my friends boyfriend is planning on giving her a diamond ring for xmas, but they've only been going out for two weeks!!!!!!!! should she accept it?
2007-12-06 14:40:01 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
hes not proposing! hes just giving her a ring
2007-12-07 12:51:01 · update #1
noooo that is moving WAY too fast, this guy seems alittle wierd to me
2007-12-06 14:43:22 · answer #1 · answered by wyattwillis19 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
that would just scare me away if i were you friend.When you are dating someone for such a short time , you give them consumables at x-mas. Do the guy a favour and tell him that his move may not be the best , even if it might not mean much to him to give such an expensive gift to a new conquest , that is plain creepy!!! The gift is too expensive for 2 weeks .....what doesn't he wait one or two more x-mas to give it to her.
2007-12-06 14:47:29 · answer #2 · answered by Ketty87 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's way too soon, in my opinion! If this guy is pressuring her to get married so soon, she should see that as a red flag. He should be willing to "court" her and basically prove that he'd make a good husband. If he's not willing to wait for her for atleast a year or two, why the heck should she marry him?
2007-12-06 14:46:16 · answer #3 · answered by Tres Leches 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well she shud except it or that wud just be rude to the guy... but only 2 weeks wow.. either hes loaded or really loves her...she should also find out more about this guy cause he cud be one of those creepie stoking type of guys who just wont let her go if they decide to break up...a diamond ring is quite special i wanna see what happens when its there one year loll
2007-12-06 14:44:31 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, she should not. It is way too soon. When ppl give expensive gifts too early in a relationship, it either means that they are controlling, insecure, or something else is wrong. If she doesn't want to say no herself, maybe her mom could help. That is messed up.
2007-12-06 14:43:53 · answer #5 · answered by eldots53 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If they just met each other I would take the ring and have a long engagement.
2007-12-06 14:44:37 · answer #6 · answered by Hope 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess that would depend on wheather or not she feels comfortable accepting it and what the ring stands for if anything
2007-12-06 14:43:28 · answer #7 · answered by crazylady 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The guy really likes the girl. I think she sould take it if she feels the same way about him
2007-12-06 14:42:58 · answer #8 · answered by Stephen M 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Ummm... that is a bit quick. I would say she should not take it. It is kind of weird of him to buy that so soon.
2007-12-06 14:43:22 · answer #9 · answered by Beth 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
maybe next year if they are still together. she can take it if she thinks there is a bright future.
2007-12-06 14:43:52 · answer #10 · answered by Stephanie T 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋