Singles & Dating - 18 November 2007

I have some close relationships with some girls at work, it's non-sexual, but rumors always spring up. It's an office, so it seems rumors abound. It's come to the point where I hesitate to do things outside of work because I am scared someone will see. But I think it's partially my fault because I am very friendly.

Yesterday I wasn't working but I was at a Thai restaurant, and I knew one of my friends at work would love to have a Thai lunch, so I texted her asking if she wanted some lunch. She said sure. So after my lunch I got some dishes to go. When I get to work, another co-worker was leaving, she asked why I was there. I didn't lie and said I was dropping lunch off to my friend. Anyways, my friend comes down, I gave her a hug, then we drove around for a little bit, catching up, I hadn't seen her in a week and I miss her. When we got back tot he parking lot two other co-workers were just getting in, and we talked to them for a little bit.

2007-11-18 21:35:54 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

I love him with all my heart and when things are good they are GREAT and when they are bad they are BAD. But i reallt cant put up with the BS......he says all the arguements are my fault and he nevers sees his own. I am always the bad guy. I mean I am not perfect but neither is he

2007-11-18 21:30:47 · 12 answers · asked by cutechi101 2

2007-11-18 21:30:09 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

I mean if you look at today's society sex seems to be taken for granted by our society. Teens are having sex for the feeling and in their stage of life their relationship is only known as puppy love since we all know they will not stay with their partner for good.

I just turned 18 last month and I'm still a virgin and proud. My friends and past school mates all got laid when they got to college. Isn't sex suppose to be something special or sacred between two people? I feel as though no one gets my body, only my one love. So why do people see it as a must even if it means doing it with someone you don't know?

Thanks for reading.

2007-11-18 21:27:31 · 34 answers · asked by Closed 5

hi all,
im miserable at the moment.saturday night my now ex boyfriend treated me like dirt,ditched me, got drunk then abused me and left me in the middle of a street to go to the clubs.he only spoke to me that night when he wasnt with his friends having fun.that next morning he wos telling me he loved me calling me asking to see me but i said no.later that morning before he woke up i broke up with him to save being hurt later when he turns 18 because i didnt trust him and didnt wana be more hurt if he cheated.he was msgn me this morning telling me he loves me and he always will and saying that he only doesnt want to be with me because he doesnt want to hurt the girl he loves and because he knew he was turning into a ********.i havent stopped being miserable..i want to just get over it and be happy,,ive been so hurt and i want it to stop i havnt stopd crying since saturday night and it hurts knowing he doesnt care and is having fun with his mates..ive loved him for 2 yrs and im so hurt

2007-11-18 21:27:18 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

theres this girl i have been talking to a lot, in real life and lot on net & phone... around 3-4 months now

this sunday she proposed me like told me she liked me etc.

but all our friends are already expecting us to be going around, and it wont be right if it comes out thats she proposed me, so i have to do it.

but the thing i just hate the whole proposal thing,
you propose someone then you stick with them, and when it gets over theres whole lot of drama, (dont get me wrong pls)

but i guess i have to do it,
well i have to make my proposal somewhat special for us, but on such short notice theres nothing much i can do.....

what i have in mind is, i talk to her alone somewhere, and tell her that we can pretend that i have proposed to her ONLY if someones asks etc (she doesnt want anyone to know, that she has proposed)
and then i can propose her maybe later and make it special, something she can remember rest of life,
so how do you propose ?

like jst tell her "i like you?"

2007-11-18 21:25:10 · 2 answers · asked by Chad 1

body and interesting personality. Is it simply the money? if he was normal, all these young girls (average age 21), wouldn't even look his way. if you're a young girl would you sleep with Hugh? be honest now please and if you would, why? i'm baffled by it...what would your family think? Hugh has slept with hundreds of beautiful girls (yes, none have been ugly or avg looking) and all this girls had mothers and dads etc..any thoughts are appreciated...Hugh lives a self-indulgent life and does nothing for chairty. he simply sleeps with girls who are young enough to be his great grand daughters and has parties in his mansion, while children starve around the world. doesn't make sense.

thanks sincerely all.

2007-11-18 21:23:47 · 20 answers · asked by curious 1

2007-11-18 21:12:46 · 11 answers · asked by silence 1

well it goes like this he went on a night with us 2 weeks ago now and my partner stupidly told him about being in 200 pounds in credit and has since got 3 credit cards thats his business but anyway he told him in confidence he has since e- mailed his mum and dad about the situation but have not replyed or spoke to him about it he also put me in it that he spoke to me about it i cant remember cause he told me when i was very drunk the thing is he has changed since he has been with his new girlfriend of just one yr he gone misserible she never lets him out and when he does go out she tell him not to drink too much she never goes out with us she is 37 and hes only 29 and under her thumb his head is still in the clouds the thing is i think his parents and his girlfriend are reporting everything to his parents about our businessso ive told him not to tell his brother anything for now on they are always looking in his bank account and asking what hes is spending the money on is this wrong?

2007-11-18 21:09:01 · 3 answers · asked by baby dust for me 5

have you noticed how when you get older the girls that use to be hot in school now look ugly, and the girls that look okish in school, now look amazing, and the girls who looked ugly in school now look okish.?

2007-11-18 21:01:34 · 27 answers · asked by dreammuncher 1

Hi , i caught my bf chatting with another gal saying that he is single and everything.. I made a such a big hoo ha.. He say i am too sensative and i over reacted.. did i...

2007-11-18 20:55:02 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

if you had magical powers?

what would you do to men/women?

what would you change?

2007-11-18 20:49:50 · 11 answers · asked by dreammuncher 1

A guy at my school (university) asked me out and we went out a couple of times and I really fell in love with him, but then he tells me he is in a period of his life where he wants to be free, and that he is not ready for a relationship. I'm not ready either but I know he is "the one" and the chance of ever meeting someone like that again probably doesn't exist.
I can't tell him how I feel because that's exactly what scares him away, so what am I going to do?

2007-11-18 20:47:03 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

How many of you wish that the cruise ship sunk on the first day it sailed?

2007-11-18 20:43:13 · 12 answers · asked by Protik Maitra 6

well, i'm still 15, and been kissed yet. but why do i like to be kissed so0o0o0o0o bad?!?!??!?!!!?!?!?!!!! i'm kind of freaking out here, starting to think something's wrong with me because of this feeling that i have!!! can someone pllllzzz help me?!?!!!

i mean i'm starting to think that liking to be kissed is not a good thing! is that true?!?!?!!????!!

2007-11-18 20:42:09 · 8 answers · asked by someone 1

i read this and couldn't help but almost wet myself!..

cheesy pickup line:

"Screw me if I'm wrong, but don't you want to kiss me?"

its so stupid bahahahahaha!

2007-11-18 20:37:34 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

what will u do if some one told u that he loves u but u dont love him and u dont want to heart him and u want to still friends??!!!!

2007-11-18 20:33:37 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-11-18 20:30:44 · 13 answers · asked by Mossy 2

She has lied about her age.Lied about liking this other guy.
and now she asked for a break for now,yet she's already got plans to hang out with some dude to go skateboarding,when we had plans she decided to go ahead and cancel them.What the hell am i supposed to do?I've already told the dumb *** guy who is trying to take her from me to find his own girl

2007-11-18 20:24:39 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

ok, they always say "insecurity" and "low self-esteem" is the root of all jealousy. so work on your self-esteem, right? but surely it is unreasonable to believe that you are the BEST lover your partner could ever have, and that your partner could NEVER leave you, and that you are THE MOST attractive person around... B***S*** i say!
everyone has to live with the RISK of being rejected, and the knowledge that we are not perfect, there are always going to be other people around who your partner could run off with.
so, what do we do? how do you improve your own sense of "security" , and your self esteem. surely this does not mean we should create a DELUSION that we will never be rejected or upstaged by another?

2007-11-18 20:17:30 · 12 answers · asked by jay dee 1

In August, a mutual friend hooked me up with a girl who I immediately fell for! And she immediately fell for me! We started dating full speed ahead. She was more at the wheel than I was... wanting me to focus on her and be a one-woman man, etc. I complied with no problem! She even introduced to her parents and I met up with them on several occasions. She would call or text me every morning to say hello and we hung out 4 times a week.

As time went on, she confessed she'd gotten out of a year-long live-in relationship with a guy who was verbally abusive. They'd stopped dating three months prior. Normally that would scare me, but I took a gamble and stuck it out.

Then one day, she broke up with me. Sobbed and said she couldn't do it and thought she was ready. A week later, she took me back and was full-speed ahead with me again. Then after another couple weeks, she dumped me again out fear. I obviously know I should move on, but I miss her badly! What do I do? Advice. No punks, please

2007-11-18 20:07:54 · 19 answers · asked by friendinneed76 2

gotta practice my twister skills or i'll get rusty and i cant have that...

would you like to come over 4 a game or two with me??

2007-11-18 20:06:51 · 9 answers · asked by Maximus_Decimus_Meridius 4

i have noticed for a fact that girls of today, only want money , good looks, and guys who are fair, and have no consideration for care, affection and support

should i resort to treating women below the line, ???? cause i tried being nice but nice just doesnt work

2007-11-18 20:02:46 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous

Today I went out and I went to the bookstore in Borders... As I was going down the escalator, he was going up and waved and said "hello" to me and I said "hey" back, and I couldn't really continue seeing I was going down and he was going up. And then later on weirdly, I met him again for the second time. That never happened before and I didn't notice till he yelled at me because he was in the car, and then he smiled at me and I smiled back. What kind of fool is he? After that he just left. He could have continued the conversation. If he wasn't interested, then he shouldn't have done any of those things at all. What is the point? Why can't guys approach me? Why do they always give chances to other girls that are gonna break their heart and then groan saying nice guys finish last? It pisses me off! What else am I supposed to do? Finally a decent guy who I was attracted to bravely made a contact... and we even met twice on the same day... and he didn't ask me out...

2007-11-18 20:00:47 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

I think I figured out why this is, I'm Japanese and when I first saw Lord of the Rings I kept telling myself "wait didn't that white guy with the beard just die in the last scene"...but then when I came to the States and spent more time around whites, I realized that they look really different. The point is I think that the more time you spend submerged in a certain culture, the more you will notice the differences of the individual. Has anyone not found this true? Although there maybe certain groups of people that look alike due to intribe marriages. Also I think the reason why whites may seem very different is because Europe has so many small countries and the people in the mixed around areas but the original people of that area would look similar. And in America..well its comprised of all different sorts of Europeans. If you traveled to the north and south of China or Japan, it would be the same it's just because the area is so vast people tend to stay around the same places.

2007-11-18 19:56:37 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

Here is the situation. I am dating someone who I have to let go. When we first started dating it was every once in awhile. She is a nice woman who is looking for love, but she also one of the most boring people I know. Ironically, although boring, she is passionate about putting the pressure on me to get married (mind you we are both divorced). She wants to have another child (she has one and I have two from prev relationships) and I dont want anymore children. For the last couple of months I have been debating on how to let her know that my heart is not in it anymore, but I usually chicken out at the last minute. The one thing I know is that I cannot start the New Year dating this woman anymore. Any suggestions on how to gracefully bow out would be appreciated. I wanted to tell her that I was moving out of state, but knowing her she would quit her job and follow right after. Please help!!!!!!! :-(

2007-11-18 19:53:05 · 4 answers · asked by gatlic1 1

i had this dream that i shot my gf with a shot gun through her torso, is this weird? i thought i loved her

2007-11-18 19:37:08 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

I just recently got out of a long relationship with a 19 year old girl who went off to college. Im a 22 year old guy who goes to college and bartends and lives at home. The girl I like I've known for a while, and she is also another bartender who works with me at a little dive bar in my hometown. We started hanging out and stuff and I now find myself really falling for her. She said she likes me too but shes a hard person to get let her guard down and is scared of wht people will say about our ages. Shes 33 looks alot younger but I can sit and talk to her for hours like noone else. Do girls fall for younger guys? should i keep trying? or get out before i get myself hurt?

2007-11-18 19:31:28 · 4 answers · asked by Zip8731 3

I was dating this guy for 4 years he did a lot of bad things to me but i thought i was so much in love with him. I finally met a guy who I been with for a year that i love very much we have a problems but he never put me threw as much as my ex did. even though he did hurt me I do still love him i don't wanna turn my back on him now when he needs me the most but I don't like him in that way but it might start drama i don't know if something bad was to happen to him I wouldnt want to leave off on bad terms should I be his friend even though he wants more are should i let it go?

2007-11-18 19:12:34 · 15 answers · asked by Barbie 1

ok my parents don't care if i sneak out im 15 and the girl is 14 btw and i can get on her railing and get her down off the roof but THE THING is her dad is like 40 and he is like a bad *** army guy and if i got caught he would like kill me what should i do

2007-11-18 19:07:54 · 13 answers · asked by Eric C 1