Are black men arrogant? Please answers from black women only.?

Question

Recently there are alot of messages being posted by black men, who are making comments that they are only interested in dating hispanic or white women, because they are just more attracted to them. Of course all of the spanish and white women had something rude to say, or made rude comments toward black women.

The feeling from everyone(non-black women) is that black women are angry about the fact that spanish women and white women are dating black men. Now my question to black women is that, do you feel that the reason black men are asking questions like this is to excite some type of uproar between black women and those that are non-black, as we have seen before. I have asked this question but only to understand the logic that black men and other people are using when they ask questions like this. Is the black man asking these type of questions to bring attention to himself in any way. And, black women how do you feel when ignorant spanish and white women make comments about us?
11 months ago
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11 months ago

Do you feel that you have been wrongly sterotyped? I for one could care less about how many spanish or white women date black men. I believe that alot of them do go after our men and want us to be upset about it. As a successful, beautiful black woman, who owns my own car and house, with a master's degree I am not very concerned. Black women how do you feel about the subject?

Answer 1

Forget them. Those are the same hypocritical idiots that get mad if a black girls dates outside their race. They'll get a wake up call when the African-American population starts shrinking. I've never seen such a bunch of idiots in my life. The self-hatred is so strong in the men who purposely leave their race; just so they can have light-skinned children with "good" hair. How would anyone respect a race that doesn't honor and respect itself? Then they start talking about black pride and other garbage. And YES, a good number of black men are very arrogant.

Answer 2

I'm a white woman, and I feel compelled to answer your question because you said that all the white women here made rude comments about black women, and that's not true; at least as far as I'm concerned; I replied to several questions about black men since my fiance is black, and I never ever disrespected black women; on the contrary I said that black women are much more beautiful than white ones and that black people in general have stronger values, so I feel really flattered that my man actually picked me. You may go and check all my replies to racial questions if you wish, and see that I said no lie. I have a deep respect for black people, and I'm sorry if me dating a black man upsets some black women, or if a black man like you thinks that every white woman thinks bad of black women, because that's not fair. About black men being arrogant: not at all. Peace.

Answer 3

well form observation the majority of white and spanish women that go after black men don't go after good black men. They go after the kind of black men that would bring a successful, beautiful black woman down. So when I see a black man with a white women I'm usaully looking at a black man that I would'nt give the time of day to. In so many words, I don't care. lmao

Answer 4

Some black men are arrogant, and some aren't. Some black men date outside of their race, because they don't like who they are. Some date outside their race because that's just who they fell in love with. Some black men talk hatefully and rude about black women, because their holding on to things from their past. Other black men realize that just because the women they grew up around were one way, doesn't mean every black woman in the world is that way.

As a woman holding a master's degree who is independent and successful, you are wise enough and smart enough to recognize those men from miles away. Why get hung up on what they like and what their doing with their lives? Let them be with whoever they want to be with, and don't take their criticism and immature views to heart. When I read and hear things like that, I think "ok" and move on about my buisness. I just think, okay, that's one less ignorant man I have to deal with.

Answer 5

You already answered your first question!

***Now my question to black women is that, do you feel that the reason black men are asking questions like this is to excite some type of uproar between black women and those that are non-black, as we have seen before.***

Yes i believe they only get behind a computer screen and post comments like this....just to start sh!t. And the stupid women who entertain them are just as ignorant. So if a non-black women is naive enough to believe that EVERY signle black women gives damn about black men. Then that just tells you that this is what they "wan't" to believe. I don't know if it boost their confidence or self esteem or what. But really they are doing black women and HUGE favor by dating or so they say, "taking" our men. It's just that some black women still haven't woke up and realized this. Black women need to realize that there are so many good non-black men out there, that have so much more to offer them.

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Answer 7

To be honest, I don't care who black men date. If they choose white and spanish women over black women, they can do so.
But it would be a waist of time for us black women to sit down and care about who they date. We should do the exact same. Why don't we date white and spanish men ? Some black men do not care about us, we should not care about them either. You shouldn't limit yourself honey, the world is too small for that

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Answer 9

Finally some black women here listed with some sense! Instead of brushing away the issue, let me give you a view of my life experience. I grew up thinking a beautiful strong proud black man would be the one for me. i grew up with people like my father thinking that all black men would respectable like him. little did i know when i grew up that I realized that most black men really have this problem with Hating themselves and their women. Period. They can date whoever they want but it's why most of them do and what they say to us, talking about weaves, not light enough, stereotyping there own women saying we fuss and on and on. I've even heard many and even black celebrities say they wouldn't never go to bed with a nappy headed woman. (true!) if this is what they think of black hair, what do you think is on your head! anyway, all i have gotten from black men is arrogance, and stupidity (dating me cause i am light)color struck and bigotry between their own race.men who think how big between your legs is all that counts.(which is a BIG FAT MYTH! SICK OF IT!)They may not all be like that, I'm hoping but this is true. So yes good riddance for the black men who think that way and black women wake up and stop dealing with this crap we put up for years any date anybody, any race, black, white, asian, indian, find someone who really loves you expand that possibility. I have and it's a shame to say but the white men i have dated appreciated me for who i was, not just color. they can see I'm black. black men didn't even give a chance to get to know me because all that crap. this is an absolute disgrace, amd I'm just sick of them. (who are like that.) woman of other races if you want them you can have them! Please!
I thank all the BROTHERS who are not like that and have great respect and pride for their own kind and are making a difference in the world.

Answer 10

To most people...black women are at the bottom of the society rung. Our men don't respect us, so other men of other races don't either. We continue to compromise our beauty with skin lighteners and ridiculous weaves (blond anyone), so other women see that we don't view ourselves as beautiful...so why should they.

Black men have been brainwashed. they think light skin, long hair, light eyes are the simplistic and singular definition of beauty. it is not. They also see that other women are easier to control. we are not.


they can be...but any man that thinks like that is not worth fighting for. I am currently dating an Israeli man...because black men think i am too much work.

I am worth the effort, and while i love my black brothers, i refuse to lower my standards.