2006-07-19 13:00:31 · 9 answers · asked by Derrick G 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
The trouble is that once you have sex with a guy, you will not be able to tell if he's just after sex or really cares about you. If you hold off on the sex and let him know that's your policy and you're sticking to it, he will stay if he's any good for you. If he leaves, it then proves he was only after sex.
Incidentally all guys are after sex, but if they really love a girl, they will wait for it.
This whole thing applies in reverse too. (Girl wants to have sex, boy has second thoughts) not as often though, I bet.
This whole thing is not preaching, I'm not even religious! It is just what I have observed that works out the best for people, myself and others. When I was dating, there were two kinds of girls. Ones that would do it and ones worth a long term with. That's what I saw and experienced. If you think different, you're welcome to it. Guys will say anything to get a girl in bed.
2006-07-19 13:08:05 · answer #1 · answered by desert_sailor2003 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am not cheap nor am i disgracing myself . My fiance and i agreed that it was time to have sex when we did and that neither of us is going to leave the other. We would have to wait 4 years for marriage so sex became part of our relationship but there was the commitment there already
2006-07-19 20:04:17 · answer #2 · answered by marishka 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have been with my man for almost 2 years and we have sex. But he was my first. I dont think that i need a peice of paper to tell me when i can have sex. And to tell me im inlove with that person. So no i dont think i am disgracing myself or making my self cheap.
2006-07-19 20:05:26 · answer #3 · answered by xogoodluckcharm18ox 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately we live in a degraded society. Each generation is just going to be more, bigger, worse than the one before. Its inevitable.
The best thing we can do is to be filled with the word of God. Our spirit will be regenerated and our conscience awakened. Spontaneously, if we are constituted with spirit and life we will not have the desire to fornicate. It will bother us too much. We can't do anything about the sin in us. We can choose the Lord over the world.
2006-07-22 13:11:45 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no way!!! theres a difference between ***** ya boyfriend and being a hooker! fair enough these are peoples views and people have got to respect them but i think its ok. get them people to have sex once and then see if theyll wait till marriage then. i dont think so!
2006-07-19 20:08:00 · answer #5 · answered by Bronny 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that is so untrue. sorry dude, but you got it all wrong. you can believe that if you want, but yahoo is not for you to preech to everyone about abstainance and your beliefs. thats what the religion&spirituality section is for.
2006-07-19 20:12:50 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you're inlove with him
2006-07-19 20:11:47 · answer #7 · answered by Sakura Drops 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
THEY DON'T DO IT TO MAKE THEMSELF LOOK CHEAP OR SLUTTY. THEY DO IT BECAUSE THEY WANT TO AND IT FEELS GOOD FOR THEM.
2006-07-20 01:25:01 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you love the guy!!!!!!! duh!
2006-07-19 20:04:17 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋