I cant take it anymore, someone tell me why i shouldnt kill myself?

Question

my bff and gf and i have been split up....ive tried to move on, and try new girls.....but i am still madly in love with her but im pretty sure shes moved on.....i cant take that pain of this anymore, ive been enduring this for too long....im depressed and dont kno what to do

Answer 1

For depression it is wiser to start with over the counter first because if it doesn't work you can always go see a psychologist anyway. But why do all that without giving over the counter a chance first? The local health food and nutrition store will sell St. John's Wort for example. It is an all-natural treatment for depression that will cost less money than a doctors visit will.

Killing is wrong whether it is yourself or your next door neighbor killing a human being is killing a human being and you just know deep down in your heart that is is plain wrong and you don't want to do that.

Answer 2

I'm sorry you are feeling so down =(

I really don't have much to say to make you feel better... I think things like that hurt, but it isn't the end of the world like the first answerer said. I think if things are meant to be, then things will work out between you guys. If they aren't though, then I think you should move on. I'm sure you will find another girl for you that loves you very much, and you will be able to get over her eventually. And if you feel you can handle it, you guys can always remain friends. If it is really bad, maybe you should try therapy, or try being more active to help keep your mind off of things. Keeping a positive outlook about things can also help. You can also always email me if you need someone to talk to. I hope this answer helps and I hope everything works out 4 you =)

Answer 3

I have felt this way. I understand how alone you feel right now. I have gone through something very similar. I hope you realize that EVERYONE has their heartbroken in life, everyone gets depressed at some point. We can't expect life to be perfect every second. Not only that but think about what you DO have. Imagine people living in worse situations than you are. Step outside of yourself for a moment. It is so hard to get over someone that you are in love with, it is the worst feeling to lose someone you love, but in time you will feel differently. Good luck.

Answer 4

Ever heard those love songs on the radio that talk about how much pain is involved when your crapped on, dumped and left bleeding and wounded. The song that comes to mind is "Thank God for Unanswered Prayers"
It hurts like crazy to have someone tell you they are not in love with you anymore. Its like your soul is lost and nothing is going to be the same. They move on with their lives and you go on aching, crying and lost.
I think you need to take your time and heal. Just know your not alone and the sun is going to come out again. It just takes time.
Make an appointment with a counselor at mental health and talk your heart out. Tell them how much pain you are in and heck....even e mail me. I am your friend. We have all been there.
Dont kill yourself. I care and so do all the people who answer your question.

Answer 5

See depression treatments, at http://www.ezy-build.net.nz/~shaneris... on page 2. Firmly resolve now to stop thinking about her, and use the negative thought reprogramming technique, on page 2, and consider carrying a wide rubber band in your pocket, as a means of reinforcing it. Make yourself exercise, and go out, even if you don't enjoy it, at first: it will provide one way of stopping you from thinking about your present life situation. You seem young; if so, see teens, on page 13, and understand that memories fade, with the passing of time, and ask yourself where you will be in 5 years time, and 10. Most teenagers go through similar things, and it's common for many relationships to begin, and end, especially when younger. It's a good idea to only emotionally invest in a relationship, according to its length of time, and the degree of commitment from BOTH of the people involved. Express those feelings in a letter, and put it in the post, or have a ceremony, and burn it in a metal container, and flush the ashes down the toilet, resolving firmly to stop thinking about her.

Answer 6

You should see a psychologist. Things like that hurt, but it's not the end of the world. There might be someone who is just perfect for you and who would love you no matter what. You just need to look a little harder.

I know its easy to give up, I've been down that path, but if you hold on just a while longer, you could see life for what its really worth.

Talk to someone you trust, or see a professional. They want to help you.

Answer 7

Right now it may feel bad, but the pain goes away after awhile and you will forget about this. This may not ease your pain now, but i always think about how millions of people share the same problems, and watch how the successful ones deal with their problems and how to become emtionally happy. But you still have to find a solution to match your personality. It may be best for you to just do things you will enjoy, and rest alot, eat well, and watch comedies. Guaranteed this will get better with time.

Answer 8

It is illogical to do so. Would you cut your head off to relieve a painful pimple? The things concerning love and lost love can be very painful and hurt deep and long, but there is always tomorrow, none of us know what tomorrow brings.

Answer 9

What you are suffering from is not love. It is infatuation. have you read "Pride and prejudice" . If you have pride and dignity, you won't think of killing yourself...you will shake the chains of pain off, be content with what you have and move on. Who knows what do the stars hold for you.

Answer 10

You should seek real help, man. What you need to do is actually talk to someone: parents, friends, a pastor, anyone. Does your school have a councilor? If nothing else call the suicide hotline, 1-800-SUICIDE
1-800-784-2433.