we have been having a little bit of trouble and i dont seem to believe him sometimes even tho i do im just scared of being cheated on. he loves me i know but i dont know if i wanna be with him just because i want someone. im pretty sure i love him but i cant figure out if im wanting him just to have someone cuz im comfortable with him or cuz i love him. but sometimes im not happy...like i wish he would more romantic and tell me more how much i mean to him. help.
2007-12-06 14:17:36 · 6 answers · asked by miss curious 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
the best advice you could ever hear right now:
find someone new.
2007-12-06 14:20:30 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your story is like the story of somebody who is bored, unsure of herself, insecure, and needs a lot of ego massaging.You say you are sure he loves you but you wish he would be more romantic; you say you are sure you love him, but don't know if you just want someone in your life, or you're just comfortable with him and also have some trust issues. What I suggest you try are:1)talk to him about being more romantic with you, and telling you how much you mean to him2)Let him know of your insecurity and fear of being lied to and cheated on and ask him to help you with those issues, also ask him not to lie to you or cheat on you(you will have to promise the same to him)3)tell him you want to rekindle the fire in your romance and start afresh.Give all of these ideas a few months to work and have the desired effect. If the two of you try some, you will be amazed at the results you will get.
2007-12-06 22:40:17 · answer #2 · answered by abbeycoolit 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
been there done that, eventually he actually broke up with me...right after prom and i was devastated, if i could go back in time i would get someone new, sooo i think you should start looking around so it wont hurt as much.
2007-12-06 22:26:23 · answer #3 · answered by jewels 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love is easy and simple their is no thinking about it just love and being with that person simple as that.
2007-12-06 22:26:51 · answer #4 · answered by cocoa 4 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if you loved him you wouldnt have to think this hard about it. find someone else there are LOTS of great guys out there!!! then again...theres alot of badd ones too :] i think if you just get this guy out of your head you will be able to clear your mind and think about what you want and then go get it :]
2007-12-06 22:21:33 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am in the same situation as you.
2007-12-06 22:21:19 · answer #6 · answered by aMused 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋