If you're making out with a girl and you try to do something and she says no and makes it clear that she doesn't want you to do it, why don't you just stop? Why do you go ahead and do it anyway?
2006-06-28 08:09:50 · 12 answers · asked by Jen 5 in Health ➔ Men's Health
I did mean no. I kept telling him no but he wouldn't listen.
2006-06-28 08:23:16 · update #1
For me, I have always tried to ask permission before doing anything. When my girlfriend and I was getting to know each other, I was playing with her breasts and tried to steal third base. She told me that her ***** was off limits so I still half hearted tried to move my hands down there, but stuck mainly to her breasts she was also sitting on my lap at this time. Not all guys are creeps. I have done other things with my girlfriend that we have had to take slowly to minimize pain and discomfort.
2006-06-28 12:34:12 · answer #1 · answered by andy 7 · 2⤊ 2⤋
Sometimes, “no” means “NO!”
Sometimes, “no” means “eat me out first.”
Sometimes, “no” means “I really would like to have sex with you but my parents and society have made me WAY too neurotic about sex, and so I don’t feel like I can consent and still respect myself, and so I need you to ‘force’ me so that I can at least pretend to protect my ‘innocence’ and act like I didn’t want it; even though I totally do!”
Girls are complicated and conflicted. Blame a society that idolizes virginity but can’t tell you why.
Unfortunately – for you and the girls who are not able to be honest about their feelings – the ONLY safe thing for you to do, as a guy, when you hear “no” is to stop what you are doing, get up, thank the girl for a pleasant evening, go home, masturbate, and NEVER call her again.
2006-06-28 15:31:18 · answer #2 · answered by ***** 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It's because a lot of girls say "No" when they mean "Yes- but I'd feel better if I at least showed a little resistance"
I don't think a man can "force" himself on a woman unless he's quite rough and when that happens then it's surely rape. I think girls should realise a bloke is quite vulnerable if you give him a hard tug on his bollocks!!!
2006-06-28 21:46:22 · answer #3 · answered by Johnny Baggs 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sweetheart, if you said no and he went ahead anyway, iits sexual assault- if he actually had sex with you while you were saying no thats RAPE. Report him before some other girl gets the same treatment. Get this nasty bastard arrested, quick!!!!!
2006-06-29 09:54:53 · answer #4 · answered by k0005kat 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe its not really a girl that you want.Because you are heading straight to jail for rape.Then you can answer your own question when you say NO.
2006-06-28 15:21:06 · answer #5 · answered by Hoyt R 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not all men are a$$holes and act this way. Some of us ARE gentlemen.
2006-06-28 15:19:01 · answer #6 · answered by rahkokwee 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should have just got up and walked out actions speak loader than words.
good luck
2006-06-28 15:31:14 · answer #7 · answered by scooter blade 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no means no thats the law baby
2006-06-28 18:32:17 · answer #8 · answered by mr g 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Coz women dont say by heart. actually women dont want to stop him that's why thay compell a man to do but say STOP!!!!!!!!!
2006-06-28 15:22:12 · answer #9 · answered by Effected Mind 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
because men don't respect women
2006-06-28 15:13:20 · answer #10 · answered by me 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋