Pregnancy & Parenting - 19 July 2006

this is my story, i got married almost 5 months, i got pregnant now almost 4, i tell his the news and he was not happy at all, he tell his mother and then he and his mother used to call me at all the times forcing me to do an abortion, a said to him NO, i even do a sonogram and the most beautiful thing in the world is to know that you have a life inside of you, i was so emotional to hear the heart beat of the baby, i told him that and he said to me i dont care you have to do an abortion, other wise i will divorce you he said, i separated from him, i suffer a lot, i was very emotional, he have never give a penny to take care of my self and the life that i have inside of me, and then after a while he told me to move with me, did you think if fare to moved with someone who has abuse you physically and emotionally after he was forcing you to do an abortion and he abandone you, at least do you think this man deserve a chance????

2006-07-19 14:06:13 · 16 answers · asked by jessica h 1 in Other - Pregnancy & Parenting

i want something i can do at home.i think im pregnant so ima buy a pregnancy test n jus in case i am i want to force a miscarraigeim ONLY15 n I DONT want any kids PLEEEEEASE can someone help me

2006-07-19 14:04:00 · 29 answers · asked by shhh 2 in Adolescent

just the other day i was giving my daughter a feeding and just an ounce into it she started sneezing and acted like she was getting her food to fast ..her milk started pouring through her nose and she couldnt breathe her feet started turning blue..the look in her eyes i will never forget ! she was admited into the hospital and the diagnosed her with acid reflux .so they thickened her feedings with rice cereal. shes doing fine with it..who else has heard of this...and will her breathing freak out on her again,,please help.

2006-07-19 14:02:49 · 15 answers · asked by Worried Mommy 1 in Newborn & Baby

I have an almost 4 year old son whom I would love to have in attendance at the birth of his sister, due any day. I'm taking a lot of heat from family and friends who say he's too young. Of course, I won't allow him a "bird's eye view", and another adult (my sister) is attending for the sole purpose of monitoring his reactions and will remove him if he becomes unhappy. I think it would not only be a memorable experience for him, but I also think not wanting to upset him may help me manage my pain and hysteria and therefore have a more pleasant birth experience. What are your thoughts?

2006-07-19 13:56:02 · 19 answers · asked by Jennifer L 3 in Toddler & Preschooler

2006-07-19 13:55:53 · 34 answers · asked by sexy luv 1 in Toddler & Preschooler

have you ever heard of putting corn syrup in with the formula to make the baby go easier?

2006-07-19 13:55:16 · 15 answers · asked by simplelee2b 2 in Newborn & Baby

My 3 year old still cant talk, count, or say his ABC's, and refuses to use the bathroom. He is smart enough to hide around the corner and change his own pull-up but when we ask him to use his potty he cries. He does'nt want to learn and refuses to even attempt his ABC's or counting. He gets way to frustrated and cries when we try to teach him and will get angry even at the learning toys that he has. I catch alot of criticism and I believe i have tried everything. Could there be a problem with him or did I do something wrong?

2006-07-19 13:52:21 · 20 answers · asked by ? 2 in Toddler & Preschooler

Can you give me tips on how to turn her and your personal experiences!!! When do they usually turn head down!!! I really don't want a C-section!!!

2006-07-19 13:49:09 · 9 answers · asked by Nikki 2 in Pregnancy

2006-07-19 13:44:48 · 11 answers · asked by mdb200314 2 in Pregnancy

i think im pregnant can u tell me some signs that u know you are pregnant

2006-07-19 13:38:18 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy

help he is making a mess of the house

i cant put him outside because i dont want to

2006-07-19 13:35:14 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Parenting

my son is a breastfed and refuses a bottle its not so much the nipples that he doesnt like its the formula, i've tryed different kinds he spits them out, if anyone has had the same problem i'm open to suggestions

2006-07-19 13:31:19 · 12 answers · asked by teenywarriorprincess 1 in Newborn & Baby

just recently got divorced-was not so nice-protection order against her dad-she just refuses to listen, mind, and always has the last word. screams and hollars at me-just so frustrating!

2006-07-19 13:12:03 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Grade-Schooler

2006-07-19 13:07:28 · 13 answers · asked by Kayes24 1 in Other - Pregnancy & Parenting

I'm 37. I've been married for 3 years and we've never used birth controll. I've always been of the opinion that there are enough children in the world who need parents that we shouldn't go around creating them artificially. I am more than willing to adopt...even older kids. But I want a baby! I don't want to do fertility treatments. Any ideas?

2006-07-19 13:02:06 · 19 answers · asked by Gabby_Gabby_Purrsalot 7 in Trying to Conceive

He will sleep fine on the coutch or in his chair but than as soon as you put him in his crib he screems. I have tryed putting him in his crib when I see that he is getting tired so he can learn how to put him self to sleep but it does not work. For the past two weeks I have let him cry and sometimes he wont give in for hours and just cry all day. This goes on days and nights , I have also tryed music and the heart beat bear. The longest he has gone with no nap because of this is 8 hours! I really need some help I am going crazy!!!!!!!!!

2006-07-19 13:00:58 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Newborn & Baby

2006-07-19 13:00:31 · 9 answers · asked by Derrick G 2 in Adolescent

If they don't respect your right to control your body then they deserve for you to put out for them.

2006-07-19 12:55:33 · 11 answers · asked by Emily 3 in Adolescent

k ive tried castor oil..all it did was make me have to sit in the bathroom for awhile. im not with the dad and dont have a boyfriend so sex is kinda out of the ?. im already dialated to a 2 and fully effaced!!! someone please help me

2006-07-19 12:50:52 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Pregnancy & Parenting

I slept with a guy friend of mine and we didn't use protection, but he said he pulled out before he came, but someone told me that pre *** can get you pregnant and it was a day after the 2 week mark, which is when most women ovulate. Pretty much ever since we slept together I've felt really weird. I'm always nauseus, and when I eat cause I think it might be cause I'm hungry, I feel like I'm going to throw up. I've been feeling lightheaded and really fatigued all the time. I've got the worst heartburn all the time. I can't stop peeing or at least feeling like I have to pee. I can go to the bathroom and when I'm finished I'll still feel like I got to go. I've been getting some cramps too, which I am due to start tomorrow, but I never get cramps before my period, I only get cramps the first day with my periods. I had issues with number 2 as well, which is weird for me too because I have no gall bladder. I'm just worried that something is wrong because the test said negative. Could I be?

2006-07-19 12:45:53 · 18 answers · asked by Rhiannon 1 in Pregnancy

2006-07-19 12:44:10 · 34 answers · asked by brooke_martin14 1 in Pregnancy

cuz im running low on money.

2006-07-19 12:40:37 · 29 answers · asked by dyboy34 3 in Parenting

I wasnt thinking when i was eatin my favorite chips which is hot cheetos now im worried about my baby :-(

2006-07-19 12:36:16 · 18 answers · asked by classychick 2 in Pregnancy

We would like to thank all of you who answered and helped named our twins and being so patient those who were with Sasha she is a great friend she is like a sister to me. But the labor and delivery was fine I was in only 3 hrs. they wanted out and they are healthy and so very cute my twins won 1st place in the nursery newborn cutie contest both of them and we won year supply of cloth diapers, $200.00 Wal-Mart GC, 1 year free pictures, $200.00 Target GC, 2 fruit baskets, dinner for 3 months free at any rest. valued up to $100.00, 1 year supply baby lotion, orajel, cream, oil, powder, sleepers, and booties. I got 6 visits to a SPA!!! and a zooper stroller,$200.00 GC to Ibiza kids in NYC, $ 200.00 GC from Fortuneteeshirt and petunia pickle bottom and a Jcrew GC for $300.00 FOR ME!!!!!! and finally a 6 day 5 night vacation to anywhere using the travel pulse agency. So I was blessed and I am a happy camper. And I do have 2 other kids enjoying being older siblings. We are overjoyed

2006-07-19 12:34:16 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Newborn & Baby

im 5.5 months and find that i dont like anyone and all im doing when not at work is crying...is this bad for the baby? it only just started like 2 days ago, but i dont think my eyes take anymore...pretty soon i wont be able to see out of them

2006-07-19 12:31:05 · 19 answers · asked by what2do? 2 in Other - Pregnancy & Parenting

I hear all too often about women who are pregnant and make comments like "I will not put my baby up for adoption, I'd rather abort". I just don't understand this. So many people think adoption is a bad choice, something to not even consider. Why is that? There are so many positives about adoption . . . giving life instead of taking it away, allowing a child to be raised by people who so desperately want a child and knowing that they will provide everything for a child. What are mothers scared of when looking at adoption? Please, help me understand this.

Nowadays there are so many positive things that can be done with adoption. The birthmom can chose the family that she wants to place her child with. They can sign a legal binding agreement in some states that will state things such as how often the birthmom will receive pictures, letters, visit, etc. If the birthmom wants an open adoption that is.

Thanks for listening,
Deanna - hoping to adopt baby #2 soon
http://www.parentprofiles.com/profiles/db15432.html

2006-07-19 12:30:56 · 16 answers · asked by Want2adoptbaby#2 1 in Pregnancy

I know that I have the most preciuos baby in the world he is the cutest baby alive (except Jesus) But I find my self doing nothing but bragging all the time, I just cant stop. Not only that but he is 2 months old and when he smiles I still get tears in my eyes, I just want to eat him up. Will this bragging ever stop, and this feeling of overwelment when I look at him or hold him, Or have I gone too far?? I wonder if this is a normal feeling or if I went completly bonkers after child birth. I need help!!!!!!!(but seriously he is the cutest.....)

2006-07-19 12:28:15 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Newborn & Baby

wieght gain and deppresion

2006-07-19 12:26:36 · 5 answers · asked by shorty 1 in Pregnancy

2006-07-19 12:25:41 · 6 answers · asked by Terri L 2 in Pregnancy

Does anyone know what the average cost of Vasectomy or Tubal Ligation is in the state of California?

2006-07-19 12:23:11 · 4 answers · asked by belle13 2 in Other - Pregnancy & Parenting