I was pregnant. He was a jerk. He came around. I miscarried. He is nice a pie again like when we first met.?

Question

Do I let him back into my life?

We met in April. We had a great time - mostly sex.
I got pregnant in Ocober. I told him. . he wanted him to have an abortion. I didn't. We finally were 'ok'. He came back around on Friday. I was in the ER on Saturday. Today he brought me to the hospital for the D&C.
Nice as pie again. Since he came back around before I miscarried - do you think it is okay to let him back?

i really liked him. i still do really like him.
he makes me happy. i think he was just in shock when i popped up prego.

i also had my tubes tied... i didn't tell him i tied them until after the surgery... he looked surprised. but i didn't want to get pregnant again.

so what do you think?

response to first answer: yes, it was not a relationship... I don't want one right now. i just wanted a friend (with benefits). We went fishing, watched movies, go for rides, eat together, etc. but it was primarily about sex.. which i liked. i wasn't foolin' myself that it was more.

Answer 1

If you're just looking for a friend with benefits, then sure why not? How old are you?

He's definitely not boyfriend material though, lol. Good luck hun.

Answer 2

Sounds to me like the relationship is all about sex. If that is all you want, then fine.