when I am around this guy I really like? I'm usually a really relaxed person but when I'm around him I totally lose control of myself! He has tried saying hi to me a couple times but I always freeze and don't really say much at all. I try really hard to play it cool, but he probably takes it as me just being a snob or not interested. How do I let him know I like him and make sure he doesn't just give up on talking to me altogether?
2007-11-18 17:06:56 · 5 answers · asked by Madeline Rae 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The next time he talks to you, just take a deep breath, and relax, and then try to talk to him. Just explain that you aren't trying to be snobby, or that you aren't not interested, you are just really shy. And if you still can't talk to him, write him a letter explaining things. Also, try smiling back at him, and if you are feeling a little flirtatious, give him a wink. But what ever you do, DON'T get any of your friends to talk to him for you, because A) that makes you look bad, and B) your friend might like him too, and say bad things about you to him. Good luck with the guy! :)
2007-11-18 17:18:17 · answer #1 · answered by southern_angel_200718 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You may need to build up your confidence a bit and I will give you a good site for that. As you build up your confidence you will find it easier to talk to him and perhaps others as well. Good Luck to you.
2007-11-19 01:17:24 · answer #2 · answered by Al B 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just smile if hes just looking at you and if it helps write him a note explaining why you dont talk, it will prolly help him understand that you like him, u just cant talk because your shy
hope i helped!
2007-11-19 01:13:39 · answer #3 · answered by no name 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try to hang out get to know him when is the time tell him
2007-11-19 01:13:22 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
be nice
2007-11-19 01:09:53 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋