Why does seem like I am the only one?

Question

Why does it seem like everytime I go somewhere I see these happy couples holding hands? I often want to cry because I feel worthless. Everyone says you will meet that one guy someday!!! But everytime I do get a chance they turned out gay, had other gfs, or w/e their problem is. Anyone else feels lonley? I am on the dean list, got accepted into university I want, have a couple of good friends, have a great mom, and most of all I get what I want, except guys. I do flirt with them, but it just make things worst.

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Answer 1

It seems that way because that is all you are focusing on. Trust me, there are plenty of other people who are single out there! Plus miserable couples who WISH THEY WERE SINGLE AGAIN. But if you are so smart, capable and accomplished, why do you base your sense of self-worth on whether or not you have a BF? If you are going away to college, you will be free to find someone there who you can spend time with, and in the meantime you won't have someone holding you back from going where you want to go, like, away to college, and doing everything that you are able to do! Flirting is okay, it just doesn't mean anything. But something else, people are attracted to folks that are confident. Your feelings of worthlessness are probably getting picked up on - nothing drives ppl away faster than that sense of desperation...You need to know and BELIEVE you are worthwhile.

Answer 2

Join the club. I really don't know how it works, seems like all my friends had a easy time except for me. I am almost done with college, have a job lined up. stay in shape. clean not a drug addict and a good person.
No luck, if you want to vent/ talk just send a email from my page here on awnsers

Answer 3

I know you've heard it over and over and over again, but you just have to hang in there. You never know what might happen! This time next week you could be cuddling a great guy on the couch and wondering how you ever got through a day without him. Relationships happen so quickly, but the time in between them seems like forever. So, keep you head up, keep laughing, and just when you least expect it you'll run into your next great guy. :)

Answer 4

Well I don't have any real answers to that but I got it that you are not finding what you want. Have you sat down and really listed out what you want, like what is your ideal scene in a person that you want to be romantically involved with. Maybe you should name it out, what you really want in a mate, what you want in a relationship (how would you want him to treat you, would you want something that would lead to marriage, would you want kids, how many, you can really plan it out and put it there in the physical universe. it also helps put you at cause) and what are the most important points to you, like what would you compromise on and what are deal breakers. It might even be fun to work out what the perfect guy is for you. Then you have your ideal scene named out exactly what you want. Then you got to decide that is what you want then you can work at what you have to do to get that.

Answer 5

I am also lonely till recently when I had met a pretty girl. But you know being single can be fun and it is better than all the drama and heart-breaks that you get.

IM me if you wanna talk.

Answer 6

Everybody goes through dry spells. You'll meet a guy who's interested and who you're interested in back.

I know it sounds cheesy, but it's true. Good luck!

Answer 7

i know what you mean! im in the same boat, but you just gotta be patient. you'll find him one day