Singles & Dating - 18 November 2007

I swear this is the last time im asking about this on yahoo answers because everytime i do i screw up again

Ok several months ago i drunkenly made out with a girl who would normally be way out of my league. Next night she was Sober I was not but I didnt realize it. In my drunken brilliance I for some reason asked "do I have a chance with you"? That pretty much ended things and although I apologized I have felt extremely awkward since about it. A few nights ago I was rncouraged by her to go to a costume party and after stating I had no costume she encouraged me to make something up and I later heard her say to her friends(she did not realize I was nearby) that "they'll still probably let him in without a costume right?" Foolishly I got smashed that night and I proceded to message her that I wanted to talk about the original incident. Next morning i relaized bad idea and deleted it but she saw it anyway and I said it was supposed to go to someone else about another issue. now wht

2007-11-18 17:20:59 · 5 answers · asked by captainpantsbc 2

my friend really likes this guy who likes her back he is really hott and sweet and really cool but he is a year younger than her. she is in 8th grade and hes in 7th. people have told her that she cant go out with him because hes younger but a lot of people also say that it doesnt matter at all.
shes really confused so anythign would help
answer pleasee

2007-11-18 17:20:07 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous

I feel lonely all the time. I want to make some new friends, but I can't open my heart to them. I feel really blank. I just want to hang out with my ex-boyfriend who is now my best friend. I am so afraid that other people will know my weaknesses, so I don't want to let them know anything about me.I call my ex everytime I am happy or sad, and he always be with me anytime I need him. but it's not that we are still in love with each other, it's just because he understand me very well. he knows that I am weak and lonely. and for me I can't trust anyone else beside him so I just turn to him. I can only be myself when I am with him. totally happy and natural. I can tell him everything, but I can't talk with other people more than 5 minutes. now he is in love with other girl. I know this is the time that I need to stop being his burden but my world is very small that I won't have anyone else to turn to if he leaves me. I am desperate! what should I do now? please help me

2007-11-18 17:18:07 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-11-18 17:17:28 · 9 answers · asked by ? 1

So when a guy says something that's what he means and there isn't any hidden messages, ever. And they won't say something that isn't true because they don't believe in drama or w/e, right? Or whats the deal with this?

2007-11-18 17:12:14 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous

when I am around this guy I really like? I'm usually a really relaxed person but when I'm around him I totally lose control of myself! He has tried saying hi to me a couple times but I always freeze and don't really say much at all. I try really hard to play it cool, but he probably takes it as me just being a snob or not interested. How do I let him know I like him and make sure he doesn't just give up on talking to me altogether?

2007-11-18 17:06:56 · 5 answers · asked by Madeline Rae 3

Dot points please.

2007-11-18 17:03:49 · 17 answers · asked by Angel 4

ok i work at a daycare.. there is this single dad that comes in alot.. i think he is so cute and i would love to get to know him but i dont know what to say because that is my job :(
he always smiles at me and i smile at him
but its still my job
please someone telll me what to do

2007-11-18 17:00:36 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

what do you do when they tell you after six months that they need some space to think about things but they still want to see you and NOT date other people?

2007-11-18 16:46:25 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

I just don't get the whole developing relationships thing with women thing at all.... I'm serious.

Don't get me wrong I'm not shy, well I used to be very SHY...but I am a very social and good looking person.

And no I'm not arrogant or mean at all, but women always end up hating me a LOT.

I just don't get it....

For example let's say I'm talking to a women....why does she expect me to ask for her number and compliment her looks and the same old routine?

Why do women in general (NOT ALL) but why do women expect every guy to be to be so typical?

Don 't get me wrong not all women are the same, I'm not saying that.

Shouldn't a women be happy that a guy wants to get to know you a little more and not kiss your but?

It's almost as if I don't do that, they begin to have a growing hate for me. As if I think I'm too good to notice them or say but kissing things.

The thing is I NOTICE you beautiful women, and I admire you, but I refuse to turn myself into a kiss butt in the process.

2007-11-18 16:45:37 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

I've been single for quite a few years now. Some people say I don't really make the effort. I'm begining to agree. I loose interest pretty quick. In the past, when I liked a girl, it could be for months or years. Now I'm interested in a girl for a few weeks, then I can't really be bothered. And it's been this way for a few years. What's going on with me?

2007-11-18 16:42:39 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

Recently there are alot of messages being posted by black men, who are making comments that they are only interested in dating hispanic or white women, because they are just more attracted to them. Of course all of the spanish and white women had something rude to say, or made rude comments toward black women.

The feeling from everyone(non-black women) is that black women are angry about the fact that spanish women and white women are dating black men. Now my question to black women is that, do you feel that the reason black men are asking questions like this is to excite some type of uproar between black women and those that are non-black, as we have seen before. I have asked this question but only to understand the logic that black men and other people are using when they ask questions like this. Is the black man asking these type of questions to bring attention to himself in any way. And, black women how do you feel when ignorant spanish and white women make comments about us?
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Do you feel that you have been wrongly sterotyped? I for one could care less about how many spanish or white women date black men. I believe that alot of them do go after our men and want us to be upset about it. As a successful, beautiful black woman, who owns my own car and house, with a master's degree I am not very concerned. Black women how do you feel about the subject?

2007-11-18 16:38:46 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm an 18 year old virgin. I wanna make my parents proud. I don't do drugs, steal, fight, smoke, have sex, and etc. Yeah I'm a nice guy too.

One problem is that through my life when I meet a girl who seems like a special friend whether its online or in reality, they seem good at first but end up betraying me... When I speak to them it seems like we have a great time and we both seem happy together. Later on they seem to ignore me and try to avoid me without a word...

Is it because I lack good conversation skills? Do girls get offended easily or do they not like guys who are too friendly? I dunno whats wrong, they end up ignoring me. This has happened thru my high school life only...WHat is wrong with me?

Thanks for reading

2007-11-18 16:38:36 · 13 answers · asked by Closed 5

I don't mean girl-friends, just girls who happen to be friends.

A guy told me that in general (although by no means the rule), guys don't like being friends with girls they don't find attractive, even though it's not romantic.

Is this true?

And why?

Thanks.

2007-11-18 16:36:48 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have been with this guy, whom I love dearly for 9 months now, we have had our ups and downs, he even proposed to me back in May, shortly after that he lost his job, eventually he got another but it wasn't paying enough, so he waited til something better paying came along, which did about 2 months ago,and about 3 weeks ago he started acting wierd, and distant. He snapped at me the other night for no reason, (I had just gotten home from work and hadn't seen him all day.) Iit escaladed and insted of walking away like I should have, I said some very cruel and hurtful things out of anger. Of course after the fact I felt terrible and apoligized the next day, and I found out that he was very stressed out and unhappy with his job at the time. It's been 3 days since we got into that fight, and he still isn't acting right, as a matter of fact he's being mean, I asked if he wanted to end the relationship or needed time apart, and he said no. What more can I do? Will things get better.

2007-11-18 16:34:14 · 1 answers · asked by coronaqt2004 1

2007-11-18 16:31:02 · 9 answers · asked by panthergirl3729 1

when you've been caught,, how do you explain it isn't right????
she saw was having fun fun, my gf is very verbal in her pleasure. can i help she's a screamer?

2007-11-18 16:29:17 · 8 answers · asked by At peace with myself 3

2007-11-18 16:28:07 · 1 answers · asked by jonalyn.. 1

god damn im so pised he has a secret that someone told him its nothing to be ashamed of but he wont tell me and tomorrow he's going to ask out a girl...when i like him alot and ugh and i dont want him to ask her out ...i want him to ask me out and im scared to what he'd say because were both guys in all and idk if he's bi or gay

2007-11-18 16:27:51 · 16 answers · asked by jake s 1

left me to live with some other woman, to live "off of her", and i heard its a pigstye. wel i am miserable, in general, and wish i had someone to love, to make my life happier. How can i do that?

2007-11-18 16:07:28 · 8 answers · asked by Diana S 2

when she is dressed in not thight jeans and a non form fitting t-shirt. When I say decent swim suit I mean not to low in the front, not to high on the thigh, one peice, not to high on the butt. What are the thoughts that you guys have when you see that sort of suit on a hot girl compared to other bikini and skimpy swim suits, about what you would like to do to her or with her. and does being in a beach or pool atomospher with the oppisete sex make you act differently then you would with those same poeple in other places.
Thanks so much for your honest answers and your time.

2007-11-18 16:06:48 · 3 answers · asked by Ddvanyway 4

Say you're on this break because you have your dream job and its stressful plus youre going to college and this semester is stressful so you go on a break with ur gf....If she were to contact you whlie on the break would you get annoyed? Would that push you away more?

he IMed me a couple nights ago and we talked like normal i didnt want to pressure him and ask him about the break......should i have?

i need a guys advice- something good too

2007-11-18 15:55:30 · 4 answers · asked by maki 2

In my last relationship that was about 5 months ago my boyfriend lied to me consently. Then 4 months after we broke up i found out he was still lieing about me. He said that we had a class together and i had a new boyfriend and was rubbing it in his face and i called him a loser. I know it sounds stupid but those lies really got to me and i got really upset about it. But because of it i now don't trust any guy i meet. Even this guy i really like and he likes me and we have known eachother for 3 years. He is in the Marines and i know he would never lie to me or anything but i still have my doubts and think he would. How can i get over this?

2007-11-18 15:51:17 · 5 answers · asked by Jalana 4

I broke up with my ex-boyfriend over 6 months ago. This is my first Christmas/Thanksgiving alone in 4 years. As much as I knew breaking up with him was for the best I feel like things are still going downhill. He got a new girlfriend who he is happy with while I'm alone and having to sit through the holidays with a family in which every person has someone to spend it with. I'm not in college anymore, so meeting a new guy has been very difficult and I haven't managed to do it. Has anyone ever felt sad like this? How did you make it through, especially the holidays, alone? I just need something to get me happy and motivated...

2007-11-18 15:50:44 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

I love him. But he said he loves me only as a good friend. I am very heart-broken. What made it even worse was when he said that it won't go beyond this ever.

Is it ever possible that he might feel differently down the line, if we continue to be just good friends?

Please answer honestly guys and please let me know if there is still a glimmer of hope here, or zero chance?

2007-11-18 15:47:23 · 29 answers · asked by ? 6

I need a sorry note for someone. I acted really bad to them. Please give me a good sorry note, but not one that would make me or this someone feel uncomfortable. I need it by Tuesday.

2007-11-18 15:40:51 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

so my boyfreind and i have a great relationship... very in love.... great chemistry he is very caring... we basically haver our future mapped out and everything.

Our physical aspect of our relationship is just as great... great connecting sex and everything but he would always tell me his first serious girlfriend he was with for a few years was amazing at giving head....
Well i mean i do it, and i am not bad or anything but i am not crazy about it cuz i always feel like i am being compared.....?

I think a part of me resists because i dont like the thought of her coming in to his mind about hooking up... she is at the same college as us and is actually in some of his classes (they were high school sweethearts)

He says i am the best sex he ever had... but my head could use work.... I wanna work at it but i always get like anxiety problems because i dont want her to come back into his mind.... um help?

2007-11-18 15:40:06 · 26 answers · asked by boots4939 1

He's not a perv or stalker or anything but if he just wanted casual sex, would you?

2007-11-18 15:35:32 · 13 answers · asked by jyj 2

Does a woman have to go to hell in back in order for you to know you love her? I am single, and I do want to be in a relationship, but I don't want drama. I have a two girlfriends who have been through so much with their men from braking up to making up, to each of them being with someone else. He admits he knows what it takes to make the relationship work, but will come around to doing it in his own time because no matter how long it takes he wants to be able to say “I did it“, and not she made me do it. These men would go from saying they love them unconditionally, but would often wonder if he wants to be with them at all if he had not put conditions on the love first, then the women would do the same thing as a defense mechanism. You go from having really amazing days/moments with him, but some days you wish you never met him, then one day he decides you are the love of his life, and ask you to marry him.

2007-11-18 15:30:48 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

why do guys get to touchy and do they like there girls nasty???

2007-11-18 15:26:48 · 1 answers · asked by bbyiluvumucho! 2