Say you're on this break because you have your dream job and its stressful plus youre going to college and this semester is stressful so you go on a break with ur gf....If she were to contact you whlie on the break would you get annoyed? Would that push you away more?
he IMed me a couple nights ago and we talked like normal i didnt want to pressure him and ask him about the break......should i have?
i need a guys advice- something good too
2007-11-18 15:55:30 · 4 answers · asked by maki 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
see thats the thing, he told me its not that he wants to end this he just wants to straghten things out before stuff happens. I don't know, i don't want to be annoying, but i feel the more i wait the more i'll be losing him
2007-11-18 16:07:14 · update #1
Most guys would get annoyed if contacted on a break. Break=no contact.
Though when he 'broke the rule' and contacted you...you should have asked him about the break. You get at least a free contact back to ask him that question.
2007-11-18 16:05:25 · answer #1 · answered by null_the_living_darkness 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why the break? I understand the job and school being stressful, but why not talk to your girlfriend about that. Tell her you love her but she needs to understand you won't have a lot of time to spend with her right now. I'd be questioning the break if I were you. He asks for a break then calls you and talks to you like everything is normal? Sounds to me like he just wants to have his cake and eat it too. The break sounds to me like an excuse for him to see other people and not feel guilty about it and to keep you in the background so he still has you to run back to.
You shouldn't have to wait around hoping he will grace you with scraps of his time, and any guy that asks you to is not worthy of your time! Let him go and find someone who really deserves you!
2007-11-19 00:06:47 · answer #2 · answered by Justmy2cents 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is the break because of the job or is the break because he wants to "break up"?
I'm suspicious of his intentions. I think he may be IMing you because he misses the attention or maybe misses the physicial part of the relationship.
Dont feel pressure to ask him about the break since youre in a relationship. It should be ok to ask him anything. Just dont expect him to be very straightforward about his answer.
2007-11-19 00:03:53 · answer #3 · answered by Revolutionista barista 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should give him the space he needs at this time. it sounds like he's a career driven guy. you should feel lucky that he's like that. i have been there myself. that was why i had to break up with my ex because i felt like she was latterly my full time job.
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2007-11-19 00:13:17 · answer #4 · answered by lpsworld 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋