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I'm an 18 yr old virgin, I'm kind and sometimes funny. I wanna make my family proud. I have good morals such as not smoking, stealing, drugs, drinking, sex, and etc. Well thats a little background of who I am.

I do like being myself so don't get me wrong. So what do girls hate talking about, can you give specific topics? What would be a total turn off in the tone of the guy's voice or words whether its in reality or online. Also do girls dislike guys who talk a lot but also gives them a chance to speak as well? Please I need to know what is bad and what is good.

Thanks for reading.

2007-11-18 17:33:15 · 9 answers · asked by Closed 5 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

9 answers

heey, those are qualities that are hard to find in a guy these days.most are either up in the wannabe gangster scene, stuck up prep or the dreaded party alcoholic crack head.

what to do/good:
-ask alot about her, wait to talk about yourself until she asks or the opportunity arises
-listen. really listen don't just pretend.
-talk about hobbies, what she likes to do in her spare time
-favorite songs, artists & BOOKS (we all like that intellectual guY)
-be genuine, we know when you guys are fake
-if you guys already have good chemistry then talk about movies feel her out on what kind of movies that she likes and from there ask her to kick it like, "oh you like movie? have you heard about.. let's go watch it one night." then crack a funny line in the end.
-we like the friend approach and that guys aren't always trying to get at us. i can guarantee that if you guys hit it off and the chemistry is good between the both of you, although you might start off as friends the feelings are going to grow. one thing though? you got to get the trust first.

don't do/bad:
-give your life story
-talk about your exes -a MUST NEVER DO. once
-never ever get too personal, take a hint. if she is taking a while to respond or hesitates take that clue and change the subject to something on a lighter note (you don't want to make her feel uncomfortable, once this happens -its hard to recover)

sorry i know that i wrote a novel but i just wanted to make sure that i got all the important points.

if anything?
pull out that inner confidence and we'll see it.
we commend guys that at least try
& the worst thing that could happen?
you'll gain experience for the next time.

hope some of this info helped! :D

2007-11-18 17:55:28 · answer #1 · answered by BEAUTIFUL♥ 4 · 5 0

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2015-08-06 14:48:20 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1 0

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2016-04-22 06:02:06 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Everyone's favourite topic is themselves, isn't yours? So if you want to be interesting choose the most interesting topic for any girl; namely, herself. Just introduce yourself, and start asking her questions, they don't need to be overly interesting to you, so long as the questions are about her. She will certainly find it interesting, and since you are asking all about her she will know that you are interested. Let the conversation flow, don't try to force certain topics and keep an ear out for where she wants to take it (e.g. she says "Oh, yeah I did that once when I was in Europe", she is really saying 'I went to Europe and I want to talk about that').

Besides that, just keep the conversation light and preferrably well humoured and you should be sweet. Things will take their natural progressions from there, i.e. you will like her or you wont and vice versa.

Good Luck Big Boy!!

2007-11-18 18:05:13 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 3 0

strike good conversation girls

2016-01-22 23:57:01 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Well u should be by her side when she needs it and be nice to her.This happened to me i was nice to here and always happy around her she liked this guy but then she started to see that i was better for her because i made her laugh and treated her nice so she got over that other guy and fell in love with me.

Advice if she is one of those girls that love to be around the people she likes hang out with her alot
and if shes a loner do get all touchy like hold her hand 24/7 hold her hand when u think its the right time.Also find out her intrest and dont forget to be nice to her at all times

2015-02-11 16:49:27 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

I don't like these answers. Your not answering the question. Just say jiberish. It is about confidence. Not aragence. Being humble. Like adam sandler said conversation is half the battle. How do you not come off creppy. Trying to find the opening. The biggest thing is feeling conferrable with yourself.

2014-02-06 10:44:04 · answer #8 · answered by jw 1 · 0 0

it depends on the girl. she may not like someone who talks or she might love someone who talks. A turn off for a girl is trying to make yourself sound better than you are. Just be yourself or you will end up with someone you really can't get along with

2007-11-18 17:37:19 · answer #9 · answered by animal luver 5 · 0 0

She has LOW interest in you.

Stop talking to her. You need to judge women by their actions, not by their words.

If, by some miracle, she asks you to meet up sometime, reply "Sure. What day, time and place?" If she doesn't give you all 3 things, then say "Oh well. Maybe some other time." Then delete or block her umber.

2015-02-10 05:22:46 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

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