With time, I've always grown to become a very naive person. I've allowed people to walk all over me, take advantage of me...that is according to ones who know me best. They've made me realize that sometimes I am allowed to step up and say what it is I have to say even if it might hurt them. Thing is, I can't be the most direct person. Sometimes if something is wrong I can't say it. I just act like it's okay. Now, I need tips on learning how to speak up for my own sake. Any advice? Second thing is, whenever I go out with people and I know people will be drinking, I always get the feeling that I have to play babysitter. I just feel like its my responsibility to watch over them so they dont get hurt. My friend has warned me that I should stop and not worry, have fun and let loose, because at some point in my life, he knows I will regret it. He doesn't want me to make the same mistakes he does..I know he's right though. How can I learn to stop worrying and feel like I have to babysitt?
2006-07-24
19:30:36
·
6 answers
·
asked by
Anonymous
in
Mental Health