Singles & Dating - 6 December 2007

If you were living w/girl 4 months and it ended on bad terms would you start sleeping w/her friend? The reason u even know the friend is your girl boorrowed money from friend to bail u out of jail. Even though you werent together anymore. When you got out you made all the usual promises. She didnt feel u were serious. Only gave u 1 day to show her and then was bitchy about it in your eyes. This is the real question. If you did start having sex with her friend, would you think she would store your things for you? If you knew she was really upset about it would you think she would feel obligated to store your things? If she told you to come get them for 3 days, even told her friend you were now with, your sons etc, would you be shocked if she put your things outside? Say she even told you she would put them in her car and be gone one day so you didnt even have to see her and you could call her job 2 make sure shed b gonbecause you claimed she was stalking u and looking 4 excuse 2 c u.

2007-12-06 18:09:53 · 9 answers · asked by aperfectpeach 2

my ex bf ask me on a date but the thing is that when we broke up he met a new girl married her and now they have a child 2gether should i go or what or am i just waisting my time

2007-12-06 18:08:21 · 8 answers · asked by auris 2

I have just asked my girlfriend to set a deadtime line for our love. As we live in different countries.I don't want to heart her in case we can't be able to get together:(( But she seems very hearted once I told her my idea. Howlongever.She felt very short..... I'm very sad also. Why she isn't a Chinese? Why I'm a American? My Dear God!?
I don't know how to do now. Facing the blue life without her? I can't imagine!!! What can I do? Am I a killer? :((
I want make apologies to her. At last I want her know.I dnon't want to lost her. And making that choice is just because I dont' her hearted when,in case we can't get together but other boys want to with her.

Am I a killer? I don't know.......


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2007-12-06 18:07:16 · 6 answers · asked by zhi snoopy 1

My new boyfriend bin all tryin to please me wich is nice I love the flatery, but I no about something that he did trying to be thoughtfull only it wasnt..in my eyes if this is true. He got me flowers that looked nicely put together but I heard he got them from a semitery. my cousin coby told me this. I am creeped out by this but I dont want to offend my boyfriend...how do I go about this??? ALSO: I would never want to beleive bull**** like this but I no that it MIGHT...be true caus my new boyfriend has no money but maybe 10 bucks to his name. He's looking for new work...so what do I do

FACTS:

1. My boyfriend doesnt have that much money, where di they really come from????
2. Coby doesnt really like my boyriend his name is bones btw and so is he making this up????????

me=confused

I dont want them on display in my window if they are from a place like this :(

I dont want to attract spirits/etc

2007-12-06 18:07:03 · 6 answers · asked by ★ Vaginal Discount ★ 4

IAM 33 AND SINGLE BUT SEX WASNT ALL THAT WITH THE EXX BF...BUT MY SEXUAL DRIVE IS VERY HIGH...I KNOW THAT I SHOULD BE SATISFIED...AND IAM NOT NOR HAVE BEEN FOR AWHILE

2007-12-06 18:01:42 · 1 answers · asked by SASSYNSEXY33 1

I have been platonic friends with a man somewhat younger than I am for about 4 years. We have both had other relationships, now with the holidays coming ( my dad lives with me and does not approve of me having over night guests) we have been discussing changing this relationship. I know you are going to ask why my dad has anything to say about it, cause he has dementia/alzeheimer's and doesn't know when or how to be quiet. I want this man to come for the holidays as he is alone, but don't want to rush things. We both know 2 unmarried people of opposite sexes can sleep in the same bed with nothing going on but not sure that is what we want. How do we go from best platonic friends to a lot more? He says he wants to marry me,,, being a lot older I am concerned about the age difference which is over 14 yrs, Any 'older' adults got any suggestions? We aren't sure if it is love yet or not. He has a 9 yr old daughter that he wants to regain custody of and has to be married to get that.

2007-12-06 17:55:24 · 8 answers · asked by N H 1

like theres this guy who i like and i kind of stopped liking him but since i did it seems like he likes me now cause hes always flirting with me but at the same time he's already with someone so i was wondering is this true that if you love/like someone you should kind of let it go easy or stop and they might like u back or something like that or make it seem like you dont like them that much anymore cause like if u really like someone you shouldn't go crazy on them?? and thanks =)

2007-12-06 17:44:01 · 7 answers · asked by ohsofresh! 2

Everytime I ask is we just friends.

2007-12-06 17:43:05 · 6 answers · asked by Lorretta B 1

my boyfriend and i really love eachother. we are in high school, but that doesnt mean anything. we really have a very strong relationship. We are extremly different yet insanly the same. We fight probably at least once every 2 days. and we dont even know what we fight about but they are meaningful fights.

the thing that bothers me is that hes so stubborn. hes so stubborn tht he does things, feels bad and tell me how bad he feels, and then does them again. they dont involve me but it makes me mad that he treates people certain ways or does certain things. he knows it makes me mad too.

i told him everything i thot today and he didnt talk for a half an hour. i told him he hes so stubborn he cant even answer me when i say things like this to him. bc he knows hes wrong and its like he refuses to change.

15 minutes later all he said was. i know it sounds like im mad, but im not. im just thinking. i have to go. bye. i love you. im just not the person i want to be. goodbye.

please help!!!

2007-12-06 17:33:52 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

still be single, never been kissed or on a date and still a virgin?

2007-12-06 17:30:56 · 30 answers · asked by Christina K 3

My friend told me that he hinted at being gay during a party when he had 2 shots. It wasnt that much at all. we are in high school, from what i know of he hasn't been interested nor went out with any girl through high school. THough he has liked 2 very attractive girls in middle school.

My friend tells me he and I are like the opposite, he's like the little kiddy type of class clown while im like the aspiring young professional girl all mature and everything

but i love his stupid jokes. and yes he does talk to everyone given the chance. but he talks to me too. and in class he sits in the front and i dont know if he turns back to look at me or that he just likes turning back we bump into each othere, there is eye contact. but it may mean nothing

he speaks to me of nothing but schoolwork. A good intellectualy conversation always can take place. once online i tried changing the topic and he stopped talking.

what should i do?

2007-12-06 17:30:28 · 13 answers · asked by sam3345 1

I've never kissed before and have only a few times with him - I can't stand saliva. How could I ever do the french kiss? So I tell him to keep his mouth closed, but it doesn't work... it puts me off, but I really want to change this because I like him.

2007-12-06 17:29:22 · 15 answers · asked by Beletje_vos AM + VT 7

i like this girl alot she has 2 kids, and we have been spending time together, she told me she didn't have a boyfriend, tonight she sent me a message saying she was being evicted from her apartment, and has to be out by the 19th, she never said anything to me before, even though she was given a 60 day notice.

She asked me if I would give her money for christmas presents for her boys, which I would do, but then she asked me if I would find a place for her to move too, I told her I would and she asked me if I would pay the security deposit and first month's rent, I told her I would then she told me it would be her, and her boys and some other guy that will be living with her, should I go ahead and do it, or should I tell her I changed my mind?
I really like her a lot and adore her kids, but this guy she says is living with her won't get a job and won't help her pay the bills and I know she will come running to me for money every month.

what should I do?

2007-12-06 17:29:19 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm thinking about a cream pie to eat!

2007-12-06 17:24:50 · 15 answers · asked by Angel L 3

one of my close guy friends started dating this girl last year (him and i are juniors in highschool and she is a senior). they were together for 8 months (and she was his first...) until she suddenly broke up with him one day... he was absolutely crushed.

ok so the VERY NEXT DAY after their breakup she hooked up with a senior guy. then about a week later she told my friend all this stuff about how she was wrong, and now they're back together.

but okay so then i find out that for the week she wasn't with him, she hooked up with that senior guy every single day... apparently this other guy didnt want to be anything more than hookup buddies and she couldnt accept that. and now that shes back with my friend, she told the other guy that when they break up she will hookup with him. she is so messed up!! and my guy friend knows abolutely none of this... i feel horrible, idk if i have the heart to tell him. he thinks they're in love! should i just ignore it or what?

2007-12-06 17:23:51 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

Im not sure whats goin on, but my bf never really calls me back when he says he will. And there are times when i dont hear from him in like 2 days. is he trying to tell me sumthin or what. i usually call him once or twice a day because hes either at work or school. im jus confused. I need some opinions.

2007-12-06 17:22:09 · 7 answers · asked by stars_086 2

I want to give him everything he wants from me, but we are atleast 2000 miles apart. I dont want to be apart from him. I think I'm losing him. I dont want too. He's the best thing that has come into my life. He says his past relations always wanted something of him, or was intimidated by his profession.

I dont want anything from this man but to love me, nothing else matters. He has a beautiful heart and thats all that matters!

So, how can I convince him that we are meant to be?????
And to not give up on me????

2007-12-06 17:22:06 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

Why are women so insecure? Why do they feel like they need a man in their lives constantly to feel better about themselves? I am not saying all girls, but generally speaking we settle for scum when there are billions of guys who would treat us well?

2007-12-06 17:20:42 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous

I won't get to see him again for awhile....and something besides sex.

2007-12-06 17:20:29 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

If a man takes days to move out after he says its over is he not sure that thats what he wants?

2007-12-06 17:19:32 · 13 answers · asked by chitown1120 1

What does this mean, practically-speaking? I really like this guy and he knows it, yet nothing's happening. Someone advised that I be more of a challenge... does this mean be more aloof? Or... just not communicate with him for a while? (We email frequently and seem to have good chemistry, and he seems happy to see me in person, but it's not moving beyond the "friend" thing-- in 3 months, and I'm about to give up.)

2007-12-06 17:18:46 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

my ex is jealous of guys i talk too or just giving a hug too my guy friends. my guys friend weren't afriad of him until he almost beat up one of my guy friend cus i was talking too him alone, just me and him. my guy friends and every guy in school is afraid of him?
i can't talk to him cus he would ignore me, hes like mad and jealous at the same time. he said he wants me back and if he can't no one can have me?! help!!!!

2007-12-06 17:16:12 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

I told my Taiwanese BF I loved him and he turned all weird on me he got quiet but still lets me know that he loves me too...I can't understand him. He stopped talking and just gives me clues. Of course I felt he cared first so I told. Otherwise I wouldn't have told him.

2007-12-06 17:14:15 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

Hi so my boyfriend is so sweet and I cant say I love him but REALLY like him. But he always jokes saying "you was talking to your other bf on the other line" when i get a beep and im like no and stuff hes like im just playing calm down. We live like 20 mins away and im always bussy and i dont get to see him cept on weekend and hes like "i never get to see u" and my guy friend emailed him saying "she has guys waiting inline for her" BEFORE we were dating and he told me and he was like yeah that gives you a more of a chance to cheat. Now im real pretty and he is handsome to me but i guess not to others (ghetto and teeth are messed up) but hes sweet ya know. And sorry to say but im the mose beautiful girl hes ever been with so idk if that is why he always thinks im cheating or what. And he calls me so i dont call him and he says "you dont really like me cause u never call me" but I do like him ugh, i just dont know what to do or whats his problem what do u think? Thanks

2007-12-06 17:12:05 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

Okay I'm 6 months pregnant and I've gained like 20 more pounds since my last couple doctor visits. Of course I am Extremely sensitive about my weight and this jerk I call my husband poked at it. This is how...okay I was like I went to the doctor and he said I gained 20 pounds, so now I'm 225, fat I know, but anyway. His response was "DAMN, so you were 200 pounds before you even got pregnant." What an asshole thing to say. and the funny part is he didn't even bother to do the damn math first. I only gained these 20 pounds in like 3 months.. I am so Freakin mad at him right now, doesn't he know not to comment on a women's weight ESPECIALLY a pregnant woman. Damn, he's a jerk. am I overreacting or has any of your significant others said something about you that made you wanna slap them?

2007-12-06 17:11:49 · 15 answers · asked by Tnisha 1

A couple of days ago the guy I like was talking to my friend asking her if she and I where going the the Winter Ball and my friend she that she didn't know and he told her to make me go the the Winter Ball. Now she doesn't even know if he is going. Why would he want me to go if he isn't going? What is he "planning"? He wont even talk to me and every time I do he doesn't reply. Should I not go the the dance or should I? I do want to have fun and two of my friends are going. Why is he sending me mixed messaged? Some one help me please.

2007-12-06 17:11:17 · 12 answers · asked by Emery G 2

I have been living with / in a relationship with a guy for 3 years now and i love him but hes not very caring and is kind of rude to me sometimes, not to mention alot of other things. Things are declining quickly, i am really unhappy at times, im begining to question weather or not i actually love him anymore, i am unsure. I just found out a few days ago that last year when we were broken up he created a child with his ex girlfriend. This is an even bigger turn off. He doesnt want to be a father and support it at all. Anyways in the mean time i have met a guy whom i adore. He is great, and he can give me everything, respect, love, kindness, and everything my boyfriend cannot. I can really see a future with this guy. Do you think i should break up and move out of the house, and be with the guy who treats me a lot better? Or stay? It will be the hardest thing ive ever had to do, but sometimes you just have to let go right?

2007-12-06 17:08:36 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

What is the difference between knowing what you want in a girl and being so narrow minded over choosing girls that you pass up someone who doesn't fit exactly everything that is on your list of requirements?

2007-12-06 17:08:30 · 4 answers · asked by Domino25 3

There's this girl I know at work that used to be really bitter, moody and quiet, but I opened her up by joking around with her and being friendly. She's just not a person I would get along with, or am attracted to, but she has mistaken it for flirting. She wants to date me, but I don't like her. What do I do?

She had this really pathetic conversation with me today. I feel bad, but she's just not my type.

2007-12-06 17:07:22 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

Long story short my BFF said she is going to do a fake dare so that I have to kiss my crush. And I want to, but isn't it possible he might think I am just doing it because she dared me to? My other friend was also talking about how long it should be and if I had to kiss him on the lips or the cheek or whatever. I don't want to scare him off or anything though. What do other people think? Oh, and if I am the one being dared do I move in and kiss him or is he suppose to move in and kiss me?

2007-12-06 17:07:21 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous