i don't believe in pre marital sex....sex should only be between a husband and wife...lol...i know, i'm old fashioned, but whateva...but if u don't believe that, then that's cool, u are entitled to your opinions and beliefs.
<---- 19yr old virgin...and damn proud of it...
=)
2007-12-06 14:28:49 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
edit: i don't think pre marital sex is wrong...i'm just saying it's not for me....sorry if u thought i said it was wrong...that's not what i meant at all....
2007-12-06 14:34:30 · update #1
i am very old-fashioned. i dont believe in pre-marital sex. i am 24yrs old and i am very proud to be a virgin and nobody cant tell me different.
1 Corinthians 6:18 (Whole Chapter)
Flee fornication. Every sin that a man doeth is without the body; but he that committeth fornication sinneth against his own body.
you dont have to say sorry for nothing sweetheart. thats what you believe in. dont be sorry for what you believe in. of course its not our place to judge. but you are saying that you believe in.
2007-12-06 14:35:21 · answer #1 · answered by txlady24 4 · 4⤊ 0⤋
I believe in it, because it obviously happens all the time! LOL!
Do I believe it SHOULD happen? That is more debatable. I admire you for taking the stand you do. Whether or not pre-marital sex is right or wrong is definitely a matter of opinion, but whether or not it is SMART to have pre-marital sex is pretty much a fact. Every time you have sex you take the chance of getting pregnant or contracting a sexually transmitted disease. This is even true, though much less likely, if you practice safe sex. That said, you never know waht the other person is going to do. The only way to ensure your own safety and avoid becoming a single parent unexpectedly is to wait until you are with someone who is committed to you for life. Even then, you never know! In any case, your likelihood of being having an unwanted child or contracting a disease is going to be much smaller than someone with different beliefs than you, so kudos!
2007-12-06 14:35:28 · answer #2 · answered by Mr. Taco 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
After reading the statistics today that a 19% increase of unwanted pregnancies of young women between the ages of 14-19 years of age since 1991, something should be done and not have pre-marital sex.
2007-12-06 14:34:29 · answer #3 · answered by Sparkles 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm UCC Christian, and that i think in premarital intercourse (or waiting, it isn't any longer my existence so i do no longer care in case you do). i do no longer, even if, recommend teenage intercourse up till a definite age (17). i think of it takes a definite point of adulthood to make the great judgements approximately intercourse, the two bodily and emotionally, and that i do no longer believe that somebody at this manner of youthful age would have that adulthood. Why i do no longer recommend abstinence? for many motives. One, i think intercourse is a good bond between 2 human beings, yet i do no longer think of it is so sacred it would merely take place with one individual. 2, i think a pair needs to appreciate one yet another sexually earlier they are able to verify to an entire life mutually. lower back, those are my perspectives, thoroughly researched on the two aspects, and that i by no skill decide absolutely everyone who is going against them.
2016-10-10 10:49:54 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is great for you!
What I do not agree with is your saying pre-marital sex is wrong. That is your opinion. If it is your choice to not have sex before you are married, that is wonderful, but don't judge others because of it.
2007-12-06 14:32:16 · answer #5 · answered by blanquita 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yes, tho' those values are rare these days! Be proud for yourself!
But many need to know because of different circumstances in their lives,they can hold their heads up as well! Just begin from today! Choose to wait,or take precautions!
Take care Lady!
2007-12-06 14:45:22 · answer #6 · answered by need2know 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wish I would of thought about it when I was younger.I didn't I was put into a sittuation and I ended up a teen mother.I am now an adult I love my kids but I praise young women like you that are saving their selfs.I think it's great!!!!Good for you and keep it up.You won't regret it when you do get married. Good Luck.Like I said You Go Girl!!!!
2007-12-06 14:44:25 · answer #7 · answered by Leah 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I believe that no-one should have sex before they are ready. For some that is after marriage but for others it is sooner and some go through life never ready. To coerce, force or threaten to get some one to have sex diminishes the meaning of it.
Yes, I am a christian and prochoice.
2007-12-06 14:39:38 · answer #8 · answered by James E Lewis AKA choteau 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think pre-marital sex is a good idea for other people, its their choice. but Ive had sex before marriage already and honestly i don't regret it. because i gained a lot of experience and learned a lot, that i could take with me to my marriage. also i feel more confident and sexy that i know how to satisfy my husband. but its a good thing your still a virgin just because its a rare thing and it is special that you do decided to save yourself for marriage, good for you
2007-12-06 14:35:59 · answer #9 · answered by TheLostOne 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Jessica your a fool and you should be NOT be "proud of it"
I'm with TX LADY23
I'm a virgin also. i think it's lower than dirt if people just sleep around for the hell of it.
your husband will be HONORED that you saved yourself for him and that you will not have no other man on your mind.
your not missing out on anything. you not missing out on STD's, unwanted pregnancy and most importantly a broken heart.
you be proud and never let society tell you any different.
2007-12-06 15:05:46 · answer #10 · answered by Ms. Lady 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋