Mental Health - September 2007

Im really scared because i really cant eat. If i do eat i get these horrible feelings and i feel like i can feel my thighs expanding (i know its sounds stupid but i swear it feels like that) i can feel the fat going to my stomach and my double chin and it makes me want to avoid food- not to get thin- to not have those feelings because they make me miserable. i try to avoid food as much as possible and only eat when absolutely necesary. Twice i threw up my food so i didnt feel this way. Its not that i THINK im FAT or something - i mean maybe i could stand to lose some pounds but nothing major its just the feeling i get after i eat. Do i need to eat healthily or get help? is this even curable? it makes me feel disgusted and upset- am i sick?

2007-09-23 03:19:44 · 20 answers · asked by DiamondKiss 2

What are you supposed to do when your nerves are so tore up over your boyfriend that you cant eat, sleep, or even think about anything else. My body hurts all over like I have flu or something. I could not even go to work yesterday. I tried to eat a biscuit this morning but I threw it right back up. I am shaking and trembling all over. I am a WRECK!!! I know this is not good. I take zoloft but it is not helping. I am losing my mind. How can I get myself out of this state??? Please I need some anwers. I talked to my grandma but no one seems to know what to do,.

2007-09-23 02:52:44 · 10 answers · asked by Sunny 2

2007-09-23 02:44:47 · 22 answers · asked by jim w 1

more lyk when something bad happen..

2007-09-23 01:05:13 · 10 answers · asked by Pwincess FaFa 1

example:
when i am angry with someone for telling me a lie..

2007-09-23 00:56:34 · 5 answers · asked by Pwincess FaFa 1

problem >??????
am very board more than any one can imagine

2007-09-23 00:13:18 · 4 answers · asked by marrious 2

when my bf says something bad to me, when i go home i think about it all d time and repeat it all d time. sometimes i wake up at night too. and sometimes i write the phraes he tells me too. is this a disorder? plz help so if so i get help immediatly

2007-09-22 23:28:16 · 20 answers · asked by babyandme 3

He says he will give up Craigslist searching for drugs (he has done is steady for a month), he says he will give up Ritalin even though it was originally prescribed after a sleep study that determined he had a sleep disorder...because he abused, over-took, eventually snorted). Now he wants to hang onto ephedra. I just think we are prolonging my pain and his addiction. He has to mail order Ephedra, it is now illegal in the US as far as I know. His teeth are brown, his hair looks different, he is more mentally insecure than when he smoked coke. What do you all think. Besides that I am insane and sick.

2007-09-22 21:10:26 · 4 answers · asked by sad in Seattle 1

I have a friend that that died last week after a very sudden illness. He was in the hospital for a week, and they were getting it under control. Everything was going fine, then during the night last monday, he took a turn for the worst and suddenly died. Im having a hard time dealing with it. We had a very special bond. What can I do to help ease the pain?

2007-09-22 20:54:58 · 10 answers · asked by deconstruct2000 1

2007-09-22 20:22:22 · 18 answers · asked by Holiday Magic 7

2007-09-22 20:18:03 · 10 answers · asked by Holiday Magic 7

He is on every single "recreational" drug you can possibly think of

One night i get a message from him saying "i need to see you, i just wanna hold you" so i let him come over and talk to him for a bit and thats all good

Then i msg him 2 weeks later to see how he is doing and he goes "sorry to say this but F *** OFF!!"

So i left it alone and didnt say anything to him and then the next day he says to me "sorry for the abuse figured it all out and its no more fun all the white has left only black till the end dont bother writing back have a good life and hope you find success"

I know that he is messed up because of the all the drugs that he is doing but my problem is i already have depression and all the rest of it so i want to help him but i cant because he pushes me back into my depression.

But im worried about him .. i know his parents pretty well, do you think i should tell them whats going on with him ? because i cant handle him anymore...

2007-09-22 18:57:51 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ok im only 14 && ive cried 3 times out of last week. But those 3 times ive been practicley cried at school. My teacher told me ''whats wrong?" I tell her " I dnt know." And its like i cry for no reason. Then she told me that this year ive been more emotional than last year. (( 7th grade ))
Do I sound depressed?

2007-09-22 17:54:54 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

What did u do to get out of it?

I'm really not in the mood to go back to see anyone or go back on any meds...

2007-09-22 17:44:14 · 15 answers · asked by Samantha 6

2007-09-22 17:39:56 · 15 answers · asked by never wanted nothin more... 1

When both of my kids moved out, I was upset. I had the empty nest syndrome. I cried off and on and I still get lonely, but not as bad as I was 5 months ago. My son came to visit and it was nice having him here.
My daughter came home for a visit at the same time, and I couldnt wait for her to leave. It brought back old memories of her drama and her immaturity. She started manipulating almost from the minute she walked in the front door.
I thought she was going to end up spending another nite here and I just wanted her to go home. She has put me thru a lot. It was so bad my 22 y.o. son will not even talk to her. He ignores her. I try to be good and kind, but she knows how to rattle my chain. There is still a lot of untold anger here.
Do you think I am abnormal or do most parents want their kids to get on with their lives?

2007-09-22 17:39:42 · 11 answers · asked by happydawg 6

my bff and gf and i have been split up....ive tried to move on, and try new girls.....but i am still madly in love with her but im pretty sure shes moved on.....i cant take that pain of this anymore, ive been enduring this for too long....im depressed and dont kno what to do

2007-09-22 17:37:53 · 12 answers · asked by bluepengreen 2

i am a 23 year old female and dianosed with bi polar please help

2007-09-22 17:07:14 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

im taking prozak and its making me feel really weird its only the second day but i feel really weird, tired, and out of it... is anyone else taking this? is it normal?

2007-09-22 16:40:08 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

hey guys I know this might be a taboo or even overrated question but I just wanted to know how people have dealt with the loss of someone close. I lost a close relative to cancer all but 12 hours ago and I feel like I'm voided in emotion having cried, got mad, bewildered and frustrated.. now im slightly numbed and don't quite know how I go on. I know everyone has their own way of dealing with things but just to help me to understand an aspect of life I've never had to deal with before could you kindly share with me how you have regained strength after such an event.

2007-09-22 16:17:04 · 10 answers · asked by Cameron T 2

pills). How has it been for you? Has it worked? Tell me anything you can on the experience....I ask this bcz my friend suffers from deep anxiety & has been prescribed this by her doctor. I am so happy that she can start to have a normal life, & I wanted to see what it's been like for others so I can share with her. Thank you & I appreciate your answers.

2007-09-22 15:45:40 · 8 answers · asked by Britney 1

My brother has borderline personality disorder. My family, especially my parents, we all are suffering immensely. I am the oldest and he is the baby of the family. We have 12 years age difference. I am single, with no kids and he is very important to me. He is a time bomb and regularly has explosive temper tantrum that are very painful to deal with. He lives with my aging parents and I suffer to see them tolerate those outburst of rage followed by I love you, I am sorry, I will never do it again to restart the anger cycle over again. I am looking for an online support group. Can you give me information on where I can find such online support group. I am riding the emotional roller coaster and i am at the end of my rope. Help!

2007-09-22 15:27:27 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

MY MIND IS RACING! I WANT TO DO SO MUCH AND SO LITTLE! I WANT TO LEARN ANOTHER LANGUAGE AND TO PLAY AN INSTRUMENT, AND I WANT TO JUST RUN NONSTOP! I WANT TO SMASH MYSELF INTO A WALL, I WANT TO JUMP, SCREAM GO CRAZY, EXPLODE! but instead i just sit in my room and do nothing. my mind is racing, but im just holding it all back, i cant release it, what do i do?

i feel like crying now all the sudden. after writing all of that. im a wreck. i get these crazy mood swings (im not bipolar, they dont last long enough) i just hold everything in and probably wont tell anyone these things. except on this website. what should i do to stop being an emotional wreck?

2007-09-22 15:23:16 · 10 answers · asked by Q 2

I'm lost...

And so sad....

I feel like there is NO turning back...

I feel so alone....

It's numbing....


What can I do to dig my way out of this self-induced hole?!??

2007-09-22 15:07:30 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

soooooooooo what do i do plzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz help me

2007-09-22 14:47:26 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

When I'm alone, I talk to myself. I pretend people are there and I talk to them about anything random. I pretend they are my friends from school or someone I want to meet. I am fully aware they aren't there. No hallucinations for me. They don't answer back, I answer for them. Anyway, I would act things out as if there was another person there. I pretend I'm someone else, usually someone who was raped or beaten as a child. Seven years later and I still do this, except now it's more of a habit and I tend to do it as soon as I'm alone. Before, I would only do it when I was bored or sad.

I'm scaring myself because I'm starting to believe this 'pseudo-reality' is more real than I intended it to be. I'm starting to want to become the people I pretend to be. No matter how many people I surround myself with, I would still rather be someone that isn't there.

I was at a concert with my mom and I thought to myself, "Wow! I can't wait to tell so-and-so about tonight!" except I don't know them.

2007-09-22 14:02:48 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

Its been a week and it has not even started to heal i was every upset my parents were fighting and I just cant take it anymore. so I cut myself I know I need to stop I'm trying. My question is how do I hide it from my parents Its right on my wrist. My sister saw it and I lied and said I cut myself in art class. How can I make it heal faster it hurts really bad and is really red. I'm 16

2007-09-22 13:58:44 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

MY sister has been really..odd lately..well for some time now..
She is 12 btw.
Well one minute she will be really upset and telling me to kill her and the next inute she will be happy and giggly.. then the next minute she will get calm and be ok...
It gets even worse when she is on her period....
But she gets really depressed like symptoms and then she gets really happy....
I think she might be bipolar...is she?

2007-09-22 13:57:08 · 6 answers · asked by BrittaneyxCouture 3

This may be long but try to follow. Theres this guy who i use to be friends with that i turned down. Since then he has called my house harrasing, put up websites about me and tried to get personal information through computer posing as a website. . He also knows the forums i frequent on the internet and this is where i met this next man. Im a very attractive woman, hes an unnatractive man- Recently another man led me on through the computer, made me think he had interest and then turned me down. Now he says things like he wants me dead, no longer breathing and mentions little things that this other guy would say to me. Do you think this is another sick plan of his to get revenge on me? It seems like too many coincidences and no man has ever turned me down. This guy treats me like im scum after leading me on.

2007-09-22 13:55:08 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

My mind is mentally exhausted, but my body is fine, but when i try to lay down 8/10 times i just lay there. I do have panic disorder, and sumtimes im calm, but still scared like now, my arm feels funny, but my pulse is low, but so tired, i try 2 tell myself its not my heart because ive had so many heart tests done and all was well, most recent was back in march/april. i try 2 say im not tired, but it doesnt work. Plz help! and im not on any meds

2007-09-22 13:54:38 · 4 answers · asked by Chris 2