Singles & Dating - 18 November 2007

I got new lover so fast after i break with my bf and it's my request, but he become my very close friends. everytime when i'm on date with my new lover, i can't concentrate on him because my feeling can't get far from my ex-bf memories. all this make me don't have any mood with my new lover. why? is it i still love my ex-bf?

what is the best solutions to forget my ex-bf?

2007-11-18 19:04:19 · 3 answers · asked by bee 2

we aint compatible because she is streetwise and not used to been shown soo much care and attention, i think her excuse holds no water, its not my faults i am a normal human being, what do you think guys?

2007-11-18 18:56:11 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

We dated for two months over the summer and had a really great time whenever we were around one another. We never got into any arguments until we decided we would try to stay together when she left for school. She came home after being at school for three weeks and said she wanted to take a break. I kind of got the feeling it was coming so to make it easier for her I just said ok and we kind of stopped talking. Looking back on it now, if I begged for her to stay she probably would have because she still had feelings for me (could go into detail how I know this but it'd take too long). Now we've kind of started talking again, maybe once or twice a week online for maybe five minutes at a time. It's really nice talking to her but I don't think I could just be friends with her.

So how could I talk to her about us, not getting back together in a steady relationship but, dating like we were in the summer with no real commitment?

2007-11-18 18:52:43 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

He thinks he's God's gift to woman and is basically ignoring me after he led me on, it makes me want him more but don't know how to deal with it.

2007-11-18 18:52:09 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

I always encounter younger men who seemed impressed with the way I talk and now they seemed interested in me...problem is i think that these younger men are like 13-16... and i'm like 18.... what to do? what to do?

2007-11-18 18:50:57 · 10 answers · asked by littlemissred 1

always asks if you're in town when you speak to him (you live an hour away)

would you think he was interested in you?

2007-11-18 18:48:59 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-11-18 18:33:31 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

why say no to yes & yes to no ??

2007-11-18 18:30:59 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

-I get angry over serious things and feel resentment about them, to the point that i wear her out.
-I am verbally abusive because my dad was.
-I retract my statements as soon as i realize what i said.
-I do a lot for her and feel that she is ungrateful.
-I want her to be less of an opponent and more help.
-I say things that i know will hurt her because i am mad.
-I don't want to do this but i can't control my anger at this point.
-I have tried to get her to let me calm down but she won't always give me space.(she does not want it always to be on my convenience).
- I want to find a way to stop myself.
For example condition me. Does anybody have any good ideas that would make me succeed in stopping the hurtful comments.

2007-11-18 18:29:03 · 11 answers · asked by rod 1

i am involved in a long distance relationship, we communicate everyday but this past friday when she got off work she called me and stated she was out of town camping with his coworkers ( 3 couples plus her) she stated she had to go along and wish i was there coz she has been feeling very lonely. now the question is
1. as much as i want to trust her, i can't imagine she didnt have a male companion just like her friends? how could she be a sleep in a tent when all the other couples were cuddling and probably making out?
2. why did she choose to tell me at the last minute yet we communicate everyday?
3. if indeed she is hidding something, why did she choose to tell me at all?

She is supposed to be visiting me for christmass and i am afraid the more i grill her the less likelyhood i will see her. any advice please!!!!!

2007-11-18 18:26:23 · 12 answers · asked by jophat 1

Has anyone ever heard of any couples superglueing their lips together and tongue kissing that way, if so, what is the best way of going about it? And what's the best stuff to use to remove it?

2007-11-18 18:24:51 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ok, well, I really do have a deep voice. I don't like it because people say that its hard for them to hear me and i'm only 14! :(

2007-11-18 18:16:41 · 4 answers · asked by ? 1

Do all women hate men? where i come from they do. Every male friend of mind has been abused by their mother. And the thing is that NO ONE cares, no one. There are all of these places for women and nothing to help hurt men. I have seen good men turn to rage and destroy themselves all fro mthe wrong of women. And in the end the world blames the men. When i was in kindergraden a woman had the students make a paper medallion for me out of glitter and paper. Then she made me wear it in the corner while she and the class al laughed at me. I cry even as i write this now. it is something i never forgot Ever. and why to this very day as a man women to me, all of them represent the worse. Always laughing at me and putting my down for being different, for being me. There is no one to hug me or wipe my tears. My mother never held me ever as a baby. And that too I remember and feel. Life is cold, so cold. And it was women who did this to me. Women who ignore me and judge me. always

2007-11-18 18:16:31 · 6 answers · asked by Misunderstood 2

2007-11-18 18:14:38 · 9 answers · asked by cutiepieee♥ 1

2 yrs bck i proposd to a grl in my college n thn v startd gng out, we evn made plans for marraige, n v were cmpltly in luv vid each othr.bt soon as v bth strtd to wrk, distancs startd grwng n v also strtd fightng a lot.whch usd to keep both of us v.worrd and unhappy..bt we continued..thn i met a girl(my high school frnd,who hd a crush on me in school),n i rly startd to like talkng 2 her,as our thoughts patterns used to match a lot.infct v used to say the sam thngs at the sam time, n in the evnt i startd likng her,bt at the same time i also likd my girlfriend as she was the one i had actually fallen in love.the othr girl also likes me a lot and has also proposd,bt i havn't answrd her.my currnt grlfrnd nw wnts to get marrd,bt i hav a feelng dat we will fght a lt once we get togthr,moreovr,aftr so many fghts i no longr hav the sam feelngs,bt i jus cannot let her go coz i knw tht it wud hurt her gravly,at the same time i also knw that my real happness lies with the othr grl nw,what do i do

2007-11-18 18:10:34 · 6 answers · asked by The learner 2

i think i blew it with the guy i really like. My friend got a hold of my phone and pretended to be me and told him i liked him and she sent a text round to everyone saying that i like him and we are going out. So now he isnt talking to me and he is ignoring me when did nothing it was all my friends fault. How do i explain this to him so that he will listen and forgive me and my friend?

2007-11-18 18:09:49 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

you respect a person, you like a person, you appreciate who she is, you become considerate etc but How do you give that your love for that person to accept it that you have love for her? Most folks just say I love for the sake...... just that person to here but in most cases that is only a word unless accompanied by action.

2007-11-18 18:06:30 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

if he was travelling away for a period of time.
and told you that a girl is so emotionally attached to him,and in love with him,but this girl is about to have an open heart surgery in a month.
and they have been together as a dear friend for him,but as a lover for her.
and now he confessed to you,and told u that sometimes he really thought of engaging her,coz ohis powerful sensation of sympathy.and she's in deeeeep love with him.
he couldn't really tell her that he's in love with somebody else"you".
and this girl is fantastic ,beautiful n funny,and she wouldn't bear if he told her the truth.
and he also doesn't know what to do for her?
he mistaked by makinh her attached to him,but without intend from him,but it already happenned.
what if he told her and then something bad happened to her?
and what about you yourself?
would you feel betrayed by him?
would u forgive him?
what to do?
knowing that he confessed he was wrong,and he told her from his own.and u could never know..

2007-11-18 18:03:42 · 3 answers · asked by passionate 3

What should I do in this situation? I have a girlfriend that I have been with for almost 6 months. Ever since I have been with her I have noticed this collage of pictures in her room. 2 of the pictures in this collage has her ex boyfriend in it. I do not understand why she still has them up. Please let me know what I should do...I want to ask her about them but I don't want to sound jealous or insecure.

2007-11-18 18:01:33 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

i been talking to this girl for awhile and she asked how many girls have i slept with....ive slept with alot...but like i dont want her to think im a whore...

2007-11-18 17:58:05 · 43 answers · asked by Anonymous

she is my working colleague and we alway talk a lot and help out each other so that i have been in love of her for 3 months.we went out for a dinner with another four working colleagues yesterday night and we all had a lot of drink and got drunk! after the dinner we both went home and finally i told her that i like her but she said "sorry i had a boyfriend.........."
i asked her if i still had a chance to be her boyfriend and she told me "maybe" and i abruptly kissed on her lips,she didn't refused me but kissed me back in the street....
today i sent her a e-mail for apology and i was totally forgived and she asked me to work hard from now on...............
she has a boyfriend now ,but should i still go after her ?
thank you all!

2007-11-18 17:56:29 · 17 answers · asked by Warrior 5

he has more pics of her in there than he does of me

2007-11-18 17:53:09 · 36 answers · asked by slins 3

i am a freshman in highschool and i like a junior guy. . . my guy friend talked to him and told him that i think his cute. . . then he asked him what he thinks about me, and he thinks that im cute too!!. . i wasn't suppose to find out. . .but my guy friend told me anyways

i was really scared to talk to him, but i started talking to him about a month ago, and i still feel scared to start talking to him....but once we start im not scared anymore
he smiles at me when he sees me in the hall or when i look at him....and i smile at him

2 weeks ago i got his number....(long story).......i started texting him, and he textded me.....he always apologizes when it takes him a long time to reply....
hes really funny....one massege that i got from him was like .....im moving to mukiteo, are u moving in with me? or wat? lol
it was so cute =)
but how can i tell if he is serious
...i really like him but i dont know where this is going....and if he would actually like a me, a freshmen
any advice?than

2007-11-18 17:50:24 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

THERE'S THIS GUY...WE MET AT SKOOL AND I REALLY LIKE HIM AND SOMETIMES I FEEL HE DOES 2........WHEN WE ARE GONNA SAY BYE HE IS ALWAYZ FLIRTING WITH ME AND GETS REALLY CLOSE TO ME AND I FEEL LIKE HE WANTS TO KISS ME, BUT HE DOESNT MAKE THE MOVE........PEOPLE KEEP TELLING ME THAT HE IS A BAD GUY AND HE ONLY CARES ABOUT HAVING SEX BUT I FEEL IS NOT TRUE CAUSE HE IS REALLY NICE.... IDK WAT TO THINK PLZZ I NEED ADVICE

2007-11-18 17:38:17 · 5 answers · asked by Jeniffer 2

From a ladies perspective, do you think this?

Keep in mind this is supposed to be a fun question, lol. :)

2007-11-18 17:35:03 · 41 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have this huge crush on a girl who I think is virtually perfect, physically and otherwise, but she only likes me as a friend. The problem, I think, is that I am only 5' 6" and when she talks about men she finds attractive, she always starts the description list with "tall". I think this may be the inhibiting factor. She is only about 5'2" or so, but I think she would perhaps consider me as a mate if I were taller. I would treat her like a queen, unlike all the jerks that she has dated. Can her feelings for me ever change? Can I ever be more than just a friend?

2007-11-18 17:33:34 · 8 answers · asked by Bruno 1

I'm an 18 yr old virgin, I'm kind and sometimes funny. I wanna make my family proud. I have good morals such as not smoking, stealing, drugs, drinking, sex, and etc. Well thats a little background of who I am.

I do like being myself so don't get me wrong. So what do girls hate talking about, can you give specific topics? What would be a total turn off in the tone of the guy's voice or words whether its in reality or online. Also do girls dislike guys who talk a lot but also gives them a chance to speak as well? Please I need to know what is bad and what is good.

Thanks for reading.

2007-11-18 17:33:15 · 9 answers · asked by Closed 5

I am flying home to be with my family who live on the other side of the country. I have recently started dating a new guy (for one month) and things were going fairly well. My family was interested in meeting him and had invited him to Thanksgiving dinner.
In the last two weeks of getting to know him better there have been many things about him that I have really started to dislike a lot. I don't think that it is a good idea that he goes with me to see my family (who I haven't seen in a year and a half) anymore. I told him that I would re-emburse him for the plane ticket he purchased, but he was still really upset that he couldn't go with me anymore. On top of my concerns for how I am liking him - I know that it would be an added burdon on my elderly Great-Aunt who would be hosting us. He was really upset that I just wanted to go back by myself.

Was I wrong for dis-inviting him?

2007-11-18 17:32:01 · 7 answers · asked by Lynn 4

Last night I was walking my dog, THOR, out on a patch of country road. This blue bright light came out of nowhere. I was blinded and must of passed out shortly after. I awoke 7 hours later in a dumpster and THOR was gone. I have the weirdest rash all over my body and it hurts when i make poop. Should I report this to anyone??? Please help!!!

2007-11-18 17:26:45 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous

My boyfriend says that my sex drive is too high, so I've been trying to put a lid on it to keep him happy. But sometimes his rejection makes me feel like some kind of freak for wanting to be physically close to the man I love. It's breaking my heart. What should I do?

2007-11-18 17:26:41 · 8 answers · asked by ? 2