My boyfriend is ALWAYS flirting with other girls. He is always messing around with his ex, and that makes me mad. I told my Best Friend I might break up with him, and someone heard us, spread it, and my boyfriend was all, depressed. So I didn't. What do I do? He called another girl HONEY BUNS!! It makes me feel like he cheats on me! And there are these older girls, and he's always like, Hey baby, I love you, and blows them kisses. What should I do?
2007-12-06 14:14:06 · 49 answers · asked by Madi 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I have tried flirting with this other boy, Jordan,and he noticed. He got all up on Jordan. But TODAY Jordan tried to give me a hug, I backed up a little, (cause I didn't want a hug) and my boyfriend was right behind him and he kicked Jordan. He still flirts. I am just so, mad. I rlly thought I loved him though. He ALWAYS tells me he loves me. I don't say anything, just smile.
2007-12-06 14:22:38 · update #1
Break it off... Not worth the headache
2007-12-06 14:16:37 · answer #1 · answered by 30269 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Well it sounds like he is being oblivious of your feelings, which is very wrong since your his gf. What he is doing is very wrong to to you. So well you got to let him know that he is doing bad things here, show him by doing the same stuff back. Start talking with and flirting with other guys in front of him to make him jealous. Do everything you can like that until he gets enough jealousy that he begs for u to stop and says he is really sorry for the way he was acting to u with the other girls. Make sure he really shows he is sorry, if he does, I guess give him another chance, if not then DUMP him!!!!
2007-12-06 14:23:13 · answer #2 · answered by Zick1234 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Honey get a clue here. If you feel he does, there seems to be enough evidence he is not very smart. Dump him and move on, too bad if he's depressed, maybe he'll learn a lesson. They all need to learn that lesson. Make sure you let him know WHY you are dumping him though. Tell him to change his ways or someone else will dump him for the same thing.
2007-12-06 14:18:15 · answer #3 · answered by MadforMAC 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's either he haves a bunch of crush on girls at the same time or he might just be playing around. At my school, bunch of boys just say they love ppl just to get them mad or annoyed. byt does he knew that u saw him do that??? If he knew, Break up with him! He might be 2 timing or something.
Here's an idea: If u don't want to break up, u could always have a private talk to him.
Edit: U could always find a better person for u.
2007-12-06 14:23:54 · answer #4 · answered by Candy1321 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need to talk to him and let him know his behavior is disrespectful. He may not be cheating on you, but is unaware that his behavior hurts you. Do a little bit of reverse psychology with him and ask him how he would feel if you started flirting and saying inappropriate things to all the men who cross you path. How would he feel? I can guarantee he wouldn't like it. If he is not willing to change his behavior, then it really is time to give him the boot. One thing is for sure, if you don't communicate with him and let him know that his behavior is inappropriate he will not try to change because he doesn't realize what he is doing is bad.
2007-12-06 14:19:49 · answer #5 · answered by Melissa M 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dump his sorry @$$! My ex boyfriend used to do the same thing with me... he would screw something up so i would try to breakup with him and then he would pout and put on this big long act about how he would die without me. He would make me feel so bad that i wouldn't go through with it. Then a day later everything would be back to the way it was! He isn't going to change anytime soon... it sounds like he has major growing up to do! You can dump him and maybe it will be permanent.... but maybe when you break up with him he will see how much he wants you and this will force him to change his ways. You need to get this boy whipped!!
2007-12-06 14:17:50 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
why exactly did you decide to go out w/ him anyway? sounds like a disrespectful, immature idiot. drop him. immediately. tell him that he needs to wake up. you're his gf and if he won't respect you then he doesn't deserve you. i know this is probably the same answer you're getting from everyone else, but that's because it's true. if he thinks so little of you that he'll just go and flirt with another girl (and in his case, multiple girls) then he's not worth what you're going through. just dump him.
2007-12-06 14:27:19 · answer #7 · answered by Guava 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would be more worried if he was sneaking looks and saying things behind your back instead of in front of you.
I would have a talk with him about how disrespectful and rude it seems to you. If he tries to explain it away, I would say, "It IS disrespectful and rude to me. It makes me feel bad. You can give me excuses, but it will still hurt me."
Now, if you are overly jealous, because you are insecure and you don't want him talking to any other girls, then you need to get more confidence in yourself. Maybe it's a little of both, huh?
2007-12-06 14:20:53 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ask him why is he getting upset about what he heard, tell him u should be upset calling another girl Honey Buns. Tell him he need to stop flirting so much.
2007-12-06 14:18:15 · answer #9 · answered by dbrh_soto 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He needs to grow up.And you need to realize he's not ready to grow up.
I had this problem with my bf as well.He would flirt with other girls.And was constantly talking to his ex would ran out on him with another guy.She was using him to feel better about herself, and in the process was ruining our relationship.
It got to the point that she would call him while we were together and he would be like" I can't talk right now im busy, im at a friend's house"
As soon as I heard that we broke it off.You should never have to be second fiddle. I told him you either grow up or It's over.I told him how much it hurt for him to be recycling our baby names on someone who cheated on him and left him for someone else.
If he doesn't listen and continues to flirt with other women, this will continue no matter how long you date him.
Just move on and find someone who appreciates you and doesn't need other women's attention to feel good about himself.
2007-12-06 14:24:25 · answer #10 · answered by greenkittiekat 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He is a possessive, asshole who you need to dump. How is it that he can go around flirting and messing with others (what do you define messing with as?) but you cannot get a hug from someone?
Let him go.
You are truly being taken advantage of.
2007-12-06 14:27:19 · answer #11 · answered by blanquita 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋