He says he will give up Craigslist searching for drugs (he has done is steady for a month), he says he will give up Ritalin even though it was originally prescribed after a sleep study that determined he had a sleep disorder...because he abused, over-took, eventually snorted). Now he wants to hang onto ephedra. I just think we are prolonging my pain and his addiction. He has to mail order Ephedra, it is now illegal in the US as far as I know. His teeth are brown, his hair looks different, he is more mentally insecure than when he smoked coke. What do you all think. Besides that I am insane and sick.
2007-09-22 21:10:26 · 4 answers · asked by sad in Seattle 1 in Health ➔ Mental Health
you cannot help someone who does not want to be helped. if he is looking at ads for men seeking men maybe he is gay. got a question for you: how can you tell when an addict or alcoholic(active one) is lying? he/she opens their mouth. so if he is telling you that he is not at least bi or gay..... he is lying. you need to tell him that when he gets himself clean and sober and knows what he wants he can come back to you; if that is what he chooses. i know i sound mean but i am a recovering alcoholic and addict ( 4 years and almost 4 months) and if what you are saying is true you need to get out of your marriage and get yourself emotionally, and mentally healthy. if you have kids in the house it is your responsibility, as there mom, to make sure that they are healthy. if there are kids in the house that house is not healthy for them let alone you. you know what you have to do.....do it.
2007-09-23 01:06:40 · answer #1 · answered by amanda t 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So you've been asking these questions for at least two weeks now. You need to understand that your spouse has an addiction. It doesn't have anything to do with whether you're cute or slender or good in bed. Nothing at all. He is addicted to drugs and to dangerous behavior. If he's searching ads for men seeking men, he is probably gay and was never truly attracted to you. He is a liar. You need to go to a Narc-Anon meeting so you can hear other people talk about their addictions and ask some questions about your husband. People who have been addicts will tell you the truth about him. But you won't like it, which is why you keep asking questions, rather than what you should do, which is just to leave. This guy is the wrong choice for you. He won't give up the addictions until he hits rock bottom. Even then, he will probably relapse again. I think you need to face the fact that your marriage is over. I'm sorry to tell you that, but it seems clear to me. But, the first step is to go to a Narc-Anon meeting and start hearing what people tell you.
2007-09-22 21:19:24 · answer #2 · answered by Katherine W 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are a fool. He is not using ephedra. that is just what you chose to believe. He is a full time user of meth. and you are the court jester. HAHAHAHAHA
2007-09-22 22:01:15 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
quit being evasive..tell the truth or go to bed
2007-09-22 21:14:30 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋