im 5.5 months and find that i dont like anyone and all im doing when not at work is crying...is this bad for the baby? it only just started like 2 days ago, but i dont think my eyes take anymore...pretty soon i wont be able to see out of them
2006-07-19 12:31:05 · 19 answers · asked by what2do? 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Other - Pregnancy & Parenting
this is my first pregnancy...i dont understand why people especially my mother who has had 3 children doesnt understand? i feel like she is doing everything she can to make this a horrible experience...im 27 so its not like she thinks im too young...and i ask her to leave me alone and she doesnt...what kind of a mother does this?
2006-07-19 12:45:05 · update #1
It is probably hormones. If you have a counceler to talk to, it will probably help. At least you won't have to be worrying that you'll feel like this forever or that your not normal. Still if there is something bothering other than the hormones it is better to resolve it not. The Hormones could start a rollarcoaster.
If you ever had an abortion. That could cause it. Talk to the counceller about it.
2006-07-19 12:40:33 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I just had my 4th baby... My first I used to cry myself to sleep afraid I couldn't take care of a baby. The 2nd I turned into a Medusa on steriods and was mean to anyone that crossed my path. The 3rd I kicked my husband out of the house after throwing a sausage at him and then called him crying asking him to bring home a pregnancy test...suprise it was possitive. Then with my fourth I went in stages...sometimes I was sad sometimes happy all depended on my hormones for the day. It's very normal but if you start wanting to hurt yourself or the baby then you need help. Otherwise it will pass. If it's still there 3 weeks after the baby is born it's a bad sign too. get help immediately.
2006-07-19 19:38:59 · answer #2 · answered by jenluvsdrew 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, your body is going crazy right now, you are not yourself. Being pregnant you go through a rollercoaster of emotions 1minute you are laughing and then a second later your are crying your eyes out for no aparent reason. It is normal just find something that puts you at ease read a book take a warm bath and relax. Watch upbeat funny movies to get your mind off the drama of life. It will get better.
Good Luck
*Ellen
2006-07-19 19:38:44 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
AWWWWWWW sweetie, its the hormones. Is there anyone you can talk to about it.
I am sorry you are having a bad time. Do you have a best friend you can confide in?
Praying helps if you are a religious person.
I am sending you angels to group around you.
Picture them there and they will comfort you.
You will be OK once you see that miracle inside you .
Put on some soft music, put your hand on your tummy and tell your baby what is wrong.
You will be soothed.
I will say a prayer for you.
2006-07-19 19:40:09 · answer #4 · answered by cheeky chic 379 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you're pregnant, your hormones are all over the place. One minute you're so happy & laughing and then the next minute crying like a baby. It's normal to be on an emotional roller coaster when you're pregnant. Even little things seem huge, like an empty toliet paper roll on the holder. People that you love seem to get on your nerves. Just take a deep breath and try to relax. If it continues constantly or gets severe, talk to your OB/GYN just to reassure yourself. Hope this helps!! Good Luck!
2006-07-19 19:38:06 · answer #5 · answered by Jamie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sweetie, you are having gestational depression...I think that is what it is called. just hang in there. Try to do something that you loved to do before you got pregnant. get lots of rest and see your Dr. Where is the baby's dad? Maybe you could take off for a long weekend together, sometimes a short change of environment will work wonders. Pregnancy causes all sorts of imbalances and hormones will be all messed up, so please talk to your Dr. adn let him/her what is going on. Hugs sweetie.
2006-07-19 19:38:40 · answer #6 · answered by skye 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Been there done that.......2and 1/2 times!!!!! Not only is it not good for ur baby girlfriend ur eyes r going to look a hot mess. I know it's only ur hormones but maybe you should sit down with your doc and see what the hell is up! In the mean time try to relax....have you ever heard or PTL (PreTerm Labor) Not fun at all girl. BE COOL!!!
2006-07-19 19:38:20 · answer #7 · answered by krazyassgyrl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hormones can make you really tearful. I cried at the drop of a hat in all 3 of my pregnancies. If you are feelign depressed, see your doctor and tell him/her what's going on. Let your husband/boyfriend/whomever know what you are feeling. It may take a few days to get out of the rut, but it's natural to be hormonal and weepy. Hang in there.
2006-07-19 19:36:58 · answer #8 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's hormones. Goofy things those hormones do to women. . .
My best friend was going to leave her husband because he pet the dog when he came home from work before kissing her hello.
Another friend of mine began crying because her husband went into the other room to watch baseball because she was in the living room watching Oprah. She told him he didn't love her anymore.
I yelled at my husband and made him sleep on the couch. Why? He left the toilet seat up.
Those hormones are evil, I tell ya!
2006-07-19 20:29:05 · answer #9 · answered by volleyballchick (cowards block) 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to the OB. It could be hormones flying or it could be depression. I was depressed when I was pregnant, too. Depression while pregnant is a good indicator of Post Partum Depression. There are anti-depressants you can take while pregnant and nursing. I know how hard it can be without help. Good luck!
2006-07-19 20:15:19 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋