He has a girlfriend. Before I knew this, I really, truly thought he liked me. We`d always be flirting, and if he needed a question, or an opinion, he`d come to me first. We have little inside jokes, and we tease each other a lot....but I heard the news today that he has this obsessive girlfriend...It took me totally by surprise....I didnt want to believe it....and I was planning on going to see him soon, too....plus he knows how I feel about him...but the fact that he KNEW that and he he is going out with her....(might I add that she`s a total sl.ut)...and...I dont know if I should either, give up on him, keep faith in him, or maybe tell him off. Not to mention the problem about going to see him...despite all the other stuff...I still really want to see him!! He`s sweet and funny,AND amazingly cute, I get very relaxed and comfortable around him...I cant imagine myself with anyone else...I just dont know what to do!! Any advice is highly appreciated!!! Thanks!! PLEASE help!!!
2007-12-06 15:22:13 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If he is willing to possibly cheat with you think about what he will be doing to you if you do end up together. Why waste your time on a scum bag like that.
2007-12-06 15:25:37 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
First off, a guy being that flirty while having a girlfriend automatically doesn't seem so trustworthy.
If you truly like him, then keep flirting! What's there to lose? But be a little more distant... like a hard-to-get sort of way. If you don't feel comfortable with doing that while he still has a girlfriend, then just tell him straight up how you feel. There's no other way, and no harm because he already knows that you like him. Just tell him that you're interested, and if he is too, then he should think twice about his girlfriend.
If he's not, then there's plenty more of them out here :D
2007-12-06 23:27:23 · answer #2 · answered by damnitsmegan 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am so glad you find a really cute guy to flirt with. but you have to remember he forgets to tell you personally that he has a girlfriend. just look at the facts now, he flirts wildly with you, and go to you for all the helps but he keeps a girlfriend. doesn't that sound like he is making you the third wheel/five wheel. I think what you should do is to cool it off first tell him if he is attracted to you the same way you are to him then its time he get rid of his gf who is a "sl*t".
the thing is that he treats you like a girlfriend but will not put that name tag on you. He wants to be a player so dont let him play you. good luck with all this mess!
2007-12-06 23:29:59 · answer #3 · answered by mycorollababy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want to remain joyfuljoy - get away from this guy. I really can't stand when women think "oh but he'd never do that to me...it's just because his current girlfriend is horrible...we're in love..."...that's probably what his current girlfriend thought. If she's really all those bad things...what in the world is he doing with her anyway? This man has no class. Put him out of your mind and go after a man who isn't dating someone. It's so easy to think the other girl is the problem. No - the problem is the slimy guy and the girl who knows she should know better. I think you do or you wouldn't have asked.
2007-12-06 23:34:14 · answer #4 · answered by WutheringHeights73 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
obsessive girlfriend? Ask him if he likes her or if its something else, she might have a psychological problem too if shes obsessive or something like that {might need to see a Doctor}, also ask how he likes you {you don't have to tell him how u feel if u don't want to but it'd be best}, ask him why he flirted with you if he had a girlfriend. If he for some reason doesn't like you and wants to be friends be his friend u might fall out of love. But talk this out why are u asking random strangers on yahoo instead of the guy himself? Your scared? Of what a broken heart? Your heart will be broken if you don't find out the truth! It might be better then not knowing at all.
2007-12-06 23:30:26 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he truly feels the same way you feel about him, he will leave his girlfriend. I would also be nervous about the fact that he is essentially having an emotional affair with you. Once someone cheats, the likelihood they do it again is extremely high. Bottom line: you need to tell him that it is either you or the other girl; you should not be second best and you do not deserve it.
2007-12-06 23:30:05 · answer #6 · answered by vols8080 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep faith in him. It may be too late to tell him you like him, but you deserve a second chance, right? Maybe one day you can call him and talk about some stuff, then bring up his girlfriend. Ask a few questions
(I'm not good at this stuff, but its just a few suggestions)
2007-12-06 23:26:57 · answer #7 · answered by Smiley 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go off him darling. Chances are IF you and him were to get together, how would you know he wasn't flirting with someone else behind your back? It's not worth it trust me. Tell him off anyway if it makes you feel better but he should've told you from the start that he has a gf and you wouldn't be in this situation. Hope that helps :).
2007-12-06 23:27:28 · answer #8 · answered by Đ∂ү ώ∂ℓķєЯ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmmm. She is a total s**t, and therefore it's OK if you take him from her?
You don't need to think of her that way to take him from her. What you have with him has nothing to do with her. You must feel a little guilty about this, otherwise you wouldn't need to put her down. He is not married. All is fair in love and war. It is OK if you feel bad for her that he is going to leave her for you. Really. Just go for it.
2007-12-06 23:30:34 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well....there is obviously something about the obsessive girlfriend that he likes or he wouldn't be messing with her. My problem with him is that he so casually and easily sneaks around his crazy girlfriend to flirt with girls like you.....and play to your emotions(you did say that he knows how you feel about him). Girl, all the players are sweet, funny, and cute. I think you will end up getting burnt with this one. Do what you've got to do, but don't say you weren't forewarned.
2007-12-06 23:30:13 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
blow him off for a couple of days, and when he comes around or calls, and asks why he hasnt heard from you, tell him because he has a girlfriend and you dont want to ruin anything between them that you really like him, but, you wouldnt want to hurt the other girls feelings, and that if he likes you the way he seems either its going to be you and you only, or his present girlfriend and her only.
2007-12-06 23:38:57 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋