I ve fallen in love with a guy so much i want to get married to him, but he s never talked about marriage yet. I am shy to mention the topic, how do i get him to marry me?
2006-08-16 22:44:21 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
Bring up the subject maybe in a subtle way, like leave a magazine on the table, watch movies with a marriage in them, stuff like that.
2006-08-16 22:49:21 · answer #1 · answered by Jim C 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
How long have you been together? Maybe he is just not ready for marriage yet or your relationship is too new. Have you even told him that you love him and does he return your feelings?
If you have been together for sometime and you have shared your love then I think you can always propose to him yourself.
But to answer your question. You can only ask him to marry, you can't get him to marry you. Good luck!
2006-08-16 22:53:39 · answer #2 · answered by Jenny C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you mention the words "marriage, commitment or parents" he'll freal out ... a guy needs sometime to get it in his head that he loves someone & he wants her for life. I'd say take a step back, don't see him for 2-3 days ..... let him miss you ... he may not prupose, but it'll start him thinking about having you in his life forever!
2006-08-19 23:11:36 · answer #3 · answered by Hunter 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
and where from did u get impression that legal marriage improves love? i really don't understand what for women need to get married. u think u will chain him to yourself? no dear, u won't. if he meets someon e better he leaves u whether u re married or not. so better enjoy the moment now. if he thinks u re the one he will propose. if he doesn't think u re the one - how will u make him? so no use of proposing first.
2006-08-16 23:08:59 · answer #4 · answered by jacky 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whoa, bridezilla! Who is this guy? Is he someone you know intimately or just a bloke you see on the bus in the morning on your way to work??? If he's the latter then I'd suggest you back off or you may find he slaps you with a restraining order. It's happened to me. I know what I'm talking about
2006-08-18 03:24:14 · answer #5 · answered by trog 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i was with my guy for 2 months when a topic came up on tv about leap year(when girls propose).this was 2yrs away and my guy kept hinting that i could ask him at this time.after hearing this being said a dozen times i said to him "the way your going you wont last almost 2 yrs".with that he got on one knee and proposed we had been together 5 months and now married for almost 11 yrs. good luck
2006-08-17 00:08:29 · answer #6 · answered by linda l 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was under the impression that since women have fought for equality and to a greater extent now have it - why are we still getting thse sort of questions???
If you are both of the same opinion of one another then why don't you initiate the question?
2006-08-16 22:53:19 · answer #7 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Toooooo keen!!! Put the brakes on yourself, otherwise he will run a mile! Enjoy what you have and take it one step at a time, otherwise you will end up being used. I get the impression that you have been hurt badly before??
2006-08-16 22:49:41 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it sounds like your the one who wants to get married no matter what so get pregnant and then ask him to marry you because it sounds like you are not willing to wait so entrapment looks like the only way at this time
2006-08-16 23:32:52 · answer #9 · answered by magnum 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Don't rush him, you really have to know him better and see the signs if he wants to marry you 'cause if you don't see that sign what's the point of being in that relationship.
2006-08-17 23:00:41 · answer #10 · answered by confused_fozz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋