Ok, I love my husband dearly, we have been together since highschool and have a beautiful daughter. But he has gained a lot of weight. I'm not shallow, I still find him sexy, but I'm worried about his health. He found his dad dead in bed of a heart attack when he was 14. I would think that he would realize how horrible it would be for our daughter to lose him. I am really worried about him, and have expressed my concern in a loving way. He is 6' and 275lbs. He has a really big build, but a lot of it is fat now. Its so bad that he has a ton of stretch marks. He says that he just doesnt care what people think. But I wish he would care about himself and us enough to take care of himself. And it really hurts me sometimes, I feel like he is being selfish, and that is a big turn off for me. I'm in love with him, but I sometimes have a hard time mentally being turned on because of this problem. Does anyone have any advice on what to do or say to get him to shape up?
2006-06-28
08:07:54
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