This may be long but try to follow. Theres this guy who i use to be friends with that i turned down. Since then he has called my house harrasing, put up websites about me and tried to get personal information through computer posing as a website. . He also knows the forums i frequent on the internet and this is where i met this next man. Im a very attractive woman, hes an unnatractive man- Recently another man led me on through the computer, made me think he had interest and then turned me down. Now he says things like he wants me dead, no longer breathing and mentions little things that this other guy would say to me. Do you think this is another sick plan of his to get revenge on me? It seems like too many coincidences and no man has ever turned me down. This guy treats me like im scum after leading me on.
2007-09-22 13:55:08 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Mental Health
Definetely sounds like its him. but you dont need this. no matter how good or bad looking you are. end it and end it now before it gets outta control. just say your rite im ugly u deserve better and break up with him and hell feel like he accomplished his goal and leave you alone. (hopefully) go get with a real man. real men dont treat women liek that. real men tell their gfs that they arent fat and ugly even if they are.
2007-09-22 14:01:21 · answer #1 · answered by tfortiger 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'll say this much for you - ya got no self esteem problems do ya?
Meeting men on the Internet is an iffy situation at best - now it seems you have a "net stalker" I would suggest changing your email moniker and make sure you never, ever, ever, EVER give out any personal info on this or ANY Internet site. If this is the same guy you need to disappear from your regular sites for a while.
Oh by the way -- EVERYBODY gets turned down now and then.
Best of luck sweets,
God bless
fishergirl
2007-09-22 21:11:23 · answer #2 · answered by fishergirl 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This is called stalking...when he uses the phone, it is a felony to make any kind of a threat, as it is a computer, because they are using federal communications, if I am not mistaken...print everything that they say and do, write down everything, but contact the police dept...but I get the feeling he is just beginning on you...and he isn't going to stop...it does sound familiar, and I've had this kind of thing happen to me,....believe me, worse than that...God bless and stay strong, ...x
2007-09-22 20:59:43 · answer #3 · answered by MotherKittyKat 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You need to be very careful ... There are a lot of stalkers out there and they come in all forms. Maybe trying to hook up with a man over the Internet is not a good idea.
Please do what you need to do in order to stay safe and away from those types of men.
2007-09-22 21:01:54 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't play the game. Get off the computer for a while and change your nicknames. You could be dealing with stalking behaviour; if it continues call the police.
2007-09-22 21:20:30 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are going to have to be aggressive about shutting this guy down. You need to be very proactive in registering a complaint and seeing whatever legal actions are available to you.
2007-09-23 01:52:12 · answer #6 · answered by traceilicious 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would get off the internet for awhile and let this creep find someone else to stalk.~
2007-09-22 21:00:25 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just don't act like scum in real life and you should be fine. Announce his presence and deny all his accusations.
2007-09-22 21:00:43 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
yeah, creepy, stop meeting men on the internet and file a report against him for stalking.
2007-09-22 20:59:32 · answer #9 · answered by Squeak 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yep forget the internet thing, 2 many weirdos,
2007-09-22 21:02:00 · answer #10 · answered by Arron G 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋