I always encounter younger men who seemed impressed with the way I talk and now they seemed interested in me...problem is i think that these younger men are like 13-16... and i'm like 18.... what to do? what to do?
2007-11-18 18:50:57 · 10 answers · asked by littlemissred 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well, it really depends on whether you personally are OK with it. Look at Ashton Kutcher and Demi Moore for example... (27 for Ashton, 42 for Demi at marriage)
But if you're 18, and if you dislike the attention, just tell them off. personally, I think that attention from the opposite gender can be considered quite flattering, so take it as a compliment. :)
Besides, although you might look younger than you really are right now, just think about when you're older! you'll have gorgeous young guys thinking that you're younger than you actually are... :)
2007-11-18 18:56:03 · answer #1 · answered by lexie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are 18 and the males you are considering courting with are considering are under 18, then, YES, it is wrong because they are not men. They are children. Wait until the teen grows up and becomes of legal age. Until that time, courting him is against the laws of most states. What kind of financing and support could you get from courting an underaged male? Unless the circumstances were unique and he happened to be rich and famous, it is doubtful he would be able to provide adequate support for you in a family situation or in a courtship.
2007-11-18 19:05:54 · answer #2 · answered by Jess4rsake 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are of age and you are accountable at the age of 18, just like a guy.
If it were a guy, girls 13 to 16 are what is called jail bait.
Meaning you could be charged for statutory rape.
I don't see any thing wrong with women dating or even marring some one younger than they are but you MUST both be of legal age.
You are flirting with fire.
At 18 you should have the common sense to look for greener pastures.
Be realistic, 13 and 16 year old kids still need mama to wipe their noses , so to speak.
You know what to do or you wouldn't be asking.
Save yourself and go do the right thing.
You scare me.
2007-11-18 19:02:33 · answer #3 · answered by DeeJay 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Wait till they are legal, but then it doesn't really matter. My ex boyfriend is 1 year and 7 months younger than me.
2007-11-18 18:55:19 · answer #4 · answered by JLyn 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personally boys that age are usually just that - boys! Don't sweat on it too much, concentrate on the really important things you should be doing at your age, like getting a good education or a career and making a good life for yourself.
2007-11-18 18:58:53 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmm, that's interesting...no its not wrong to let younger guys to court u...i dun see the prob, 'cept that maybe 13 is abit too young....
2007-11-18 18:56:18 · answer #6 · answered by Burpee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't touch them with a 10 foot pole. Friends, fine, but dating? noooo.
2007-11-18 18:55:59 · answer #7 · answered by myleslr 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah dont get too attached to this gap
2007-11-18 18:55:13 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just wait till they're legal and then have fun!
2007-11-18 18:54:19 · answer #9 · answered by offthewall76 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cradle-robbers can go to jail !!!!!!1
2007-11-18 18:57:09 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋