things are awquard between us .we`ve just been playing games and neither one of us has had the nerve to talk to the other one. im so sick of it,but how do i approch her?i really like her ALOT,and i think she likes me too cause her brother normaly an asshole towards me acted like he wanted me to talk to he and siad she mite be instered in me also.plus other people have said things she has said about me.and she smiles and stares at me frequently. so, what do i do and say to her?
2007-12-06 14:05:39 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
From the side like a crab.....she'll never see it coming....unless her crabs warn her first.....assuming she speaks crab....never mind....that's a terrible idea.....parachute from the skies on top of her instead....she definitely won't see that coming.....Magics! ^_^
2007-12-06 14:11:42 · answer #1 · answered by Arther 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK, could she make it more obvious? It is certainly time you did say something, so you need to make your move soon. You are more concerned about this than the actual challenge warrants - it's easy. Just walk up to her and make a comment on something, anything, that she can safely have an opionion about - the school, classes, teachers, lunch - anything both of you know something about. It does not need to be a great comment - you just need to open the door to a conversation. It might be a little awkward at first - you are oth going to have to talk some to get to know each other, but start with something like the weather or some musician she might like - anything like that. She has to be interested to get her brother to talk to you! So just be nice, walk up and chat with her like you were already dating - just pick something safe and make a comment or ask her about her opinion on it. She should pick up her end of the conversation once she gets over the shock! Be patient, it may take a few discussions before you both find some common discussion points or even get the hang of each others speaking rhythms, to be quite honest. Ask her if she has a pet because your dog was howling all night (hey, it does not need to be true - well, you should have a dog).
She won;t bite you, approach her like she is a kitten - just smile and say something nice. You could tell her her hair looks nice or her shirt is pretty of "those are nice earrings".
2007-12-06 14:17:26 · answer #2 · answered by Amy R 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay, this has happened to me a million times with guys...From a girl's point of view, I would just go up to her and start casual conversation that has nothing to do with the fact that you both like each other.. I know I had trouble with a guy in the past b/c he never said anything to me after things were a bit awkward and we both liked each other. Try and be friends first.
2007-12-06 14:10:50 · answer #3 · answered by Olivia 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can do other things half 2$$ in life, but when it comes to love, this should not be one of them...
if things are awkward, try going in different directions.. I know it seems like something you just can't do at the moment, but listen to me! Why else would you come on yahoo answers, get a good answer, and ignore the advice you are given?
This is not the relationship for you...
You may like each other, but it just isn't meant to be.
2007-12-06 14:10:33 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't be too shy. Sometimes we just have to bite the bullet and just do it. Once you've started a conversation, you'll hear what she's thinking about and you could hint that you're interested but shy to really bring it up. It will only move forward if you or her decide to get the wheels rolling. Maybe she's just as shy as you are about it. Try to be shy about it together.
2007-12-06 14:12:54 · answer #5 · answered by waltersuphap 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe that you truly cannot "plan" what to say to her. I feel that you would benefit most if you merely take a deep breath and relax, forgetting what all others told you to do or say, when you are face to face, you look into her eyes and just speak from your heart. Your heart will give you the right words to say, you will tell her how you truly feel, and you will speak from within, so, do not stress over the right words to say, when you speak from the heart, the words and feelings will be true, and you will touch the one you speak to, so that that person will feel what you are feeling or saying. I would say good luck, but luck is not needed if you just speak from your heart.
2007-12-06 14:12:21 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seeing that I am a girl... my best advice is next time you are "hanging out" with her, is to approach her by saying that you have been thinking, and that you really like her alot, and then ask her to be your girlfriend or to go on a few dates with you or whatever. I have fell for that line a few times... It works.
2007-12-06 14:11:17 · answer #7 · answered by pioneerchs2010 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you could start by saying "hi, how's it goin?" and then respond to what she says accordingly. just be confident and act natural. if the conversation stalls then ask her open ended questions. you could try asking her something about her brother since he is someone you both know. just be sure to not to mention how he's an asshole.
number 1 thing is to act confident and be yourself. and don't forget to smile.
2007-12-06 14:15:21 · answer #8 · answered by who knows 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just go up to her and start talking. Don't just be like "hi" start a conversation adn try to get her interested, which will show that you are interested in her. If she likes you then it should be easy for her to talk back. You can't be rewarded without taking risks!
2007-12-06 14:09:05 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
just go up to her and be nice or say like ive seen you around school whats your name or tell her the truth just be like i've noticed you a lot lately and i've finally got the nerve to say something to you, she may think thats sweet.
2007-12-06 14:10:44 · answer #10 · answered by britt c 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋