when my bf says something bad to me, when i go home i think about it all d time and repeat it all d time. sometimes i wake up at night too. and sometimes i write the phraes he tells me too. is this a disorder? plz help so if so i get help immediatly
2007-09-22 23:28:16 · 20 answers · asked by babyandme 3 in Health ➔ Mental Health
Trust your life to God, not anyone else, and you will be feeling well.
God loves you, and you are precious to Him. Son of God died on the Cross to save us from condemnation, and qualifying us to Heaven. Just come to Jesus with genuine repentance and faith, and you will find peace, hope and meaning for your life. Heaven is wonderful beyond descriptions and forever without end. Never miss Heaven for anything of this troubled world. Life on earth is short and uncertain. Get right with God before it is too late. Best wishes for happiness and Heaven! (www.spiritlessons.com)
2007-09-23 08:08:16 · answer #1 · answered by tmthyh 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Use the following: NEGATIVE THOUGHT REPROGRAMMING TECHNIQUE: It is important to deal with a negative internal monologue (self talk) by the process of (a) recognising it, and (b) challenging it immediately. When you notice that you are saying something negative to yourself, such as: "I'm never going to get over this!" or: "Why am I always so pathetic/useless/such a loser?" or even: "I can't do this/will never get the hang of this!", recognise that this is part of the mindset which will hold you back from progressing in your recovery. Having identified and labelled it, say to yourself as forcefully as you can, even aloud in a big voice, if alone: "I know this tactic: GO AWAY FOR A WHILE !!!" You may want to use either: "ruse", "ploy", "game", or "trick", instead of "tactic", and some people put a wide rubber band around their wrist if they catch themselves backsliding, then stretch and release it, as a way of reprogramming their minds more quickly, but I don't regard it as being strictly necessary. Also see self esteem/confidence, at http://www.ezy-build.net.nz/~shaneris on page 38.
2007-09-23 06:39:23 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, I don't think it's a disorder as such but ..
Perhaps you rely too much on bf. Perhaps as a result you let him say things that upset you without him ever feeling that you are a person deserving respect.
It's normal and natural to be upset when someone we would like to love treats us badly. It can be even worse when someone who is nice most of the time says or does something horrible to us, or even shows that their love isn;t complete.
Suggestion - try to work with rather than against him. Tell him how you feel and how he upsets you when he says bad things. If he doesn't get it, walk away gently and with your head held high.
2007-09-23 06:37:51 · answer #3 · answered by Quandary 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You probably have obsessive compulsive disoder(OCD). Or you are going though some kind of phase(but not likely). Does OCD run in your family, because it can be genetic. If it does run in your family than you should consult a doctor. Also just run a research that says"OCD symptoms" or "Obsessive Compulsive Disorder symptoms". Either way, it should bring up the same information. Also keep track of all your symptoms for a few weeks(2-4 weeks). If you want me to do the research for you email me at bluehippy15@yahoo.com. See ya!!!
2007-09-23 08:43:57 · answer #4 · answered by Tay :) 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is a really gentle and genuine boy friend, he would not have told you something bad that makes u feel bad. He would have been kind enough to gently bring to your notice whatever wrong u might have committed. Study him a little deeper and ask him point blank why he had to comment something bad 2 u.
Doesn't he have anything bad in him? Is he an angel? He has no right to make u feel so miserable. Tell him so.
2007-09-23 06:37:59 · answer #5 · answered by Vasanthkumar Mysoremath 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds as though he says bad things to you all the time. This is abuse and something you dont deserve and, I am sure, something that you did not sign on for when you hooked up with this loser. The only disorder that you have, is extreme foolishness if you go back there again. Call look up the local organization for domestic violence and give them a call. If you stay, it wont be long until it becomes physical and you get seriously hurt.
2007-09-23 06:35:43 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
hey im 15 and im gonna tell you what i think so dont think im being meen or anything i think you may have ocd obsesive compulery disorder coz your obsessing over the sae thing for ages and you wont let it go you just need to relax more and stop thinking about it stay calm and if he says something bad to you say something bad back my sister has ocd shes obsessed wif germs and if i had a drink of her pop she wudnt want it any more because i had touched it and shes only 5 so see a doctor or try and forget about it i hope this helped
2007-09-23 06:36:41 · answer #7 · answered by :)Talli Tastik(: 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. It isn't. If you question it it is not. However, it is a lack of self esteem. By repeating it over and over you are beating yourself up so that you have to hear and relive it.
If you dump him you will find out the problem disappears.
2007-09-23 06:35:06 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are struggling too much with htis relationship.
If you have problems between you two(which is perfectly normal) just talk it out with him.Don't let it go to your head.You are having sleepless nights!!
If you are not having fun,what are you getting out of all this?
Think bout it
2007-09-23 06:41:25 · answer #9 · answered by hustler 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like anxiety. There is help for you out there. Ask a doctor. Why are you with someone who constantly makes you feel bad?
2007-09-23 06:40:17 · answer #10 · answered by Bridie B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋