I have this boyfriend and he is really sweet. But a bunch of girls always give him their numbers and ****. Then he tries to hide it from me. A lot of girls message him some messages that they should not be messaging (if you get my flow). At times I think that Im just being used. But when its just me and him I dont think that at all. Im not the jealous type but I think it is him that Im getting mad at. I really want this to work and he told me the same thing.....but I dont think that he really means it. He tells me he loves me and at times I know that he does but when i really think about it....I dont know if he does or not. And this really scares me. Because I have been hurt so many times.....
2007-12-06 15:46:43 · 10 answers · asked by Jess 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
and this morning I called him and another girl answered his phone!! I was so mad but she told me that they are just friends. This made me so ******* mad!! He told me that they are friends and he told me that he is comming over. So when he comes over he starts to kiss me when i really needed to talk to him. He knew that i needed to talk with him and he didnt let me......
2007-12-07 03:00:04 · update #1
And when he came over he bought me flowers (red roses) and a cute littl eteddy bear!
2007-12-07 03:00:39 · update #2
If you give him the benefit of doubt then it sounds like he wants to be liked and doesn't want any flack from rejecting girls. He needs to learn some humorous or comppasionate lines that help him to respect your relationship. I use this line: If you were ever my guy I wouldn't take anyone else's number so I can't do it to my current one. It flatters the person and lets them down easy. Come up with some lines for him. If he continues to collect numbers then consider it a red flag.
2007-12-06 15:57:44 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you either trust him or not, period. If these girls calling him are saying things they shouldn't, knowing he is in a relationship with you. Then he needs to handle it. If he doesn't and they keep calling and he takes the calls. He is disrespecting you, and the relationship. If he wants a commentment with you & only you, then he needs to make it loud & clear to all. If not, then he isn't as serious as you are about him. If thats the case move on sister, he will break your heart. Good luck!
2007-12-06 15:55:07 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The keeping it from you would upset me too, but maybe he's insecure that if you find out you'll leave him. You should tell him that you're okay with knowing, so long as you guys are honest about it. My bf has a nymphomaniac still hitting on him, but he tells me about it and I'm cool with it. I really hope this works for you.
2007-12-07 02:30:53 · answer #3 · answered by Evadne Soleil 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I suggest you not to trust him. If he is really serious in in the relationship, he will ignore the messages and calls of other girls. So be carefull bcoz guysnowadays are quite hard to trust
2007-12-06 16:00:45 · answer #4 · answered by cnidaria 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give him a chance. Maybe you're a little insecure b/c of your past. You may be reading into things. If you look for a problem, eventually, you'll find one. Men are stupid! If he's being unfaithful , he'll tell on himself soon.
2007-12-06 15:53:37 · answer #5 · answered by Lita 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he says he loves you well trust him, the point is he's hidding other chicks numbers or massages because he thinks that when you notice these you ganna breakup with him, so he loves you to be around him.
2007-12-06 15:52:14 · answer #6 · answered by Mery 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would just stay freinds if that were happening to me ...if hes with you he shouldnt be giving out his number to other girls or texting them back either if they are flirting with him...they should step back and respect the fact hes with someone else
2007-12-06 15:56:43 · answer #7 · answered by jess 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Time to move on.
2007-12-06 15:56:43 · answer #8 · answered by Rich 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i second tata's motion
2007-12-06 15:52:55 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
do not trust him
2007-12-06 15:49:59 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋