My sister is getting married soon, and it's time she picks the bridesmaids. She has a friend whom she's very close with but this girl is very unreliable. She would like to involve her in the wedding but knows that she will mess it up somehow- either not be able to come up with the money for the dress, arriving late to the wedding- something. My question is, if this were your wedding, would you suck it up and have her as a bridesmaid, considering that they have been close friends since high school, KNOWing that she will most likely mess something up, just so there are no feelings hurt, or do you make it a "family only" bridal party (just the sisters of the bride and groom) and risk hurting the friend deeply, because she has expressed how excited she is to be in the wedding, even though she hasn't been asked yet?
2006-08-17
02:21:18
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Kimmie
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