we were changing in the girls room after swimming, and i had taken all my swimsuit off ready to put on my clothes again, but these girls i hate had taken my entire bag (including towl and everything) and thown it in the boys room. I had to wait until everyone was gone before i could get my stuff, but what i didn't realise was that they were all waiting (including boys) outside. I am so embarassed and angry with my friends and now that i cant bring myself to go to school and confont everyone again including the boys who saw me totaly. How do I solve this?
2006-12-09 12:58:41 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
Their goal was to humiliate you. The best solution? Don't give them the gratification of being embarassed. No matter how much humility you feel right now, don't let them see it. Show them you are the better, more mature person. They want you to cringe and feel embarrassed. Go to school tomorrow! You don't even have to confront them. Just handle it with the poise and maturity they obviously don't have. Act like it was nothing to you, even though you may really be torn up about it.
You can do it. They might even really learn to respect you for it.
2006-12-09 13:03:23 · answer #1 · answered by Kotori Shizukesa 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
You may want to try to just ignore it and act bigger than these losers and maybe you should. But, this is harassment. This has nothing to do with who you are and everything to do with who they are. And, their behavior is unnacceptable. You have every right to report this to the school Principle and expect an investigation. Hopefully, you have supportive parents. Do not be embarassed to tell them what happened. They should be the first to support you. Good luck. Be strong. Be true to yourself.
2006-12-09 13:07:37 · answer #2 · answered by mark3mcl2 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
To begin with, these are not your friends! Now tell the boys, "That is the ONLY way ANY of you will ever see me undressed". As for the girls, they didn't see anything new. Then lie in wait...your chance will come. Revenge is so good sometimes! But, NEVER LET THEM SEE YOU SWEAT!!!!
2006-12-09 13:12:21 · answer #3 · answered by Jo Jo 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, kids can really be mean can't they. Honestly, if you act like it was no big deal they won't have any more fun with it. They get all their fun from your reaction to it so don't give them one. A talk with the coach wouldn't be out of line if you want to prevent further incidents.
2006-12-09 13:04:54 · answer #4 · answered by PRS 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to school and laugh it off. When they talk about it start laughing. They wanted you to be embarrssed just show them that it didnt faze you at all.
2006-12-09 13:26:18 · answer #5 · answered by .:AMIZZLE:. 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Try not to let them get the best of you, I know its not easy but just walk in there with your head held high, which will probably confuse them....If they are your friends why did they take part? :o(
2006-12-09 13:02:43 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Laugh it off, say funny stuff about it!
they want to embarrass you!
if they get there way, you'll never live it down, but if you act like it was nothing, they'll stop dead in their tracks and be like "What? We did all that and it STILL didn't get to her? WOW!"
2006-12-09 14:09:05 · answer #7 · answered by Tangy & Cherry 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You report it to the school teacher and school administration. Being seen naked is not the problem, being humiliated on purpose is.
2006-12-09 14:32:06 · answer #8 · answered by snddupree 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
take a deep breath. go to school. laugh it off. just be confident about the whole thing, like haha yea you guys were lucky to see me like that. if you let it get to you it'll just be a lot worse.
2006-12-09 13:02:10 · answer #9 · answered by clementine 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
It's a bird!
It's a plane!
It's...an AK-47!
Kidding. You won't need an AK for this.
Give them what i call the Z-Verse.
Play it back on them, but this time, blackmail them!
2006-12-09 13:28:09 · answer #10 · answered by ZZ 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋