He's been living off his accumulated salary, but I'm sure that's coming to an end soon. He was diagnosed with depression a few years ago, and is on medication, but not in therapy.
Every time I ask him if he has sent out resumes, he admits he hasn't sent out a single one. When I ask why, he says that he is too afraid to face his situation and the possibility of rejection from potential employers. I have talked with him for hours on end, trying to make suggestions, pleading with him to get help. And yet, he thinks it is up to him to just get his act together. Plus, he is uncomfortable talking about his "flaws" (his words, not mine).
All he does is sleep or play on the internet. If work needs to be done around the house, he takes forever to get around to it. He often doesn't leave the house for days. He's 35, and if this keeps up he'll have to move in with his Dad.
If he avoids everything he fears, including seeking help, what can possibly be done?
2006-09-10
18:47:24
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torreyc73
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