That I question gods exsistance, they are both very religous christians but I want to be an Agnostics
Do you think my dad will cut my head off since he is crazy and very religious..Should I just keep it to myself
2006-12-09 12:39:44 · 35 answers · asked by Ryan 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
Just keep it to yourself until you are no longer a minor and then you can let it out and he can't do anything.
2006-12-11 10:02:14 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You WANT to be agnosticor you are considering the possibility that things aren't as you've been told. There is a difference. If you are simploy trying to figure out what is right and what is wrong andf you are questioninig spirituality, it would absoluitely be a good idea to talk to your parents, or your pastor. If they are truly as religious as you say, they would want to help you understand God; they would have no problem explaining why they believe what they believe.
If you want to change, then you are making a status change without trying to get all of the facts. They may get upset about that because it would seem as though you are giving up.
You should try, Christianity is too imporant to just turn your back on. If you truly are confused and want answers, then ask the questions before you formulate an opinion.
Hope this helps.
2006-12-09 12:43:54 · answer #2 · answered by Jax 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I had a look at your other questions and to reply your previous question, yes, there is something wrong with your dad, and the way you describe your parents, I think it might be better not to tell them. By the way you are already agnostic if you question God's existance. Well, they can't force you to believe something you don't believe in, but I think it is better not to make an open fight about this now that you will lose. When you will be grown up you can do what you want.
2006-12-10 02:49:12 · answer #3 · answered by Elly 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ryan, it sounds like you should really think about your relationship ith your fatheer. If you think he will react unreasonably to your religous standing, chances are that you and he do not have very open channels of communication. It might be better, instead of baldly telling him you don't believe in his belief system, if you simply ask open-ended questions about his belief system and try not to debate. Try to understand, not argue or alienate. He may react better to questions than what he may percieve as judgement of his beliefs. And once you have asked all you can without seeming rude, just let it sit for a while. And, honestly, why does it matter if he knows you don't share religion? People can always co-exist and even love each other without agreeing :)
2006-12-09 12:46:35 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My parents are republicans all the way. In high school I took filled out a little test to discover whether I was a democrat or a republican. It said I was a democrat.
I told my parents about it and they freaked out! From then on I always told them I was a republican. Some battles just aren't worth fighting. What you do is up to you, I'm just saying that you're parents don't have to know absolutely everything about you. Especially if it will make your dad insanely mad.
2006-12-09 12:46:09 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
all depends on how old you are. If you under 18 and still live at home, I probably won't say anything just yet. Make sure it's what you really want, maybe you just would like a different type of religion. But your parents should also understand that should be be allowed to make your own choices if you at least 16 and mature.
2006-12-09 12:44:54 · answer #6 · answered by dcarroll28 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is perfectly OK to question God's existence. The search for truth starts with not knowing what to believe. BUT. . . if you are sincere about wanting the truth (even if it is being agnostic) you have to have a basis for it. You have to study.
As to whether your Dad will cut your head off. . . I seriously doubt it IF you are sincere about wanting to learn the truth.
Now if you are just saying I'm agnostic to avoid going to church and messing around with their heads you are being hypocritical. That is just rebelling for the sake of rebelling. No good. You will pay for that, trust me.
I'd tell them if I were sincere and not worry about it. You will probably get a reaction that surprises you.
2006-12-09 14:38:42 · answer #7 · answered by snddupree 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that everyone, even your parents at one time, has questioned that. That's the beauty of being human, being able to think for yourself and wonder about things. I was the same way for awhile, but I realized that you just have to have faith in God~ and that he actually exists~! How else do you explain the amazingly crazy things that happen on this Earth?
2006-12-09 12:42:53 · answer #8 · answered by happygolucky003 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I would sit down and discuss it. You would be surprised at what may come of it. I am a very religious person. If my dd came to me with your thoughts I would want to hear them and question everything on her beliefs and why. In a nice way of course. I want to know where she is coming from. Good luck.
2006-12-09 13:14:06 · answer #9 · answered by plharg 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
From the sounds of things, you better keep this to yourself, especially if your parents are fervently religious, they will brook no disagreement with their way of life and it will only lead to pain and suffering. Wait until you are older and have moved out so that you don't have to put up with any undue proselytizing.
2006-12-09 12:43:20 · answer #10 · answered by Crowfeather 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First, i'm glad that you are taking your own view on things. I waited to tell my parent about being Agnostic till I was about 18, 19.
You are the only one that knows your parents and their reactions, you'll have to time it. But make sure you tell them you are not against their beliefs, but you just want to find out things on your own.
Good luck, and dont get discouraged.
2006-12-09 12:48:09 · answer #11 · answered by posquatch 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋