Met a guy for about a week, and he asked me that question. he have told me that he was a "bad boy", playing girls and drugs. and says that he is not a bad guy anymore. Why is he asking me that?
2007-12-06 15:44:20 · 46 answers · asked by channie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think that you need to ask your parents.
2007-12-06 15:47:31 · answer #1 · answered by smsm 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
He has NOT stopped being a bad boy. He just wants to have sex with you and move on. DO NOT fall for it. Whether or not you are a virgin shouldn't matter after a week. Maybe if you were serious about this relationship moving on you might have a conversation like that, but not one week in. He just wants to notch up another virgin on his bow. Get out now! He's a user of women.
2007-12-06 15:52:24 · answer #2 · answered by the man 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He wants to know how hard he'll have to work to get in your pants. The theory is that once you've had sex you'll give it up WAY easier to the next guy.
Basically he's trying to size you up. he may just want to know if you're a "good girl" because he lied about being a "bad boy." If you don't really know him, he might have claimed to have a bad boy history because girls like bad boys.
If you like him you probably shouldn't lie to him.
2007-12-06 15:53:04 · answer #3 · answered by jaime 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He could be playing you just to say like the others that he took your cherry, guy's (pigs) get a big thrill out of that. If he likes you he will wait,if not he will move on and find someone dumb enough to let him do it.
Do yourself a favor and hold out, get to know this guy alot better before you give something up you will never forget.
If your not a virgin, it's not anyof his concern, let him guess. If you want to play with him , tell him no your not and see what he does, but still hold out.
Good luck
2007-12-06 15:52:07 · answer #4 · answered by 1992dodgeman 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Because he has no respect for your privacy?!? If he's known you a week, why is he asking about your sexual experience? Sounds like a creep.
If he says he playing girls and into drugs, there is a good chance he would like to include you in his long list of bad behavior. Respect yourself and be safe. Try to keep distance or be in group settings.
Even if you like him, "like" is a feeling. Feelings are not always right, logical, or helpful. Focus on being smart!
2007-12-06 15:50:46 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Because he wants to know whether you have had sex or not lol. Some guys prefer girls who are virgins because their say "entry hole" is tighter. Or he could not like virgins cause some girls are bad in the start sooo.. make up your own mind.
2007-12-06 15:47:57 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That guy apparently looks at a physical thing of a person.But not all, some just want to be in relationship with virgin women.
2007-12-06 15:53:39 · answer #7 · answered by ching 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hes lying... telling you hes change is a direct example of what he told you himself he plays girls... The "I've change and looking for love" routine has worked on girl hes hooked up with before and him asking you if you are a virgin after two weeks shows hes got one thing on his mind, hes in for the accomplishment of nailing you and if you are a virgin the challenge is even greater. think about it!
2007-12-06 15:49:29 · answer #8 · answered by Emily N 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Stay away from guys like this one. They like to think they're 'clean', but they are not. Not when they are asking these type of questions to young girls like you. And what do you mean, 'what does he mean when he asks you if you're a virgin'? Are you really that innocent my dear?
2007-12-06 15:50:02 · answer #9 · answered by ღ♥Jess♥ღ 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
he was asking you if you have ha sex before. a virgin is somebody who has NOT had sex yet. and so by him saying he's a bad boy, means he is probably not a virgin and wants to get with you.
2007-12-06 15:47:52 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
He's testing you out, to see if you're interested in him, so he can "play" you.....
Run- run fast!
He would never ask you that if he really respected you- that would be a more intimate conversation between 2 people that know each other better.
2007-12-06 15:48:55 · answer #11 · answered by idahostudios 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋