Singles & Dating - 6 December 2007

In 2004 I lost my first love to suicide. We weren't together at the time but we had been together for 8 years off and on and had the most amazing connection. When he commited suicide I was living 200 miles away. I left as soon as I could and was their through everything. His best friends, or as he called them his brothers are my best friends too and we all stuck together to help eachother through. 3 1/2 years later I still miss him like crazy...Why can't I let go and believe he's in a better place? Why do I want just one last hug, or one last kiss? Shouldn't I have faith that I will see him on the other side?

2007-12-06 17:04:33 · 14 answers · asked by tattoodangel 2

Nothing like dating, just a Sunday brunch or something like that...Who would it be?

2007-12-06 17:04:08 · 5 answers · asked by -Tequila17 6

My boyfriend hates when i look at his text messages. He has been texting a friend of mine that is a girl. it makes me uncomfotable that hes talking to her at all and i dont know if it is normal for me to feel this way. one day when he was with me i picked his phone up and then he grabbed it out of my hands and yelled at me not to look at his phone then he deleted all his text messages. He says that it makes him mad because its like i dont trust him. I wasnt even looking at it to "spy" on him, i was just bored and i mean he looks at mine and i dont care. so my question, is it wrong for me to look at his text messages, i would think if he has nothing to hide why would he care?

2007-12-06 17:03:15 · 8 answers · asked by amy 1

i didnt even tell my best friend...her best friend is the town know it all..pretty much shes a nosy gossiper...she knows things thatll b4 u do...anyway i asked my mom not to tell her yet and she did...what should i do?

2007-12-06 16:59:17 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

Well there is this boy in my class and we used to be really really good friends.Well we grew up and grew apart we got lost in the social groups.Well he ended up in a way different group than me so we hate eachother but the truth is I dont hate him I still like him But we r still mean to eachother but I try not to be because I really want things to be like how they used to.But he is always saying that I am like so inlove with this boy in our class names michael and i actually get kinda mad at him because he knows that Michael broke my heart.Well then today we were fighting and Jeniffer said he was only fighting with me because he likes me and he said "heck no I would never" and it really upset me. do you think he knew how much it upset me? or if he didnt mean to upset me that much because I really really like him and I had ever since we were really really good friends a while ago

2007-12-06 16:58:20 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

How many guys out there like medium or dark skinned girls with brown eyes and dark hair? Just asking cuz im mixed and in my highschool mostly light skinned girls with blonde hair get attention.

2007-12-06 16:55:04 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-12-06 16:52:44 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous

well my sister is going to her first highschool formal in march and needs to lose fifty pounds quickly so somebody might ask her this is really important to her please help

2007-12-06 16:51:44 · 12 answers · asked by DEVIL 1

He is just soooooo wonderful. We admitted to eachother that we had fallen in love with eachother and I would like to get him a unique gift that he would love. He is 25 and likes all the typical guy stuff, but I would like to get him something that REALLY shows how much I appreciate who he is. Thanks.

2007-12-06 16:46:54 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-12-06 16:45:25 · 13 answers · asked by superman 1

I have feelings for this guy but after speaking to friends and family, they all tell me he's not good for me. He lives with an x and doesn't let me come to his house, saids there's nothing going on but I know better. He doesn't return my phone call while at home but calls me when on his way to work. This whole thing sucks, any suggestions on how to be strong and not give in??

2007-12-06 16:44:33 · 3 answers · asked by Bandrea 3

this guy who is very likable, polite, friendly, you name it, he just seems like a good guy. but i heard he stole a car, pulled a knife on people, left his ex with a 1000 dollar hotel tab by sneaking out at night when she was asleep, and tells girls his family owns a bank so he can appeal to their greed and use them. he cheats on tests, calls his ex a stupid fat sl ut and only used her for *** and never really cared about her. does this guy have a mental problem or just a chip on his soldier?

2007-12-06 16:39:45 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

There's this girl I posted about earlier. I finally talked to her but she don't talk back to me. I would leave it alone but she giggles and smiles when I say something to her. I catch her glancing at me from time to time. Why does she only smile and not talk? She doesn't seem shy because I've heard her speak to people confidently before. Am I misinterpreting her or something and she really doesn't like me at all? If she does, what can I say to get her to open up to me? Ladies, opinions please.

Btw, I'm a college student.

2007-12-06 16:38:25 · 9 answers · asked by ManlyFool 1

2007-12-06 16:35:45 · 28 answers · asked by Dark Dickinsonian 4

Ok I like this girl ok, and I want her to be my GF I've been talking to people and they say that a good move would be to get the parents to know me, and itro duce myself and all that. I just need a good excuse to meet them and make a good impresion. PLZ HELP!!!!!!!

2007-12-06 16:29:05 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

#1. The Jock who never notices you

#2. The guy with thick glasses in love with 'star treck'

#3. Overwieght but sweet

#4. The guy who says he loves you but u find him unattractive

#5. The "coolest" guy with acne

#6. The guy who never knows what to say when he sees you

SO who would u go for????

2007-12-06 16:27:34 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

So I'm the type of guy that can really fall in love when he finds the right woman. I found this girl that is essentially the woman of my dreams but she only wants to be friends and basically doesn't care one whiff about my feelings. We stayed friends (even though she's kind of cold to me sometimes) and I tried putting any thoughts of a relationship out of my mind. Everyday, I battle with my brain to keep thoughts of her out of my head. I try to pretend she doesn't exist so I can go on with my day. I really try hard to forget about her and sometimes it works but...at night, when I try to sleep, I can't. All these thoughts of her flood my mind and I toss and turn all night. I can distract myself during the day, but at night, I'm at the mercy of my idle brain. I just want to be able to sleep at night. I'm a college student and I have finals coming up. Please, any suggestions would be greatly appreciated.

2007-12-06 16:24:24 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

How would one treat the other if he/she is using him/her? What does it mean to use the other or what does it mean to be used? How would the relationship be if one is using the other?
Ex. "If _____, then you are being used."

2007-12-06 16:21:22 · 5 answers · asked by me 2

I am an 18 year old college student in Nashville, Tennessee with limited money. Please someone help! I want to do somethin really special with her, i like her a lot! and i'm the type of person who likes to show is affection in big ways! what can i do though!! Nashville seems so boring! So far i'm thinking about a nice hike on a trail to a big scenary with a picnic, but maybe there is something else i can do! And yes i am willing to travel!!! at most three states distance! i.e. the entire east coast up until D.C., Virgina, etc.

2007-12-06 16:20:32 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

There's this girl. She seems really cool.
And she's pretty but that's not the point.

She told me that one thing she liked about me was that I always dressed nice.

I just found out her name yesterday and all of the sudden she tells me I dress nice out of the blue. That hardly ever happens so I'm not sure what's going on.

How should I flirt without seeming too pushy?

2007-12-06 16:12:00 · 21 answers · asked by Devan! 5

I have a crush on a sophomore and I am a freshman. My BFF is the only one that knows and she is determined to get us together. (I'm to much of a wimp to make the first move) She is planning to get him to tutor us over the weekend at my house, but I have to ask him to tutor us. Do I just flat out ask him? Oh, and she said I should flirt while he's here, but subtlely. I am the worlds worst person at flirting, any tips are VERY greatly appreciated.

2007-12-06 16:08:42 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

Guys.
Have you ever broken up with a girl that you started to lose interest in, not talked to her for a couple months or so, but then started to be friends again just to find you starting to like her again?

Has this ever happened more than once?

I ask because me and my ex went out for a year, broke up, didnt talk for a few months, went out again for 6 months, and now we're broken up again. I'm just wondering if he might start liking me again.

Thanks<3

2007-12-06 16:08:29 · 5 answers · asked by xxlife8874 1

we ended things in early october, a week later she is already in another relationship. I have no contact with her for a couple of months, then out of the blue she sends a text asking if I could look for her dogs who escaped since she was out of town and unable to. then a month later she sends a text asking if I came by her house but I didnt. that starts a day long email exchange. she had the impression I hated her. I let her know that wasnt the case, she gets real emotional and says she is still in love and in lust with me. she calls , leaves a hysterically crying message telling me how she misses me and still loves me. but she says she loves this new guy after only two months and thinks he could be the one. I am still very much in love with her but have completely left her alone aside from the exchange the other day . we are allegedly grown ups, she is 37 I am 40. the guy she is with seems decidedly unimpressive but is a good guy. is it possible she is really in love with him ?

2007-12-06 16:06:24 · 1 answers · asked by vladimir p 1

I am the kind of person that didn`t use to talk to anybody, I mean now I am a bit different. Still many times I just wonder if is better to alone or with somebody. Obviously I know the answer, yet on a pscylogical aproach is very difficult to feel good by being alone.
I mean I act more like a robot many times, I think to much, I am very structure.
I almost don`t have friends, plus I complain too much.
I mean is not like I am ugly or anything like that. Girl look at me all the time.
I knew this woman from the US, and we are chatting and so on, and I feel bad when I don`t talk to her.

I know that I could probably find someone here, but I try to approach the women who are traveling or in another country. And so on.
The problem is that many times it stops me from doing the things that I like to do.
this is my e-mail:
in case you want to give me an advice about life or just any advice.
Javierchomer@gmail.com

2007-12-06 16:05:02 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

This guy (without a girlfriend) asked me out for a movie even though we dont work at the same place anymore. Is it possible that he just wants to be friends? He is 10 years older than me btw. Thanks everyone!

2007-12-06 16:03:43 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous

What do you think of a boyfriend who is very clingy?? Wants to know anything everything about you and wants hug and kiss you all day long??

2007-12-06 16:03:38 · 35 answers · asked by caliluvsun 4

My girlfriend's got a weekend off work and we are planning a weekend away to Paris, the only problem is her parents would never allow her to go away with me. What excuse would you give to them which would explain being gone for a couple of nights?? Bare in mind we can't say she's going with friends as her parents would most likely drop her off to the airport and expect to see them.

Thx

2007-12-06 16:01:57 · 12 answers · asked by Nick 2

my GF left me months ago and i lived her and still loves her for almost 6 years now...what can i do to brighten up my dark holidays as i really cant move on...ive started to turn emo so i think my christmas is going to be black..how shall i turn it white again...im only 17 years old...

2007-12-06 15:52:34 · 12 answers · asked by icriedherariver 5

We are all a team. You aren't alone.

2007-12-06 15:51:29 · 13 answers · asked by theartisttwin 5

This girl messaged me after 10 years of not speaking--she was my best friend at one time, but my bf at the time cheated on me with her. I have let a lot of hate grow in my heart over this. I have held a grudge this long. She is now married with kids, and we've definately both matured. I emailed her back and told her how I felt, and I told her that I forgave her for it. I felt this was the best way to try and let go of this hate in my heart before it ate me from the inside out. I do feel a bit relieved actually. Of course I won't forget, but I was only 15 when the incident occured, I'm now 24. Would you agree that forgiveness was a good, mature move on my part? To just face the 'fear' I had in my heart, respond to her as she was reaching out to me (this was her 2nd attempt), and to help me move on from that hate?

2007-12-06 15:50:26 · 21 answers · asked by Miss Rachel 5