 13:00:34 · 10 answers · asked by fishyinmytank 3 in Other - Pregnancy & Parenting

2006-12-09 12:59:51 · 8 answers · asked by Chacacon 2 in Pregnancy

I have tried giving him milk in those cup thingies but he won't drink from there....he just wants a bottle.

2006-12-09 12:59:45 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Toddler & Preschooler

we were changing in the girls room after swimming, and i had taken all my swimsuit off ready to put on my clothes again, but these girls i hate had taken my entire bag (including towl and everything) and thown it in the boys room. I had to wait until everyone was gone before i could get my stuff, but what i didn't realise was that they were all waiting (including boys) outside. I am so embarassed and angry with my friends and now that i cant bring myself to go to school and confont everyone again including the boys who saw me totaly. How do I solve this?

2006-12-09 12:58:41 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Adolescent

We've got daytime down, but he has a full diaper in the mornings.

2006-12-09 12:58:29 · 5 answers · asked by coolmommy 2 in Toddler & Preschooler

14 wks pregnant and cramping on right side.I was being choked for a few seconds and lightly slammed twice.Now I feel dull cramping on my right side??

2006-12-09 12:57:34 · 11 answers · asked by Direktor 5 in Pregnancy

I'm about 9 or 10 weeks pregnant and my boyfriend is the only man I've been with in 4 months.

2006-12-09 12:56:39 · 17 answers · asked by ? 1 in Pregnancy

what did fall out boy doing?

2006-12-09 12:55:03 · 23 answers · asked by popcornbowl2004 1 in Newborn & Baby

BEGINNING IN OCTOBER, MY THREE YEAR OLD STARTED TO STUTTER SLIGHTLY. NOW, IN DECEMBER, IT IS STARTING TO WORRY ME EVEN MORE AND GETTING WORSE. HER FATHER STUTTERED AS A CHILD. SHE WAS ALWAYS AN EXTREMELY INTELLEGENT CHILD FOR HER AGE. MAYBE SHE JUST HAS TOO MUCH TO SAY AT ONCE. WHAT DO I DO???????

2006-12-09 12:54:29 · 13 answers · asked by Linda 1 in Toddler & Preschooler

My husband and I disagree with our sons bedtime. I put him down at 8pm on school nights and 8:30-9 on non school nights. He thinks 9pm on school nights and 9:30is on non school nights. We all get up by 6am on school/work days and I want him well rested and plus it is working why mess with a good routine I say!?

2006-12-09 12:52:19 · 14 answers · asked by Samantha 3 in Toddler & Preschooler

I am having my sons b-day party at our house on the 30th. I really don't know what to do or play to keep the kids occupied. Does anyone have suggestions???

2006-12-09 12:49:46 · 8 answers · asked by aloha69_03 1 in Toddler & Preschooler

2006-12-09 12:46:20 · 16 answers · asked by angela_puth 1 in Pregnancy

Okay, I hear some say it's normal and some say that it can't happen. The thing is is her period day is on time but she is feeling prego. But it was a week ago when we did have sex. So I'm asking, is it possible her body is telling her she is pregnant even though her period is on time? And we are planning to have one and hope so we tried 4 times on different nights. Am I being clear? =]] I just really want to know if a week or so after the (hopefull) conception is to soon and if a schedule period matters because of the timing? Thanks.

2006-12-09 12:46:14 · 5 answers · asked by LordTool 2 in Trying to Conceive

Be honest- I'm trying to save my friend's unborn son from being cursed with this feminine moniker.

2006-12-09 12:45:54 · 21 answers · asked by She who knows everything 2 in Other - Pregnancy & Parenting

if you are doctor help me! my little brother is 37.7c is he ok?

2006-12-09 12:45:21 · 4 answers · asked by anne710 1 in Newborn & Baby

i stopped taking the pill a couple of weeks ago like in october november ish sometime, i think october. I got my period for november , but not for december. so i took a test and it came back positive. Can birth control make it positive.

2006-12-09 12:42:42 · 10 answers · asked by kellymarie 2 in Trying to Conceive

2006-12-09 12:41:30 · 6 answers · asked by Crystalann B 1 in Parenting

That I question gods exsistance, they are both very religous christians but I want to be an Agnostics
Do you think my dad will cut my head off since he is crazy and very religious..Should I just keep it to myself

2006-12-09 12:39:44 · 35 answers · asked by Ryan 1 in Adolescent

my sister wants to put me in labor im only 36 weeks and she wants me to have the baby by friday or saturday what should i do?

2006-12-09 12:37:42 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy

There were soft, now they are close to diarhhea and bright green and seedy. He is on the same diet the whole time. And then it goes to a orange color. Is this normal?

2006-12-09 12:36:22 · 10 answers · asked by Baby Julie due 5/12 3 in Newborn & Baby

Charlotte/Gary are names i like

2006-12-09 12:33:07 · 53 answers · asked by woosh* 2 in Baby Names

2006-12-09 12:32:40 · 9 answers · asked by angela_puth 1 in Pregnancy

I am on the pills. I take them on the regular but sometimes it be at a later time than what i should be taking them. Could i get pregnant this way?

2006-12-09 12:30:31 · 18 answers · asked by ploveu 1 in Pregnancy

I had a late ovulation, around day 22 but 19 days have passed since and there is no signs of my period. My period has been between 28 to 30 days for the past few years. HELP!!!!

2006-12-09 12:28:21 · 9 answers · asked by Kea 2 in Trying to Conceive

Having sex 3-4 days before you ovulate will cause you to have a girl. I have 2 boys which I KNOW were conceived ON my ovulation date. They say thay girl sperm live longer and are stronger and male sperms move faster but dont live as long....anyone have experience with this??? I want to know how accurate it is

2006-12-09 12:25:02 · 11 answers · asked by mommy of 3 boys 3 in Trying to Conceive