I have this huge crush on a girl who I think is virtually perfect, physically and otherwise, but she only likes me as a friend. The problem, I think, is that I am only 5' 6" and when she talks about men she finds attractive, she always starts the description list with "tall". I think this may be the inhibiting factor. She is only about 5'2" or so, but I think she would perhaps consider me as a mate if I were taller. I would treat her like a queen, unlike all the jerks that she has dated. Can her feelings for me ever change? Can I ever be more than just a friend?
2007-11-18 17:33:34 · 8 answers · asked by Bruno 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Accept you status in the Friend category and move on.
2007-11-18 17:45:54 · answer #1 · answered by beffie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately for your crush feelings, seems like "just friends" is all you're going to be for awhile. She obviously isn't attracted to you in "that way" or else something more woulda happened by now.
I would just appreciate the true friendship you seem to have with her. Be a great friend and eventually she may come to find that you really are her "one & only". Sometimes, it takes people awhile to realize that looks (or height) aren't everything--especially after they have to go through kissing a lot of frogs.
2007-11-19 01:42:40 · answer #2 · answered by Lizzywiz 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Really, I had a guy that was my friend I did NOT want to date because he was not attractive in my eyes but he was fun and could dance so we always went out together but the whole thing was he was only hangn out with me to get with me and he felt like I was using him bc id never date him so we stopped being friends
2007-11-19 01:42:20 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Probably not man sorry but it sounds like you've entered the "friends zone" but hey, try hitting on other girls and she just might get a little jealous. The fact that your always there for her might just be why she isnt giving you a chance, and hey if not then there's always someone out there.
2007-11-19 01:39:29 · answer #4 · answered by Aniatario 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It probably has nothing to do with your height. Height rarely has anything to do with falling in love with someone. She doesn't have that type ofeelings for you right now.
2007-11-19 01:37:12 · answer #5 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her how you feel or just sk her out.
2007-11-19 01:36:36 · answer #6 · answered by no name 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
probably not, just give up.
2007-11-19 01:36:47 · answer #7 · answered by ninjah_pm 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
MAYBE BUT PROBLY NOT
2007-11-19 01:36:31 · answer #8 · answered by babyoutrigger99 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋