I just recently got out of a long relationship with a 19 year old girl who went off to college. Im a 22 year old guy who goes to college and bartends and lives at home. The girl I like I've known for a while, and she is also another bartender who works with me at a little dive bar in my hometown. We started hanging out and stuff and I now find myself really falling for her. She said she likes me too but shes a hard person to get let her guard down and is scared of wht people will say about our ages. Shes 33 looks alot younger but I can sit and talk to her for hours like noone else. Do girls fall for younger guys? should i keep trying? or get out before i get myself hurt?
2007-11-18 19:31:28 · 4 answers · asked by Zip8731 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hmmm
Girls do fall for younger guys. Actually, you're talking about women ... now you mention she's 33.
I've gone out with a woman who was 7 years older than me, and one 5 years older than me. Now I am currently dating a woman who is 1 year older than me.
I've never been in a relationship where the age gap has been as big as 11 years. There are people in that kind of relationship and some people make them work.
This isn't to say that you and her ARE going to work out. There are a lot of issues.
The woman who was 5 years older than me was VERY paranoid about the difference in ages and the fact that she was older. She was very vain and obsessed with her appearance ... which was good in some ways but in other ways proved to be one of the main causes of the downfall of the relationship.
It'll depend on what sort of person you both are, and how the two of you interact together.
2007-11-18 19:34:14 · answer #1 · answered by Orinoco 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
30 year old women are the reason older men chase after 18 year olds. An older woman has lots of experience with men being boys. If you're a man, being a man, she'll also see that quality, which I bet is why she's even entertaining the idea of dating you. If you're serious, let her know that you are, but stay away from the physical stuff, leave that for later, she'll respect that you're not just after a quick hit. Most guys your age are too immature for an adult woman, they want girls, actually they need girls, because they can't deal with an emotional better or equal. Good luck
2007-11-18 19:36:58 · answer #2 · answered by thickwaistedman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It all depends if she feels the same way for you. You should get to know her better but try to not fall so fast until you find out if she likes you no matter your age.
2007-11-18 19:40:59 · answer #3 · answered by Cosita_Rica 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It all depends if he is mature. But sweety LOVE doesn't have an AGE. Do what your heart really wants? If your happy then try and see how far it goes.
2007-11-18 19:37:03 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋