my crush juss broke up with his girlfriend yesterday, and i wanted to ask him out....but when is the rite time to ask him out? a week, 3 days, a month!!!!??? when??? im confused!!!!! I'm afraid if he'll reject me too....cuz, i dont know if he really likes though...i mean like he stares at me in class sumtimes too, but idk if all the rite signs are there......well i hope you answer this!!!! thnx for the advice anywayz!!! =]
2007-12-06 15:12:49 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
and his gf broke up with him, but it only lasted about 2 days for them dating!!!!
2007-12-06 15:22:27 · update #1
k so here are the steps to asking him out ((dont worry, im GREAT at this!!))
1. talk to him in class.
2. bring up any little reason to get him to give you his number or any little reason to give him your number. ((after school, act like your in a rush, and say, "hey, im in a real rush, but do you think i could give you a call today to get some homework...i forgot what it was!" then ask him for his number and walk off quickly.))
3. call him. ask him for whatever you needed and then when he finishes telling you, ask him what he's doing.
4. hang up with him FIRST!! he may had wanted to say something to you and never got the chance and if you hand up first, he'll want you more!!
5.call him every other day or two and then in about a week or two, ask him how he feels about you..and tell him you kinda have a crush on him. ((giggle after you say it!! guys ALWAYS think giggles are ka-yute!!)) if he says he likes you to ((or somewhere along the lines of that)) then ask him on a date ((if he doesnt beat you to it!!)) and just date him for a while. nothing too hard core.
6. wait for him to ask you to be his girlfriend. if he doesnt do it within 2-3 months, ask him your self. say, "how would you feel if we took our relationship a little further?? like, oh, maybe being official boyfriend and girlfriend, instead of JUST dating??" and if he says "yeah!!" then everythings great! if he says no, then its just no. but dont give up!! date him for a couple more weeks, if nothing happens, then keep it like that and just get out of the relationship. but if he says he needs a little more time, then give him a little more time. if in a month he doesnt take it further...forget about him. )=
a little extra info...
*dont tell alot of people that you want to get with him.
*dont act like your super-dooper great friends with his ex girlfriend.
*never ask his girlfriend what she would say if you and him went out..
*dont jump into too fast.
*take it slow
*do NOT tell any of his friends
*be sweet
*be CONFIDENT!!
*giggle alot. ((but be cute when you do!!))
*dont tell any of his ex's friends.
*make a ton of eye contact!! ((wether your in your class, after school, on a date...whatever. just not too much!!))
*when you make eye contact, dont hold it for more than 3 seconds...then make a small smile, and look away.
* dont constantly call him.
well, i hope this isnt too confusing or anything!! (= but just try to follow the steps and be cute when you do everything. i hope it worx out!! (=
2007-12-06 15:32:36 · answer #1 · answered by alannabanana 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't try to be his girlfriend right off the bat because that'll be too obvious and you'll come off as too strong. Strive for friendship for at least a little while.
It's much easier to ask the person out if you know them a little better. It doesn't hurt to talk to them a little. Just try making a little small talk.
You're going to have to talk to him anyway if you're his girlfriend so see how that works.
Also, I think yahoodating has some good tips.
2007-12-06 15:17:50 · answer #2 · answered by sophomrecritic 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Flirt with him. Ask him to the movies as like a friend thing and find out if he is interested in you. Some easy signs to find out are subtle touches in places. Most guys don't touch a girl they aren't interested in. Then when you feel a bond growing ask him out.
2007-12-06 15:16:42 · answer #3 · answered by djasta20 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on how serious his other relationship was.
If it was serious, and he seems hurt, don't ask him right away. Just flirt and be a good friend until he feels better, then ask him.
If it wasn't serious and he seems okay, I would say a week. Before you ask him, flirt with him and see if he acts like he's also interested in you. Smile at him and talk to him. Then ask him.
2007-12-06 15:18:06 · answer #4 · answered by Bethany: 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
dont ask him out immedialtey. just start talking to him, and flirt but dont make it obvious. like go up and laugh and try to walk with ur girlfriends down the hall and scream "hey!" to him. do this for about a week or two. then hang out with him at lunch. if theres a school dance coming up ask him to that. or just when you feel ur ready- go for it! hope i helped! good luck!
2007-12-06 15:16:36 · answer #5 · answered by Freakk! 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
DOn't think too much....Just ask him out as a friend but don't freak him out by your behaviour and words since u seem to be very excited even now.....
2007-12-06 15:16:18 · answer #6 · answered by Playful 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take a chance and be bold. If you wait too long, someone else will snatch him. So I say go for it! If necessary be a true friend first. Good luck!
2007-12-06 15:15:46 · answer #7 · answered by imthatgirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u think he like u back u should would wait - cuz u might b his next girl - wait about a week and then ask him. give a lil time.
2007-12-06 15:20:31 · answer #8 · answered by hoT toPiC 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let him ask you out. Don't sound desperate. Give him time to get over his girlfriend too. Don't worry if he never asks you out. If he likes you, he will ask you out.
2007-12-06 15:16:07 · answer #9 · answered by SAHM/Part Time Tutor 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah it depends on how old you are....
But generally I say that you come on to him for a while and try and get him to like you. From that you see if he's interested. Then if he is, it's your choice of how to go in for the kill.
2007-12-06 15:18:46 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋