Singles & Dating - 6 December 2007

I have this boyfriend and he is really sweet. But a bunch of girls always give him their numbers and ****. Then he tries to hide it from me. A lot of girls message him some messages that they should not be messaging (if you get my flow). At times I think that Im just being used. But when its just me and him I dont think that at all. Im not the jealous type but I think it is him that Im getting mad at. I really want this to work and he told me the same thing.....but I dont think that he really means it. He tells me he loves me and at times I know that he does but when i really think about it....I dont know if he does or not. And this really scares me. Because I have been hurt so many times.....

2007-12-06 15:46:43 · 10 answers · asked by Jess 1

Met a guy for about a week, and he asked me that question. he have told me that he was a "bad boy", playing girls and drugs. and says that he is not a bad guy anymore. Why is he asking me that?

2007-12-06 15:44:20 · 46 answers · asked by channie 1

I'm trying to accept that this guy I'm crazy about and have been flirting with for 3 months now just isn't into me.

I've never had this problem before. (And I don't want to sound conceited, because I'm really not.) But... I'm pretty! I'm 5'8", blond, great body (I used to be a lingerie model, for crying out loud!). I'm smart... I'm in law school on a scholarship. I'm funny. I'm nice. I'm not perfect, but I'm definitely a decent catch.

I've never fallen for anyone as hard as this guy. It's time to come to terms that it just isn't going to happen, and I'm trying to figure out why. I've shown him that I like him. He's single and not gay. Is there anything else that I could possibly do? Should I just give up? I feel so discouraged.

2007-12-06 15:31:48 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous

have you ever fallen out of love with a long term partner and look back over your relationship with them and kicked yourself for how much time and effort you devoted to them because you couldn't see them for what they were because you were so in love with them?? and does it effect you now when meeting new people??

2007-12-06 15:28:52 · 9 answers · asked by I hate little green pigs 3

I met this guy who has 3 kids and is fine and gorgeous. We have dated for over 2 months now and I find out that he has 3 daughters and I am not ready to play mother yet. What should I do? I mean this dude is really fine as he^^ and does everything right, if you know what I mean. lol lol. But the whole kid thing is making me think twice. What would you ladies do?

2007-12-06 15:27:25 · 12 answers · asked by ????????? 3

He has a girlfriend. Before I knew this, I really, truly thought he liked me. We`d always be flirting, and if he needed a question, or an opinion, he`d come to me first. We have little inside jokes, and we tease each other a lot....but I heard the news today that he has this obsessive girlfriend...It took me totally by surprise....I didnt want to believe it....and I was planning on going to see him soon, too....plus he knows how I feel about him...but the fact that he KNEW that and he he is going out with her....(might I add that she`s a total sl.ut)...and...I dont know if I should either, give up on him, keep faith in him, or maybe tell him off. Not to mention the problem about going to see him...despite all the other stuff...I still really want to see him!! He`s sweet and funny,AND amazingly cute, I get very relaxed and comfortable around him...I cant imagine myself with anyone else...I just dont know what to do!! Any advice is highly appreciated!!! Thanks!! PLEASE help!!!

2007-12-06 15:22:13 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous

my crush juss broke up with his girlfriend yesterday, and i wanted to ask him out....but when is the rite time to ask him out? a week, 3 days, a month!!!!??? when??? im confused!!!!! I'm afraid if he'll reject me too....cuz, i dont know if he really likes though...i mean like he stares at me in class sumtimes too, but idk if all the rite signs are there......well i hope you answer this!!!! thnx for the advice anywayz!!! =]

2007-12-06 15:12:49 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

I want it to be good and something he would like!? but I don't know what to do? He might like me and I like him. is a gift card boring?

2007-12-06 15:00:11 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

... also friends with her hubby. I know my bros friend well & I just recently met her hubby about 8 weekends ago, my brother sells things at a flea mall for extra money, where jessica sells on the weekends. Jessicas hubby started coming there on the weekends too & when jessica or my bro arent really around he stands by me when he can or tries to find stuff to say to me, tried to make me laugh he just does it out of the blue, and there are lots of people around. its not like the 4 of us were standing there & my bro and jessica left. but does he "like me", or just being nice because he is friends with my brother?

it started out with trying to talk, now he worked in finding out my age and height. little things. then he kinda hugged me from behind when he was leaving one day.
last weekend he was there for about 10 mins, stood next to me and put his arm around me to hug so I did the same he put his other arm around as did I , for 30 sec at least till he let go. what do you think?

2007-12-06 14:55:55 · 3 answers · asked by coolchick686 1

I have always been a conservative girl with morals and values. The last year or so I have loosened up a bit, and feel guilty about some of it. However, I still haven't did anything really bad. However, I am going to visit my boyfriend for an entire weekend and he has admitted that he would like to have a few drinks with me over the weekend. I rarely drink, and I am not sure if I should. Having said that, we are both virgins and are mid 20's. Am I about to make a huge mistake ...as in is this too much temptation?

2007-12-06 14:52:23 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

family, boyfriend, or friends and why? its just a question i need to think about, any advice is appreciated!

2007-12-06 14:49:44 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

Well I like this guy (Daniel) but I don't know if he likes me or what. We look at eachother a lot but then we imeditly look away. We don't really talk, we e-mail eachother, I feel funny when I'm around you, some people say that he's just afraid to show his real feelings, other people say that he likes me, and well we sort of avoid eachother (I think). Also, I'm too afraid to make a move and he's not gonna make a move but I really want to go out with him but I want him to ask me out. WHAT DO I DO!!!!!?!?!?!!

2007-12-06 14:49:38 · 2 answers · asked by nikeluver359 1

Hello every1 , i have a problem , you see my bf let's call him ''C'', thinks that he's a waste of time , borky , ugly , etc ...
He keeps calling himself these things and when i try telling him it's not true that he's the best person on earth. He puts himself down more . I wish i knew what's going on inside his head . If you can help me i would appicate it . emensley .

Thank you sarah l.

2007-12-06 14:43:58 · 4 answers · asked by Sarah L 4

Why does it seem like everytime I go somewhere I see these happy couples holding hands? I often want to cry because I feel worthless. Everyone says you will meet that one guy someday!!! But everytime I do get a chance they turned out gay, had other gfs, or w/e their problem is. Anyone else feels lonley? I am on the dean list, got accepted into university I want, have a couple of good friends, have a great mom, and most of all I get what I want, except guys. I do flirt with them, but it just make things worst.

2007-12-06 14:43:52 · 7 answers · asked by greeneyeslady 4

I have a problem. I am 42, a virgin and all because when I ask a beautiful woman with red/orange hair out, she says time and time again that I'm not her type and she goes for men with dark hair. Is this really the reason? Chinese/Indian/African women date their own kind, so why not ginger women? It is incredible frustrating that I cannot date that which I'm attracted to.

2007-12-06 14:42:56 · 10 answers · asked by Ginger_Tigerrr 1

Do I let him back into my life?

We met in April. We had a great time - mostly sex.
I got pregnant in Ocober. I told him. . he wanted him to have an abortion. I didn't. We finally were 'ok'. He came back around on Friday. I was in the ER on Saturday. Today he brought me to the hospital for the D&C.
Nice as pie again. Since he came back around before I miscarried - do you think it is okay to let him back?

i really liked him. i still do really like him.
he makes me happy. i think he was just in shock when i popped up prego.

i also had my tubes tied... i didn't tell him i tied them until after the surgery... he looked surprised. but i didn't want to get pregnant again.

so what do you think?

2007-12-06 14:40:31 · 2 answers · asked by Miss Kelly 4

my friends boyfriend is planning on giving her a diamond ring for xmas, but they've only been going out for two weeks!!!!!!!! should she accept it?

2007-12-06 14:40:01 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

I've been talking to this guy for about 3 months and after asking me a question that he felt I didn't ask in a more direct way said "
You're a very complicated person." How should I take that? What could he mean by that?

2007-12-06 14:34:27 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

i have hardly madeout with anyone before, so my close friend told me i could practice on her and that it would mean nothing.i havent agreed yet but i wanted peoples opinion:

is this wrong, to practice on your friends that are of the same sex?? or do u think that its a good way to practice?


& dont be immature, its not like i actually have feelings for them.

2007-12-06 14:28:57 · 90 answers · asked by rinn 3

i don't believe in pre marital sex....sex should only be between a husband and wife...lol...i know, i'm old fashioned, but whateva...but if u don't believe that, then that's cool, u are entitled to your opinions and beliefs.

<---- 19yr old virgin...and damn proud of it...

=)

2007-12-06 14:28:49 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

Me and my ex broke up. Hes sending me mix signal's I was testing him and text him and said I love you he said Love you too then tonight I told him I missed him and he said I miss you to sweetie.. when we talk hes really nice.. what could this mean? does he still love me?

2007-12-06 14:21:54 · 15 answers · asked by Still Inlove 2

okay me and my boyfriend is having an complicated situation going on and he decided to "break" or cool off. he said" see if we're gonna miss each other but im missing you already " . So he said to set the date and i was like"no you" but he wanted to me to set a date how long we're gonna take in our relationship so i said 2 and a half week(but we have a winter break so its gonna be 4 week and a half) and he said"okay" and then next day he came up to me saying the cool off wont work and i was like"you planned it" and he was like"but its too long because of the winter break" and i said "why are you changing your mind? you planned it" and he was like "but can we talk just after class?" and i said no and he was like "are you serious?" and i said "yes" and we said goodbye and we left.
whats going on?

2007-12-06 14:21:48 · 1 answers · asked by bianca 2

2007-12-06 14:19:47 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

we have been having a little bit of trouble and i dont seem to believe him sometimes even tho i do im just scared of being cheated on. he loves me i know but i dont know if i wanna be with him just because i want someone. im pretty sure i love him but i cant figure out if im wanting him just to have someone cuz im comfortable with him or cuz i love him. but sometimes im not happy...like i wish he would more romantic and tell me more how much i mean to him. help.

2007-12-06 14:17:36 · 6 answers · asked by miss curious 1

My boyfriend is ALWAYS flirting with other girls. He is always messing around with his ex, and that makes me mad. I told my Best Friend I might break up with him, and someone heard us, spread it, and my boyfriend was all, depressed. So I didn't. What do I do? He called another girl HONEY BUNS!! It makes me feel like he cheats on me! And there are these older girls, and he's always like, Hey baby, I love you, and blows them kisses. What should I do?

2007-12-06 14:14:06 · 49 answers · asked by Madi 2

i think she likes me shes nice i like her shes asian im white we dont see each toher that much but we talk on facebook should i ask her out

2007-12-06 14:06:55 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-12-06 14:06:02 · 1 answers · asked by John S 6

things are awquard between us .we`ve just been playing games and neither one of us has had the nerve to talk to the other one. im so sick of it,but how do i approch her?i really like her ALOT,and i think she likes me too cause her brother normaly an asshole towards me acted like he wanted me to talk to he and siad she mite be instered in me also.plus other people have said things she has said about me.and she smiles and stares at me frequently. so, what do i do and say to her?

2007-12-06 14:05:39 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

do u have any idea?

2007-12-06 14:03:04 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

an erection but its not a full one and it doesn't happen fast i just feel the blood pumping, what can i do to stop this?

2007-12-06 14:00:49 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous